If you can't get the corresponding benefits from your kindness to me from beginning to end, no matter how much you love a person, the other person ignores and is indifferent to your love from beginning to end, then you must learn to let go resolutely and stop. Generally speaking, in a relationship, if you don't want to live too cheaply, you shouldn't live with such a man.
1, don't bow and scrape to men. No matter how much you love a man, don't bow and scrape to her. You can please a man moderately, but not too humble. If you love without backbone, you will always be condescending to a man in your feelings, so that the man will really look down on you. Because this love is too cheap, it is not easy for a man to really cherish and value you. Even if you pay more love and sincerity to him, he will not regard you with special respect and will only get farther and farther away from you. Women should know that in love, don't bow and scrape to men. You don't owe him anything. You both belong to relatively equal from beginning to end.
If a man refuses to give you a good look from beginning to end, he doesn't care about you at all, and you don't have to please him blindly, let alone wronged yourself emotionally. Do you think you care about you because you love lowly? I can't. You've been in love, so stand up straight and work for others. Once a man is unfriendly to your mentality, she doesn't learn to respect you, and he doesn't care about your feelings and moods at all, then I won't be patient anymore. You should make it clear to him at the first time. You should make him fully aware of the seriousness of the problem. Only when women love with dignity and dignity in their feelings can men really love you and respect and cherish you from the heart.
2. Don't depend too much on men financially. If you don't want to live too cheaply, don't rely too much on a man financially. Once some women fall in love or get married, she will resign and pin all her expectations on men. Actually, this is not right. Women should know that no matter where you are, you should keep your wealth free. You can spend money on men, but you must have your own financial resources and background. If you don't have a good job and depend too much on a man economically, then I may lose a man's love and sincerity at any time.
When a man is tired of you one day, he will break up with you and have no you in his heart. By then, you will lose your only source of livelihood. Without the financial assistance and guidance of men, you may encounter many difficulties and your life will be in a desperate situation. Therefore, women should be confident in their feelings, and you must keep your wealth free, and don't rely too much on men, both materially and economically. It is a good man's ability to make money. He spends money like water for you and can cut off your financial aid at any time. Only when women earn money on their own can you live more confidently in your relationship, and you won't be too paranoid about this relationship.
Don't compromise easily on the issue of principle. If you don't want to live too cheaply, don't compromise or tolerate men easily. By principle, I mean something that touches the emotional bottom line. For example, when a man betrays you, or lies to you, and he is no longer honest with you, then I must not blindly endure it. You must make it clear to him at the first time. You need to say to him in a very harsh tone: "You can't betray me and you can't lie to me.
Only when I am hard enough and strict enough with a man, you know the bottom line of being a decisive defender, and you fight for the principle, will a man respect you from the heart, and he will value and cherish it. Therefore, women should never follow the crowd emotionally, and you should not indulge a bad habit of men too much. On the issue of principle, you will not compromise and compromise easily.