1. Don’t let your family become a doormat

Nowadays, life is fast-paced. Many times when we encounter unhappiness at work or in life, we will complain to our family members or make mistakes. Emotions are brought home. The author believes that it is understandable to complain and vent appropriately, but remember to stop it in moderation and do not let your family become a doormat.

2. Care for each other, be considerate of each other, and praise each other more

This is especially important for wives. Different from the ancient times when "men took care of the outside and women took care of the house", women in the new era often "take care of both the inside and the outside", "the hall and the kitchen", and "the family on the left and the career on the right". Therefore, a husband should care more about his wife, be considerate of her, and praise her more, and she will definitely care more about you and repay you! Remember not to always use words such as "a wife should do what she wants" and "unreasonable" to deal with her wife's occasional outbursts.

Speaking of which, let me tell you what happened yesterday.

The author’s sister posted on WeChat Moments that it was probably a couple quarreling, which made two babies cry, and she was in a terrible mood. After listening to what my sister said, I feel that the situation my sister faces is something that many wives can relate to.

My sister and her husband started a small business of their own. They had just started their business and had many and complicated things to do. They had no rest all day long. Under such circumstances, the two of them would quarrel over some work matters. Over time, they would quarrel, and they would break out yesterday.

My sister said that everything she did was considered appropriate by her husband, and that it was her duty to do the right thing. If she made a small mistake, her brother-in-law would get angry, which made her feel very wronged. "When a child does something right, the teacher will reward him with a little red flower; when an adult scolds a child, he will give him a candy." Although my sister's words are not necessarily correct, they express her grievances.

3. Praising children and cultivating their self-confidence

Today’s parents are much better than their predecessors. Most of the children from childhood are very cheerful and confident. Now that you can see it, there’s no need to say more. I’ll just give you an example.

An Lingrong in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" has low self-esteem and strong jealousy. He single-handedly destroyed the sisterhood with Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang, making everyone hate her. In the editor's opinion, there were too many negative factors in An Lingrong's growth environment, and the lack of guidance that could make her stronger was an important reason for her sensitive personality, low self-esteem, intolerance and scheming. If her childhood could be praised, With encouragement, maybe her life would not be so bleak. Her sentence "It's because I don't deserve it" also made many viewers feel sorry for her while hating her.

Home is our warm harbor and strong backing; and family members depend on each other. I hope everyone will pay more attention to, understand and praise their families more!