The environment will not change people, it will only influence them, and the initiative is always in your own hands.

Many people like to say, "It's not me that's wrong, it's the world." In fact, the world is really not against you, unless you are Makoto Ito.

From this perspective, it doesn’t actually matter what platform you use to find someone; what matters is the way you find someone.

1. Online platforms are just a form

“People are always used to escaping from one desert and looking for another. Only when they get there do they realize that all deserts are the same.”

This passage from Jin Yong can be given to those friends who are frustrated in love in real life, so they try to find love on the Internet——

If you can’t master the method, then even if you go online, you It's still hard to get what you want.

Isn’t it? The process of making friends online is generally as follows:

Look at photos - strike up a conversation - chat - invite.

This is actually no different from the traditional love model, except that through the screen, some boys and girls who are usually not good at socializing have a buffer, so that the other party will not see your embarrassment.

But this is only short-lived. As the communication deepens, the frequency of your reply messages, your communication attitude, your choice of words, and your method of handling embarrassing situations will all reveal your emotional intelligence and cultivation.

People who can accept you will continue to communicate with you, and those who cannot accept you will be treated coldly - just like in reality.

Social software is just a love platform, and you are the one who falls in love.

Of course, the virtual nature of social networking sites does make it easier for people with evil intentions to commit fraud. Before we talk about how to find a partner on the website, let’s briefly talk about how to prevent scams.

2. Correct your mentality, you are here to find a partner, not for fun

My old lady has a famous saying: If you are not greedy, you will not be cheated.

Isn’t it? Why would anyone believe ads that are so clumsy, such as "Spent a lot of money to have a baby" and "You can earn tens of thousands a month with just a few clicks of your fingers"?

The reason is simple, greedy.

Faced with temptation (interest, honor, beauty, or accommodation) or threat, people will briefly be immersed in a huge sense of satisfaction and fear, thereby losing their basic ability to judge - and This is how scammers succeed.

There are so many deceptive methods on dating websites that it is difficult to identify them one by one.

Fortunately, "When driving a boat, you don't need to know where there are coral reefs, you just need to know which roads are safe."

Apply to love. : Correct your mentality! You are here to find a partner, not to play.