People who know how to laugh at themselves are very smart people.

He protects himself by belittling himself.

-Guoguanjun press.

Self-deprecation is a humorous way of speaking and a reflection of a person’s wisdom. In life, many celebrities make good use of self-deprecation.

Socrates often laughed at himself: There are many benefits to marrying such a wife. It can exercise endurance and deepen self-cultivation.

The familiar Grandpa Bi once laughed at himself: Lin Yilian and I are both "phoenix eyes", she is a phoenix, and I am a crack in the door.

Humor has always been called a language art that only smart people can control, and self-deprecation is also called the highest state of humor.

People who dare to laugh at themselves are often confident people.

Some people think that self-deprecation is self-contempt, which is too embarrassing. All I can say is that this idea is totally wrong.

On the contrary, people who like to laugh at themselves are mostly confident, optimistic, humorous people, and have a deep understanding and self-knowledge of themselves.

When Confucius traveled around the country, he separated from his disciples on the way to Zheng and stood alone at the east gate of the outer city waiting. The disciples could not find their teacher. They are very anxious. Zigong asked about his teacher's whereabouts.

A Zheng Guoren told him: There is a man at the east gate. His forehead is like Tang Yao, his neck is like Gao Tao, and his shoulders are like Zheng Zichan. However, his waist was three inches different from Dayu's. He looked embarrassed and listless. He really looks like a dog who has lost his family.

Zigong heard that most of them were his teachers. When I got there, I saw it. Zigong told Confucius the truth. Not only was Confucius not angry, he also said with a smile: He may not necessarily describe my appearance correctly, but he said that I look like a lost dog, right?

People who dare to magnify their shortcomings and laugh at themselves are the most confident people.

Faced with the ridicule of others, Confucius humorously mocked himself as a lost dog. This was an open-minded attitude and a kind of self-knowledge and self-confidence that was different from ordinary people.

Self-deprecation is a smarter form of self-protection than fighting back.

U.S. President Lincoln was very good at laughing at himself and easing difficulties.

Lincoln’s eyes were not big and his face was long. It can be said that he was ugly. During one speech, a senator suddenly stood up and vocally attacked him as a two-faced man. At that time, it was not convenient for him to refute tit for tat. After scanning the venue, he said: Please help me evaluate it. If I had another face, would I bring such an ugly face to the venue? The venue immediately burst into laughter and applause.

Lincoln was neither angry nor indifferent to the sudden criticism from the senators. He cleverly understood duplicity as two faces and laughed at his own ugly face, not only responding to the problem, but also solving the embarrassing situation with humor.

It is said that people who know how to laugh at themselves are smart. Thanks to his quick wit, he uses self-deprecation instead of verbal counterattack, and protects himself by belittling himself. This is a smarter self-protection than actively fighting back.

A little more self-deprecation will make life easier.

In life, there are many people who are ready to seize our shortcomings and laugh at us at any time. Each of us has shortcomings, which may not be changed.

Faced with the shortcomings that you cannot change, you can live a much easier life by being more self-deprecating.

Just like Huang Bo, appearance conditions are not dominant in the film and television industry, but he never cares about others making fun of his appearance. When others say he is ugly, he often laughs and laughs at himself. In fact, I have an anti-depressant face, and my most handsome thing is usually my back. Others will smile and no longer be embarrassed.

On the contrary, if he cares as much as others about what others think of his appearance, he may wait more.