In front of the public, it is a relatively small side, mainly aimed at the changes in the school environment in the early junior high school and the headlines between families and children in adolescence. Today's protagonist is our son-his adolescent accommodation life. Communication problems, self-management problems and self-awareness problems of 3354 children in adolescence after being hospitalized in junior high school.
Behind the physical and mental changes in school life, adolescence is what parents should do!
Youth independence
My son, 12 years old, died after further study for more than one year. He finally entered his favorite middle school and began his long-awaited school life. (Life in Hamlet by william shakespeare) Going home once a week on weekends, my hat and mother's interdependent life began to change a lot.
1 1 Before my son went to school, he left home alone for such a long time and did not leave me. We can sneak into my office to see me when we are working, studying and resting in a school. Unconsciously, my son developed a strong attachment to me.
My son has high expectations for school life. The school life that teenagers expect is completely free. For teenagers, freedom is the embodiment of the value above all else.
Behind the physical and mental changes in school life, adolescence is what parents should do!
Freedom is all value.
The first semester of school life is magical and enjoyable.
New environment, new social relations, new school, new classmates and new teachers, everything is very fresh and different from before. It is human nature to like novelty. Therefore, the son who just went to a new school is extremely opposed to the requirement of going home every weekend. He envies those students who are too far away from home to go home on weekends and have to entrust them to school. The classmates he described as making friends on weekends are free on weekends. We can watch movies, do our homework and have fun together. Freedom, the air is full of freedom.
Self-reliance, one of the prerequisites for a free life, is actually cultivated by teenagers without experiencing too long chaos. Take care of your life, do your own laundry, change your own sheets, and arrange your own time to leave. Self-management in life, supervision and inspection by boarding teachers and students' union can be easily established in the collective.