To learn to forbear is to learn to endure the fact that one's heart cannot accept. It is often used on strong people.

Forbearance is a Chinese character, and the pinyin is yǐn rūn, which means keeping everything in your heart, whether you accept it or not.

The so-called forbearance is not that you can't fight back, you can't stand up, and it's not that your ability is out of reach, but for your lofty goal, you hide your ideal first, then your ability, and let others think that your patience is a helpless choice.

The state of forbearance is very high, which is even worse for the soul. It must be resolved by strength!

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Forbearance is a kind of wisdom and one of the prerequisites for success, whether for a country or an individual.

1, Sun Bin was strong and forbearing, and defeated Pang Juan.

As descendants of military strategist Sun Wu, Sun Bin and Pang Juan studied the art of war under Guiguzi. Sun Bin was trusted by Wang Wei when he arrived in Wei, but he was jealous of Pang Juan. Pang Juan knew that his talent was far behind that of Sun Bin, so he asked Sun Bin to hand over the Art of War in the name of Wang Wei. Pang Juan betrayed his original oath and cruelly flogged Sun Bin.

After being persecuted, Sun Bin did not give in or commit suicide, but decided to bear it.

In the end, Sun Bin, relying on his strong endurance, tricked Pang Juan back to Qi, playing the fool and becoming a strategist. Since then, Pang Juan and Sun Bin, who used to be classmates, have met many times on the battlefield. Pang Juan is no match for Sun Bin. First he was defeated in the battle of Guiling, and then he died in the battle of Maling.

Han Xin endured the humiliation of his legs and finally succeeded.

Han Xin is an outstanding strategist and strategist in the history of our country. He has never been defeated in his life, and he often wins more with less.

Han Xin's success has a lot to do with his early forbearance. At the beginning, Han Xin, who was humiliated by his legs and had a sword on his back, could have killed the bully with his sword in a rage and escaped from it, but Han Xin did not do so, but forced himself to bear it. Just imagine, if Han Xin killed the rogue in a rage at that time, then his life, and even the ending of the Chu-Han dispute later, would be unimaginable.

References:

Baidu Encyclopedia _ forbearance