? "Home is not a place to reason, but a place to talk about love." If there is no correct and rational analysis of this heart, it will often lead to misunderstanding and misjudgment, but it will affect the harmonious coexistence of families!
? Everything should be understood in the way of logical thinking, evaluated comprehensively and objectively, with a little knowledge, not extreme, not stubborn, not partial, not taken out of context.
? "Fiona Fang cannot be made without rules". For the country, the so-called rules are laws and regulations; For the family, it is family style and family training! In short, words and deeds should be within a certain range, so as to have an orderly, harmonious and stable society and a harmonious family!
? If someone in a family goes his own way, is arrogant, unreasonable, self-expanding, arrogant, unreasonable, does not walk with salt, does not respect the old and love the young, etc., no one in the family will discourage or stop him. In a word, "home is not a place to make sense", he will prevaricate and hold a magnifying glass at the moral high ground.
? For example, there is a bear Haizi at home. Under the doting of grandparents or other elders, I am lawless and I am the best in the world. Without the correct guidance and discipline of parents, it is accidental that he won't litter. It is inevitable to stir up trouble, poke the sore spot, learn from it, and even lose your life, and be sanctioned and punished by law! (The case of Sunguoguo in Yunnan is the best example)
? Home is a place to love, provided that it is reasonable. Everyone knows right from wrong, that is, they are reasonable, considerate, able to respect each other, understand each other and support each other (of course, they will not be too respectful). With love, of course, there is no need to "reason"!
? The traditional culture of the Chinese nation needs to use the theory of "taking", get rid of its dross, take its essence, use logical thinking mode and master the essence so as not to be confused!
? Of course, the "truth" mentioned here does not mean that all details, parents' shortcomings and other harmless things should be haggled over, everything should be clear and bear grudges; What I'm talking about here refers to some issues that involve principles and shake the foundation! One party made a mistake, said it was wrong, dared to admit it, and apologized and corrected it in time. The one who makes a promise is not necessarily condescending, and there will be no deep hatred between husband and wife, between parents and between children. Don't be stubborn, because of face, you can't put down your shelf, and the misunderstanding can only get deeper and deeper. Timely communication is more conducive to eliminating barriers, enhancing feelings and family harmony.
? Explain the "truth", understand the "why" and truly understand what love is, so that families can have love!
? Home is a place to talk about love and reason!