"One" Friendly Story
At that time, when the piano was playing, it was always necessary to turn off the lights in the theater, so that the audience could concentrate on the performance. Liszt sat in front of the piano, and when the light went out, he quietly asked Chopin to come and play instead of himself. The audience was conquered by the wonderful piano performance. After the performance, the light came on. People are not only happy with the appearance of this new piano player, but also deeply admire Liszt's recommendation of new talent. It is Liszt's magnanimous and generous attitude that makes Chopin stand out. Imagine if Liszt was jealous of talents and suppressed Chopin for fear that Chopin's talent would surpass him, then we would not be able to hear the famous Fantasia today.
People's Liberation Army soldiers have been guarding the battlefield for several days and nights, and because of conditions, they can't drink water. Although every soldier is thirsty, they are humble to those who need it most, from the monitor to the operator to the injured Xiaolan. The apple turned around and returned to the monitor's hand. Under the monitor's order, each soldier only ate a small mouth and half of the apple. The monitor's eyes glistened with tears, because he was deeply moved by the noble morality of the soldiers
〈 2 〉 A short story about being friendly to others
1. Once upon a time, there was a scholar who hated monks for some reason, but he happened to meet an old monk when he was away from home, because he was going to a place together, and they walked together. Along the way, the scholar used all kinds of methods to ridicule and laugh at the old monk, but the old monk didn't seem to hear it and was indifferent to the insult of the scholar.
When the destination is near, the old monk said to the scholar, "If someone gives you a gift, but you refuse to accept it, who does it belong to?" The scholar replied without hesitation: "Of course it belongs to the gift giver."
The old monk smiled and said, "Very well, if I don't accept your insults to me along the way, then you are cursing yourself!" The scholar suddenly turned red and ran away despondently.
This story tells us: Be kind to others, and be kind to yourself; Treat others badly and treat yourself badly.
2. One day, the sun and the wind argued about who was more powerful than who. The wind said, "Look at the old man in a coat below. I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you!" " After that, he blew hard at the old man, trying to blow off his coat, but the more he blew, the tighter he wrapped it. Later, the wind was tired and I didn't have the strength to blow any more.
At this time, the sun came out from behind the clouds and sprinkled warm sunshine on the old man. Before long, the old man began to wipe his sweat and took off his coat. So, the sun smiled and said to the wind, "In fact, the warmth released by friendliness is more powerful than toughness."
if you treat the same thing with two different attitudes, the result will be very different. Solar energy can make the old man take off his coat faster than the wind, which shows that a friendly attitude can warm people's hearts, and then touch each other and gradually change their hostile thoughts. This is beyond the reach of tough actions such as blindly growling and fierce attacks.
many times, you will get nothing by being tough, but if you replace it with friendliness, you will be overjoyed in the end.
3. During a congressional election, the 25th President of the United States, william mckinley, was often followed by a reporter. Because the newspaper he works for is at odds with McKinley's political views, he often publishes reports against him. McKinley was very annoyed with this man, but he couldn't help secretly admiring his persistence in attacking himself.
One day, McKinley went to a nearby town to give a speech in a carriage. The weather was unusually cold, and not far away, McKinley heard a familiar cough from behind. Looking back, it turned out to be the reporter who was suffering from a cold and dressed in thin clothes, followed by a humble carriage. McKinley told the driver to stop, got off the bus, walked up to the reporter and said, "Young man, get off your seat."
The reporter got off the bus and thought it was time for this political enemy to take revenge. "Here," McKinley took off his coat and handed it to the reporter. "Put this coat on and get into my carriage."
"But, Mr. McKinley," the reporter said quite unexpectedly, "I don't think you know who I am. I have been chasing you in this campaign. Every time you make a speech, I will scold you in the newspaper. I came here today to try my best to kill you. "
"I know," McKinley said with a smile. "Anyway, you put on this dress and get warm in that car first, so that you can fight a beautiful battle later." As a result, since then, this reporter has never published an article defaming McKinley.
The most powerful thing in the world is not to build a strong ship and sharpen a gun, but a friendly heart, because it can really make the human body feel respected and warm. People with noble hearts can feel pity and sympathy for others, because friendliness will gradually dispel the hostility of the other party, and no one will refuse the warmth brought by friendliness. Therefore, when you try to open the other person's heart, friendliness is the fastest and most effective way.
