When you are poor in the city, no one asks what it means to be rich in the mountains and have distant relatives. It means that when you are penniless, no one is willing to interact with you even if you are in the city; when you are wealthy When you are rich, even if you are in the mountains, there will be people who will flatter you and flatter you. It talks about the harsh conditions of the world and the sophistication of people. If you don’t work hard, no one can rely on you. People are indifferent. If you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you. If you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. If you don’t believe it, look at the wine in the cup. Let’s serve the rich first! Its true meaning is to describe the human kindness in the world, the indifference of humanity in the world that looks good when you have money, but looks down upon when you don’t have money. If you are rich and live in the mountains, even distant relatives will visit you. First, you can get some benefits, or borrow some money and goods, and the master will entertain you with delicious food and return home with a full load. Even if you live in the mountains, there will be people looking for you. , so someone asked about living in the mountains. But if you are too poor to open the pot, not only will you have no food to eat at your house, but you may also have to borrow things from you. Who wants to go? Even though they knew he was somewhere in the city, their sharp-tongued relatives didn't bother to take care of him. This led to the saying that he was poor in a busy city and had no relatives or neighbors! There are two more sentences: Human relationships are as thin as paper, and the world is like a new chess game!
When you are poor, even if you live in a busy city, even if your relatives often go to this city, they will not take a look at your home, for fear that you will ask them to borrow money. Now, even if you live in a remote mountain area where transportation is inaccessible, relatives who have never visited you before, as well as relatives who have not been in contact with you before, will come to visit you. If you live poor in a busy city and no one cares about you, but if you are rich in the mountains you have distant relatives? This is a cautionary motto that the ancients came up with after many vicissitudes of life.
If you are poor in a busy city and no one cares about you, but if you are rich in the mountains you have distant relatives? , the original sentence should be: poor living in a busy city with no one to ask, rich living in the mountains with distant relatives? This sentence comes from "Zengguang Xianwen". It means that when you are poor, even if you live in a busy city, not many people will care about you; when you are rich, even if you live in the mountains and forests, people will still come to visit you.
"Zengguang Xianwen" is a children's enlightenment book compiled during the Ming Dynasty. It collects various ancient and modern aphorisms and proverbs, focusing on the philosophy of life and the way to do things.
Where is this children's book? It is even more touching when us adults read it! Because of life experience and lessons, we understand that everything here is true! It is soaked in the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the coldness of the world.
Is it a reality that you are poor in the busy city and no one cares about you, but you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives?
It seems that it was not so obvious a few years ago. The gap between the rich and the poor is not too big. People's thoughts and feelings were simpler and simpler than they are now. There is also more sincerity and kindness in the relationships between people. Relatives, friends, and fellow villagers are all fairly close.
But now it is becoming more and more obvious. The rich and powerful people are surrounded by people who can't be pushed away; in front of the common people's door, the cars and horses are indifferent, and those who come and go are also indifferent. They are the ones who are in similar situations.
Most people in the world are the icing on the cake, but rarely provide help when it is timely. If you were once brilliant and then fell into decline, I think this feeling will be more profound.
It is understandable to be poor in a busy city and have no one to care about, but to be rich in the mountains and have distant relatives?
This phenomenon is understandable. After all, the bustling world is all about profit; the bustling world is all about profit. Money is not everything, but nothing can be done without money!
Didn’t someone already say that? There are only two things in this world that cannot be looked directly at: the sun and the human heart. The former hurts the eyes and the latter makes people sad. In fact, if you can figure it out, there is no need to be sad.
This is the truest thing in human nature, and this is the truth about how people get along with each other many times. The purpose is too strong, everyone is so busy and tired, and there is no benefit to be gained. Who has the time and energy to watch and accompany you?
When you are poor in the busy city and no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives? No matter in the mountains or in the city, you have to work hard to be the strong one
Some relationships are pure and flawless at the beginning. , everywhere, like crystal covered with dust.
It's useless if you wipe it again and again, it will turn into stone in the end!
Some people are inseparable at their best, wishing they could wear a pair of pants; but then they break up as they walk, leaving you with nothing but their backs that will never look back?
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In addition to sentimentality, we only have strength!
