A few years ago, a colleague at my former unit received a call from a stranger, claiming to be a staff member of a certain hospital, saying that his son had been in a car accident and urgently needed 20,000 yuan for surgery. When he heard that he wanted to quickly remit money to a certain account, he became anxious and panicked. He couldn't get through when calling his son's mobile phone. After discussing it with his wife, he hurried to the bank to go through the remittance procedures. After thinking about it afterwards, I was always worried, so I called the dormitory of my son who was studying in college out of town. I was told that his son was reading in the library. I hurriedly reported the crime, but it was too late. Twenty thousand yuan a month was not a small sum in those days. At that time, our monthly salary was only a few hundred yuan.
?Many times, the best strategy is to observe changes quietly and treat by doing nothing. At this time, silence is better than movement. However, the advantages and disadvantages of movement cannot be generalized and must be determined according to the specific situation. When encountering problems, don't be impatient, think clearly; act quickly after thinking about it, don't delay any more. For some things that are not urgent, do it quickly, and do it early and get results early; for those urgent things, do it slowly. to prevent mistakes while busy. I have always been impatient. I have read a lot of books on self-cultivation and have changed a lot. But sometimes I am still impatient. I speak in a hurry, walk in a hurry, eat in a hurry, make decisions in a hurry, and I often do everything in a hurry. This can easily lead to problems. We have been taught since childhood that we must seize the day for the cause of socialism and build it as quickly, efficiently and economically as possible. Especially in the wave of reform and opening up, fierce competition, rapid changes, and the rapid development of information technology have caused everyone to scramble for limited resources, making our mentality more and more impetuous. In fact, people's life is about finding their own way in the cracks of various things. Of course, we also hope that we can be like a tank, surmounting mountains and mountains, but in fact we rarely have the ability to do so. It’s better to use some cleverness, prioritize things and deal with them in different ways. Continuously accumulating good habits will make yourself more relaxed, and the results of your work will seem to be better. Put some things aside and don't rush to conclusions or make decisions. After a day, your thoughts may be completely different and your decisions will be more thoughtful. One moment, another moment, what you thought was absolutely correct at one moment will be completely reversed in your understanding at the next moment.
? My daughter who is in junior high school will lose her temper when encountering difficulties. I explain this to her and learn to be calm and patient. Especially when faced with exercises that she does not know how to do, she can put them aside first. Don’t get hung up on the gains and losses of one city or one pool. This is even more necessary during exams. If you spend all your time on a question that you can't do, you may lose the entire exam just because of this question. You have to let it go, take it slow, and try it again with a different way of thinking. At this time, you may suddenly become enlightened and the problem will be solved. When we were children, we all had experience in this area.
We are also impatient when performing surgery. Now that we are facing the peak period of giving birth to a second child, many people have undergone cesarean section and then require surgery to terminate the pregnancy. I encountered such a case a few days ago, and she was very fat, nearly 90 kilograms. The fetus was not big, only about 3 kilograms. The operation was very difficult. Because we were too obese, we needed to dig deep holes. Because the uterus was widely adhered to the peritoneum, omentum, bladder, and intestines. We carefully separated and identified the anatomical layers, and controlled our impatience, which cost a lot of time. Patience and physical strength will ensure the success of the surgery. After the operation, you will often feel sweating all over your body and your back will be sore.
When we make decisions in management, we need to think twice before making decisions. We should not change orders day and night, and do not conduct extensive discussions and revisions in advance. A policy will be issued today and abandoned tomorrow, which will lead to policy changes. Incoherence. Management relies on relatively fixed systems, rather than relying on people to manage. Systems are used to restrain and manage people, so that managers will be very relaxed.
"Delay urgent matters, deal with slow matters urgently" is a wise saying summed up by the ancients. No matter how difficult the road in the world is, we should stay focused and wait for it, and there will be different gains.