4. Things of Zhao in the Warring States Period. Lin Xiangru, a civil servant, was sent to the State of Qin, and returned to Zhao in one piece. At the Mianchi meeting, he was witty and brave enough to save the king of Zhao from the humiliation of the king of Qin. So the prince of Zhao promoted Lin Xiangru to the top right, ranking above the military commander Lian Po. Lian Po, a veteran, was always unconvinced by his military achievements, and threatened to embarrass Lin Xiangru if he saw him.
So Lin Xiangru said that he would not go to court because he was ill, so as not to see Lian Po. Outsiders think that Lin Xiangru is afraid of Lian Po, but it is not. Lin Xiangru is for the national interests of Zhao, and thinks that discord will give Qin an opportunity. After Lian Po knew the truth, he offered a humble apology. From then on, the two became friends of life and death, and * * * defended Zhao. Lin Xiangru's friendliness is not cowardice, but unity of colleagues for the benefit of the country.
5. After Zhuge Liang's death, Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over state affairs. One of his subordinates is Yang Xi, who is withdrawn and slow in words. When Jiang Wan spoke to him, he only answered. Someone couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan, "It's outrageous that Yang Xi was so rude to you!"
Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said, "People have their own temperaments. It's not his nature to let Yang Xi praise me to my face. Let him criticize me in front of everyone, and he will think that I am humiliating. So, he had to keep silent. In fact, this is what makes him valuable. " Later, someone praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister can punt in his stomach".
"3" friendly and cooperative speech primary school is about 5 words (it is better to have a short story and famous saying)
Today I will tell you about "independence" and "cooperation".
I wonder if you still remember a song we once learned, which is called "People Paddle and Open a Big Boat". One of the lyrics is written like this: "A penny is difficult to cross Wang Yanghai; Everyone paddled and started the sailboat. " This song tells us what is "independence" and what is "cooperation"; What is the difference between "independence" and "cooperation"
in the process of learning, we should first emphasize "independence": independent choice, independent thinking, independent understanding, and finally independent problem solving. This also reflects the value of "independence". Of course, in the process of learning, you will certainly encounter problems that you can't solve. At this time, there is cooperation with classmates and teachers: discussion, listening and answering, which is an effective method in solving problems. Cooperation can * * * solve problems together, * * * enjoy learning results and promote the development of our thinking.
not only in learning, but also in cultural and sports activities, there are also manifestations of "independence" and "cooperation". Take the relay race in the last school sports meeting for example. In this competition, our class has achieved gratifying results. On the competition field, 5 students should complete their own schedule independently. In this race that I have, I must do my best to give full play to my strength and show myself well in front of thousands of people. But everyone must work closely together to pass and catch the stick. In this way, the first is ours. The reason why we failed to win the first place in the last competition, I think it is because we still lack a team spirit and some tacit understanding between people.
in a word, independent development and cooperation and progress restrict all kinds of forests in this world. If you don't believe me, let me tell you something convincing.
Tao Xingzhi once said, "Drop your own sweat, eat your own food, and do your own thing. Relying on people, relying on the sky and relying on ancestors is not a hero. " Hugo, a great French writer, once said: "I would like to open my future by my own strength, rather than being favored by the powerful." These two sentences are both independent meanings. In addition, Kōnosuke Matsushita said: "Everyone has different wisdom and unparalleled potential. When everyone understands this and works together to develop it, it will bring prosperity to society." Liu Ji also said: "All hands make one effort, and the world is invincible." These two sentences are the meaning of unity and cooperation.
finally, I want to tell you a story, which everyone must have heard of. The story is: One day, God took a missionary to hell. People here sat around a big pot full of porridge. Everyone had a spoon with a long handle. No one could send food to his mouth, but he was hungry. God and missionaries came to heaven again. People here are also around a big pot and holding a long-handled spoon. It seems that they are very happy. Seeing that the missionary was puzzled, God explained, "People here have learned to feed each other." This fable is widely circulated, and it tells the difference between "independence" and "cooperation". People in hell only think about themselves, thinking about how to let themselves eat porridge and not starve. It is out of the question. And the people in heaven, they know how to help each other, they feed each other porridge. In this way, not only can we eat porridge, but also we can keep everyone from starving. Why not do this kind of thing with the best of both worlds?
