1. There are some things that you really can’t see clearly, and it will hurt your heart to see them clearly; there are some people that you really can’t understand, and it will hurt you to understand them. Life is just a kind of confusion, a blur, you can’t say whether you understand or not, you can’t tell clearly, you are confused and vague. There are too many things in life that we cannot understand. To see them clearly and understand them is to ask for sorrow. Covering life with a mist is not self-deception, but self-protection. Taking everything too seriously will make you tired and tired.

2. Delete things when you are in a bad mood, delete your memory regularly, discard unpleasant people and things from your memory, and format yourself so that you have space to store happiness. Do not be sensitive to thinking too much. People often live unhappy lives because they care too much. There are no things that can't be overcome, only feelings that can't be overcome.

3. If you are alive for one day, you are blessed and you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found someone who had no feet.

4. The saddest thing about a person is that he blindly changes himself for the sake of other people's opinions. In the end, he can't be like others, and he can't find himself again.

5. The older you get, the more you learn to let nature take its course, and don’t want to keep anything anymore, believing that what is meant to be will not go away. Be calm with gains and calm with losses, strive for the inevitable and let nature take its course. Only when you meet more people will you understand which people are worth cherishing with your life and which people are only suitable for detours. No more sleepless nights and no more worries. There is still a lot of road to walk tomorrow, a lot of hurdles to pass, a lot of delicious food to eat, a lot of people to meet, a lot of time to count, and a lot of happiness to experience.

6. No matter how nice you are, not everyone will like you. Some people envy you and some hate you. Some are jealous of you and some look down on you. Life is like this. Everything you do cannot satisfy everyone. , Don’t lose your own nature in order to please others, because everyone has principles and self-esteem.

7. Life will not go the way you want. It will give you a period of time that will make you lonely, confused, silent and melancholy. But if you rely on this time to be alone with yourself, read more books Books, do what you can do, let go of the people in the past, and when you get through the slump, those times of solitude will definitely light up your path, and it is also these things that cannot be tolerated to accompany you to maturity. So, it’s not that bad now. It seems like life owes you, but it’s actually all blessings.

8. Don’t stand on tiptoes and rely on his support to love this person. This will make you tired, hurt him, make you humble, and make him bored. You will be more lovable if you are sensible, independent, and able to act freely.

9. Some things cannot be rushed. When conditions are ripe, they will naturally fall into place. Most of the great achievements in the world are the result of patience. Patience means being able to withstand the temptation in front of you and the loneliness of the moment. Patience is not an external suppression, but an inner practice. Don't pick fruits that are not yet ripe, otherwise, your life will be bitter.

10. Don’t be sad when others ignore you. Everyone has their own life, and no one can always accompany you. When you see others smiling, don't think that you are the only one in the world who is sad. In fact, others are just better at hiding it than you.

11. You have to walk your own path. No matter it is bitter, tiring, or even a failure, you have to bear it. As long as it is your own choice, you will have no regrets.

12. Don’t be sad when someone ignores you. Everyone has their own life, and no one can stay with you all the time. The most embarrassing thing is to overestimate your position in other people's hearts. In fact, you know clearly that the most despicable thing is emotion, and the coldest thing is people's hearts. What's yours is yours.

13. The older you get, the less willing you are to explain some things. It’s not because you’re afraid of trouble, but because you know that many things cannot be explained. Many people end up parting ways in the end, sometimes feeling it is a pity, sometimes feeling that it is inevitable.

14. No matter what kind of tears I experienced last night, when I woke up in the morning, the city was still busy with traffic. Happy or unhappy, there is no time to wait. You can only remember or forget that stop on the journey that you loved or hated.

15. Pain hurts. Pain allows you to understand yourself and see others clearly.

If you lose, you lose. Stand up and dust yourself off. How many people care that you have fallen?

16. When others compliment you, just feel happy secretly. Don’t take it completely seriously, because nine times out of ten they are just trying to trick you. When others criticize you, just feel a little unhappy, but don't get angry, because nine times out of ten it's true. Whenever and wherever, you must understand that you live for yourself, and it is enough to have a clear conscience in everything.

17. You always have a smile on your face, but you may not be crying behind your back. You are always decent in front of others, but you may not feel sad behind others. There are some difficulties that no one can see but you. There is some secret pain, and who can relieve it except silence. Be sure to keep these words in mind: If you fall and cry on the ground, no one will reach out to help you. If you fall almost to death but still get up and continue fighting, everyone will make way for you and even support you! If you are not strong, who will show you that you are weak?

18. Sometimes, life is a kind of compromise, a kind of tolerance, a kind of accommodation. Not everything is appropriate to be tit-for-tat and sonorous. Toughness has the advantage of toughness, and tolerance has the advantage of tolerance. At any time, we need to assess the situation and act appropriately. Compromise does not necessarily mean weakness, and tolerance does not necessarily mean incompetence. Harmony is valuable, and sometimes, being accommodating and tolerant is also a kind of wisdom.