Recently, I was reading Feng Tang's Mind Method of Getting Things Done by Teacher Feng Tang, and I benefited a lot and felt deeply.

Especially after reading the nine-character mantra summarized by Feng Tang, I feel empathy.

in the new year, try to get closer to these nine characters.

don't worry, as the name implies, that is to say, don't rush for success, don't rush for a moment, be patient and lonely.

Living in this fast-paced materialistic era, many people are too anxious to do things, and always want to have a good result with a little time and energy.

once you persist for a period of time and don't see a good result, you choose to give up. Then start looking for direction again, and start at zero.

I don't know that if you want to have a satisfactory result in some things, you can't rush for the moment and rush for success.

there is a saying: fast is slow, and slow is fast.

as long as we firmly believe that our direction and methods are right, what's the harm of being a little harder? As long as we move forward steadily, step by step slowly, and accumulate to a certain extent, there will be a qualitative leap.

As the saying goes, when people are in a hurry, it is easy to make mistakes and make chaos.

It took Jia Ling four years to make a recently popular film, Hi, Mom.

It took Mai Jia eight years to write a book "Sea of Life";

When Chu Shijian was in his seventies, he began to plant oranges that would take six years to bear fruit, and then he got the "Chu Orange" ...

Don't worry, don't be impetuous, settle down and do something, and stick to it, there is no guarantee of success, but he will not disappoint his heart after all.

Life is an unpredictable process. If you stay in the comfort zone all the time and live a comfortable life, you will unconsciously derail from society and even be eliminated by society.

Therefore, we should try to change, explore and seek new knowledge.

don't be afraid to encounter storms on the road you haven't traveled. Sometimes it is the storms on the road that make us grow and change.

As a song goes, the sunshine is always behind the storm!

Give yourself some courage, try more, work harder and persist more, and you will eventually meet a better yourself.

before Dong Qing became a famous host of CCTV, he was already famous in Shanghai TV station.

But at the age of 29, she got up the courage and chose to drift north alone to go to CCTV.

However, she chose to gradually accumulate hosting experience, internalize her skills and constantly improve her professional level.

xinguang doesn't ask the passer-by, and time pays off.

Later, through his own efforts, Dong Qing finally stood on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with high morale and grace.

Born as a human being, we are always afraid of the uncertainty brought by every change, but we often grope our way forward in the uncertainty before we can grow into that tough and brave self.

I remember a famous saying: excessive self-esteem makes us more sensitive, self-bound, and finally we can't appreciate the joy of life.

In other words, if a person cares too much about the so-called face, he will only get farther and farther away from his true self.

I am deeply impressed!

face is really worthless, but there are many people who can't put down their shelves for the so-called worthless face.

In the TV series "Everything is Fine" starring Yao Chen, eldest brother Su Mingzhe is the best example of saving face and suffering.

Although he is a high flyers, he is too high-minded to be low-minded. When his family is not well-off, he forcibly refuses to listen to his wife's advice, slaps his face and pretends to buy a house for his father, and exaggerates his ability and strength in front of his family.

But at the critical moment of handing over the money, I was so sad that I couldn't come up with so much money. Finally, my sister Su Mingyu came out to help clean up the mess.

There is no denying that there are many "Su Mingzhe" in real life. In order to save face, they make themselves embarrassed inside and outside, and life gets worse.

Actually, life is your own. There is really no need to live in other people's mouths and eyes for the sake of so-called face.

If we put down our airs and face, we will be much more relaxed, comfortable and happy.

when people reach a certain age, they should learn to be shameless.

of course, when I say shameless, I don't mean to lose my bottom line and dignity, but not to care too much about other people's opinions and statements.

The bold and true live high is an emphasis on life.

Conclusion:

Don't worry, don't be afraid, be shameless, simple nine words, but it's really not easy to do it.

Life is a practice. I believe that as long as we constantly adjust our mentality, accumulate experience, recognize ourselves and realize life in the process of practice, these nine-word mantra will slowly flow into our hearts and nourish our lives like a clear spring.

I'm Mei Zi. I'll share more wonderful things with you, so stay tuned.