Friendship is reliable in other matters, but cannot be trusted in love; so lovers use their own lips and tongue. Whoever is alive, let him convey his feelings himself, and never ask anyone else to do it for him; for beauty is a witch, and under her magic, loyalty will dissolve in passion. ——Shakespeare

Friendship neither requires slaves nor allows rulers. Friendship loves equality. ——Gonchakov

It is insulting to show disdain for other people's happiness. ——Margaret Yourcenar

The best effort of friendship is not to show a friend our flaws, but to make him see his own flaws. ——La Rochefoucauld You can never take out your heart without knowing the other party’s details.

——Balzac

The famous American test pilot Hoover once flew back to Los Angeles. More than 90 meters above the ground, two engines happened to fail at the same time. Fortunately, he was highly skilled. , the plane miraculously landed. Hoover immediately checked the aircraft oil. As he expected, the propeller plane he was driving was filled with jet oil. When he summoned the mechanic responsible for maintenance, the other party had already He was so frightened that he cried. At this time, Hoover did not get angry as everyone expected. Instead, he stretched out his arms, hugged the maintenance man's shoulders, and said confidently: "To prove that you can do a good job, I would like to ask you to do a good job tomorrow." Help me do maintenance work on my plane." From then on, Hoover's plane never made any mistakes again, and the careless maintenance man became conscientious and meticulous. This story is touching. Although the maintenance man's mistake almost cost him his life. Hoover, who lost his life but was kind-hearted, deeply understood the psychology of the person at fault. When the other person was in great pain because something went seriously wrong, he was considerate, self-restrained, and unexpectedly comforted, restoring his self-confidence and self-esteem. This is kindness. The huge power. Just imagine, if Hoover angrily rebuked the maintenance man, or even held him accountable relentlessly, he would probably be completely destroyed. It can be seen that facing the same thing, with two different attitudes If you treat them differently, you will have a very different outcome. Being friendly can make big things smaller, and turning small things into smaller things will not only treat others well, but also benefit yourself