Zhihu has a question: How to get out of the trough of life? There is a great answer: take a few more steps.
It was really difficult to walk a few more steps at that time, because there was no direction, but looking back after coming out, I really persisted a little more.
It is very important to know yourself again. It is most important to know what you want, set goals for yourself again and regain your love for life. These are the only ways to help you out of adversity.
He Jie, a mainland singer, must have relived her previous divorce over and over again. It has been almost a year now. But the example is positive for women. I'll brush it again.
He Jie and her ex-husband got married on 20 13, and after giving birth to their first child the following year, many new mothers will have symptoms-postpartum depression. However, he doesn't understand this tenderness and thinks she is unreasonable. Most of his time is occupied by playing computer.
15 ushered in the second child, only one year later, and the body and mind have not recovered.
At the airport, she was always photographed with a tired face and taking her children out alone. It is not without trace that they were suddenly found divorced. It was supposed to be a life of two people moving forward together, and finally I found that only one person was running.
What is even more exasperating is that her ex-husband, as a public figure, will choose to talk about their problems on public platforms.
Then an older single mother took her two children to a program and cried that she would never get married again. How much damage has she suffered, so that she no longer believes in marriage and is afraid of it? I'd rather choose to be single all my life and protect myself from harm.
Fortunately, she is an optimistic and smiling girl, and her luck will not be too bad. After the divorce, she quickly turned her attention to her children and work. The pain of divorce is still there, but she rationally saw the facts, understood her own direction, tried not to be disturbed by those things, and came out successfully.
I'm afraid only she knows how difficult and hard these steps are. But as long as you come out and look back, those pains are nothing, and some are just indifferent after the experience.
The sunshine is still so warm and the flowers are still so fragrant. ......
If you want to get out of the trough, just bite the bullet and stick to it for a while and take a few more steps. Without the pain of breaking cocoon, how can there be the beauty of butterfly? Only you are the master of your heart, and choosing a happy life is the only thing you can completely control.
When you are in trouble and hit, please let go of your pain and failure. Re-recognize yourself, accept yourself, find your own position, set goals for yourself and stick to it, and pick up the expectation of life. In this way, you will eventually become a winner in life.
There are still many wonderful things in this world waiting for you to discover!