One sentence from the true scripture, thousands of false scriptures - the way to live in the world

1. Happiness is achieved through struggle

1. Face it When you are confused, anxious, or even afraid, please choose the difficult path and do what you are afraid of doing, and then you will be pleasantly surprised to find that it is nothing more than that.

2. Experiencing pain is meaningless, thinking about pain is truly valuable.

3. Luck is often the excuse of the weak and the humility of the strong.

4. If you cannot become the master of your mentality, you will inevitably become a slave of your emotions.

5. If life is in the wrong direction, stopping is progress.

6. Life can be without many things, but it cannot be without hope.

7. No one will suddenly stop loving you, it’s just that you suddenly know it.

8. It is recommended to always believe in love, but it is not recommended to believe that love will last forever.

2. God will help those who help themselves

1. Staying up late will really make you look ugly.

2. Regular physical examination, regular physical examination, regular physical examination, say important things three times!

3. If you lose money, you can make it again. If your body collapses, you will really have nothing. Health is really important.

4. When I was a child, I always thought that I would be brilliant in the future, but later I realized that it takes a lot of effort to live as an ordinary person.

5. The three views are used to restrain oneself, not to examine others.

6. Don’t tell a person everything as soon as you get acquainted with him. In other words, don't talk too much.

7. Don’t pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness and start living alone with the real me.

8. Most of the disappointments in this world are because we have not become better ourselves, but expect others to become better others.

9. Don’t try to reason with people who don’t understand you.

10. Some things cannot be done just by trying your best.

11. The answer is not what the question was asked, but it is actually the answer.

12. People who work too hard cannot run far. What really sticks to the end is not passion, but just the right amount of love and devotion.

13. Among the accusations and criticisms made by others, the ones that hurt you the most are often those things that you also think so.

14. Be more insensitive and less sensitive, and you will be much happier.

15. Even if the earth is round, those who miss it will not come back.

16. People cannot change forever, but the conditions in the past have not reached the point of change.

17. Two things that hinder our freedom: living in the past and living in the eyes of others.

18. Going to nightclubs, getting tattoos, and getting drunk may seem cool, but in fact they are not difficult. You can do it as long as you are willing to do it. What is cooler should be those things that are not easy to do, such as reading books, exercising, and loving someone with all your heart.

19. What you are not willing to do immediately may be the thing you should do most.

20. Change the thought of "Why did this happen to me?" to "What do you want to teach me when this happens?" You will find that everything is slowly changing.

21. Decline requests at the outset that may not be possible.

22. Don’t make any noise until something is done. If it doesn't work, just tell it. If it fails, it will be a slap in the face; if it works, others won't be surprised. But if you talk about it after you have done it, others will not only be surprised, but also believe that you are a person who can do great things.

23. Real reading and traveling are not very literary things, but very hard things. That’s why there are such terms as hard reading and hard travel, because truly beneficial reading and traveling should be broad-minded. The purpose of your own vision and knowledge is to get in touch with content that you have never been exposed to before, and to step into areas that you do not know. This kind of broadening is bound to make people uncomfortable.

24. Not being too concerned or too involved in other people’s private affairs, and allowing others to have different moral values ??and lifestyles from your own will eliminate more than 90% of the troubles in the world.

25. Saving an appropriate amount of money can reduce your stress and give you more confidence when making some important decisions.

26. Others can laugh at themselves, but you must not follow them.

27. There are many shortcuts in this world, but no matter what, hard work is always the shortest way.

28. Staying away from annoying people is also one of the secrets to enjoying a happy life.

29. When you grow up, you will find that the so-called peaceful years are nothing more than the bowl of hot soup at home and the light that is always on for you.

30. Respecting yourself is very important. Many people are used to giving in in relationships, suppressing their own needs, and doing everything they can to be good to others. But over time, the "sensible" self was not valued and cherished by the other party, so I lamented that I was not kind to others. Slowly I realized that if people want to establish a close and reciprocal relationship, an important prerequisite is to respect themselves.

3. A wise man will not be confused, a benevolent man will not worry, and a brave man will not be afraid

1. There are many right and wrongs among idle people, and a busy person can solve a thousand worries.

2. Don’t ramble on endlessly. The more you talk, the less weight it will have, unless your words are all practical.

3. Whether a man is worth marrying should not only be judged by his pursuit of you, but also by how he treats you and resolves conflicts when you have conflicts.

4. Youth is not capital, health is. If you quit staying up late, your energy, energy, and spirit will be better than 80% of people, and whatever you do will go more smoothly.