Some good things have been abandoned, even abandoned like worn shoes, you must give up too! Don't complain, or even complain, and always bring up the past. Yesterday died yesterday, today is born from today?!
You still have to rely on yourself for everything, those are just embellishments! Whether you are in the mountains or in a busy city, if you are clear in your heart, it will be the same with or without them.
You are still you! Have your own life and direction. As for fate, it just makes people see the essence of things more clearly.
However, we must be the one with strength! Not for whether they come or not, whether they see or not; but for those who love us and those we love, for those who give birth to us and those we give birth to.
Believe in yourself and your efforts will always pay off! As long as you work hard and live well, you will always be able to draw a picture of yourself and show it to yourself!
Of course, some people are particularly precious. No matter you are rich or poor, he is the same. This is so rare, even harder to find than rare treasures. If you're so lucky, hold on tight and don't let go!
It is normal and understandable to be poor in a busy city and have no one to care about, but to be rich in the mountains and have distant relatives? We are not the ones who are ignored in the busy city and no one asks, nor are we the ones who go to the mountains to ask questions, just right!
When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives (Zengguang Xianwen). This sentence was a famous saying in ancient times. At that time, people were conservative in their thinking. People sweep the snow in front of their own doors, but don't care about the frost on the tiles across the street. When you are poor and destitute, even if you meet someone you know on the street and you want them to say hello to you, it may be too late to avoid them.
The house I live in now has been built for 20 years (picture below). I was married soon, had two children, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was also tense. I considered living separately with my parents, but when I ran out of funds, I rushed When we started, the house was half built, but funds became a problem. There were no loans at that time, so my mother helped me find a way. Her niece (second cousin) was in the city and had good financial conditions, and her nephew-in-law was the section chief of the municipal finance bureau. , my mother came forward to borrow 2,000 yuan. The money was borrowed and the house was built. How to repay the remaining debt? It was in the early days of reform and opening up, and there were not as many jobs as now. It was more difficult to make money. My parents passed away one after another. I was so poor that I couldn’t say how poor I was. They couldn't afford it, so they had to find an outer tire and stuff it into it to use as an inner tube. Once I met my second cousin, and I scraped together 1,300 yuan, and promised to pay back the remaining 700 yuan next year, but I still couldn't pay it back the following year. My eldest cousin, entrusted by my second cousin, came to her door on New Year's Eve to ask for money. , and even brought my somewhat naughty son to scare me and force me to write a long note. My wife quarreled with them and the note was never written. In the spring of the next year, I sent 700 yuan to my eldest cousin's door and asked him to transfer it to Second cousin, I have just finished saying all the good things to you.
It is said that "blood is thicker than water". My second cousin spends several hundred yuan in and out of a mahjong game. Is it possible to wait for a few hundred yuan to be used urgently? Besides, it is not that we will not pay it back. "We are from the same root, so why rush each other?" ".
It is said that people cannot die poor. They will be jealous if you have money. If you don’t have money, they will laugh at you for being poor. Your shoulders are not the same height and you can’t play together. No matter how far you live, as long as you are rich, the three of you will be together. Friends often come and go, otherwise the family will be indifferent.
In today's society, the country is peaceful and the people are safe, people's living standard has improved, and the society is harmonious. The old ideas of the past are gradually fading away.
No one cares about you when you are poor in the bustling city, but you have distant relatives when you are rich in the mountains? This sentence, which is almost a household name in our country, comes from the book "Zengguang Xianwen".
The meaning of these sentences is very clear, that is, if a person is poor, no one will come to visit him even if he lives in a busy downtown area; if a person is rich, he will live in the mountains and old forests with inconvenient transportation. There are also people visiting you here.
There are too many such examples around us.
Human relationships are warm and cold, and the world is hot and cold. I believe everyone can experience it to some extent. Even if they live in the same community, the conditions of wealthy people and ordinary people's homes can be clearly seen at a glance.
"Zengguang Xianwen" is a children's enlightenment book from the Ming and Qing Dynasties in my country. It is no longer known who the author is. The language of this book is easy to understand, short, easy to remember, and catchy. The content includes daily etiquette and morality, customs, rules and regulations, astronomy and geography, etc., philosophy of life, and principles of life. It has a wide range and profound educational implications. The principles of life in it have a great impact.