Having said that, I think everyone should understand the difference between "independence" and "cooperation". We can't deny either of these two ways of doing things, because whether we choose "independence" or "cooperation" will have a good side. I just think that we should be able to choose the right way to solve problems at different times in order to benefit. Otherwise, everything will be in vain, not only for nothing, but sometimes it will backfire. Here, I want to adapt a wise saying of our English teacher, Mr. Huang, to conclude: "At the right time, in the right environment, choose the right way to solve the problem properly."
Today, I want to talk to you about "cooperation".
None of us exists in isolation in this world, and we have to have various relationships with people around us. As a student, you should study and play games with your classmates, and finish your studies together. If you are a worker, you must work with your colleagues to complete the production tasks of the factory. You are a soldier, you must live and train with your comrades-in-arms, and defend our motherland ... In short, no matter what occupation you are engaged in, no matter when and where you are, you can't do without cooperation with others.
what is cooperation? As the name implies, cooperation is to cooperate with each other and do things well together. There are many things in the world that can only be accomplished through mutual cooperation between people. When a person learns to cooperate with others, he gets the key to success. Therefore, people often say: small cooperation has small achievements, big cooperation has great achievements, and it is difficult to achieve anything without cooperation. This is a very valuable life truth, which we should firmly remember.
how can we cooperate effectively? You must have seen the symphony orchestra play in the concert hall or on TV. This is a model of cooperation between people. You see, when the conductor gently lifts the baton in his hand, melodious music pours out from the musician's lips and fingers, flows into the sky and people's hearts. What makes hundreds of musicians and dozens of different musical instruments cooperate so perfectly and harmoniously? I think this mainly depends on the highly unified group goal and the cooperative spirit that everyone must have in order to achieve this goal.
here is a short story that can also illustrate this problem. A foreign educator invited several primary school students in China to do a small experiment. In a small bottle, there are seven threaded colored balls, one end of which is exposed from the bottle. This bottle represents a house, and the colored ball represents the people in the house. The house suddenly caught fire, and only those who escaped within the specified time could survive. He asked the students to pull a string, and when they heard the whistle, they lifted the ball out of the bottle as quickly as possible. The experiment is about to begin, and all eyes are on the bottle mouth. The whistle sounded, and seven children, one by one, took out their colored balls from the bottle in turn, which took only 3 seconds! People present couldn't help clapping their hands. The foreign expert repeatedly said, "That's amazing! That's amazing! I have done this experiment in many places, and I have never succeeded. At most, one or two people escaped. In most cases, several colored balls were stuck in the bottle mouth at the same time. I see a valuable spirit of cooperation from you. "
It can be seen that successful cooperation should not only have a unified goal, but also try to do a good job, and also think of others, the collective and the spirit of self-sacrifice.
Students, modern society is a society full of competition, but it is also a society that needs cooperation more. As a modern person, only by learning to cooperate with others can we achieve greater success.
"Four" friendly stories about family
1. Jiang Arm's quilt Summary: The three brothers are inseparable. And the three brothers sewed a big quilt and slept together every day. Their three brothers can share a quilt, so that after they get married, their feelings are still so good, which highlights that they are really United.
in the Han dynasty, there was a man named Jiang. He has two younger brothers, one is Jiang Zhonghai and the other is Jiang Jijiang. The three brothers are very friendly and brotherly.
the three brothers are inseparable. Reading together every day, reviewing lessons, playing together after class, and helping with housework together. And the three brothers sewed a big quilt and slept together every day.
maybe we think that this kind of situation can only happen when we are young, but it is impossible when we grow up, because we have already got married. However, after the three brothers grow up, their feelings are still very good, so good that sometimes three people sleep together, which is really rare. Their three brothers can share a quilt, so that after they get married, their feelings are still so good, which highlights that they are really United.
once, Jiang Jian went to Beijing with his younger brother, and ended up being a robber in Lu Yu in the middle of the night. In the moonlight, the robber was ferocious, and the dagger in his hand was radiant with faint cold light, which made people tremble. The robber shook the bright dagger with arrogance and stepped into the two brothers who were hugging each other. Suddenly, my brother pushed