5. Don’t be misled by the saying “you will make money only if you know how to spend money” and engage in uncontrolled consumption. Stay away from advance consumption such as credit cards, Huabei, and online loans, so as to avoid falling into debt crisis.

6. The collision of ideas makes it easier to increase cognition and insight. It never hurts to communicate with more people, get to know more different people, and read more books.

7. It is never too late to start. Age is not a problem. There is a priority in learning the Tao and a specialization in the art.

8. Reduce the output of uncertain words such as "probably", "maybe", and "maybe". These words often appear because you are not sure enough about your own expression. Especially when reporting work, be precise to numbers and don’t be vague about concepts. Otherwise, the leader will only think that you are not capable enough.

9. Don’t let work take up all your time and energy. In addition to work, you should leave some time for yourself to think, study, live, and exercise.

10. Give yourself 10 minutes to review and 10 minutes to meditate every day.

11. Don’t set limits for yourself and don’t give up before you start. No, if you haven’t done it before, then first observe how others do it. You can check the information yourself. Try to do it yourself first, and then talk after you do it. Don’t just ask, think about whether you have done it before. Similarly, if you ask questions every step of the way, no one will have so much time to deal with you, and others have their own things to do; only by challenging yourself in ways you don't know how to do can you grow faster.

12. Time may not necessarily see people’s hearts, but more communication will help you see people’s hearts better.

13. For clothes and the like, you can appropriately reduce the quantity, improve the quality, and form your own style. You can think back on whether you wear those few pieces back and forth, and the others are basically worn once in a while or even at the bottom of the box.

14. Kindness with a bottom line is true kindness. Kindness without a bottom line will either cause trouble for yourself or others.

15. Face is earned by oneself, not given by others.

16. If you don’t find a way to create the life you want, you will eventually have to spend a lot of time and energy dealing with the life you don’t want.

17. Don’t always complain to others about your hardships and difficulties. In the adult world, who can get rid of these words? There are some things that you just need to know. It might just be a joke to say it, because in the eyes of some people, those things are not worth mentioning.

18. When encountering a problem, the first thing to think about is the solution, rather than shirk responsibility or complain.

19. When you feel anxious and confused, stop and think about where you have the problem. If you really can’t find the answer, take action. Read more books and learn. Use these skills to fill up your time.

20. The current state of many people is: indirect complacency, continuous eating and waiting to die, severe procrastination, poor execution, and insufficient cognitive ability. Cultivate yourself a hobby, cultivate your concentration, read more books, whatever you think of doing, do it first and then finish it today.

21. Regarding connections, it does not depend on how many people you know, or who you please, or your identity, but on your own value. Interpersonal communication = value exchange.

22. If you are appropriately thick-skinned, you will gain more than others. For example, ask questions, ask classmates, ask teachers, ask seniors. If you know how to ask and dare to ask, you can find solutions to problems faster. For example, if you are too thin-skinned to get a promotion or raise your salary, and you don’t dare to compete or talk to your boss, then you just watch others get promoted and get a raise. For example, if you are thin-skinned and don't dare to confess to the person you like, then just watch him become someone else's lover.

23. No matter who you are in front of, as long as you don’t owe him or her anything, there is no need to be submissive.

24. Don’t compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others, that is self-destruction.

25. Don’t talk or make decisions when you are irritable. Stay quietly for a while, or practice calligraphy to divert your attention.

26. When you are angry or losing your temper, you must refrain from saying hurtful words to the other person. Bad words can hurt someone, unless you are prepared for strangers. The reaction when angry is also one aspect that reflects a person's quality.

27. Only by accepting your imperfections and recognizing yourself can you live a better life.

28. The adult world is very busy. No one has too much time and energy to pay attention to you. There is no need to worry about tension or embarrassment. No one will remember it.

29. If you do things with a goal, you will have a higher chance of succeeding.

30. When doing good deeds, you should do good things within your own scope. Don’t help others and hurt yourself. For example, when borrowing money, you need to weigh it carefully.

31. No matter who you go to, it is always better to bring some gifts or fruits than to go empty-handed. Another thing to say is the kind of neighbor who visits every day.

32. Even if it is a world of two, don’t give up your hobbies when you are alone, and persist in your thinking when you are alone. Keep the independence of being alone, stay together if you like it, and turn around calmly if you don't like it.

33. When chatting, talk about things that others care about and things that everyone understands, otherwise it will become your one-sided complaint.

Ding Jungui

April 11, 2021