"I seemed to have been drinking that day, so I sent one randomly.
Who knew it would be found out after so many years?
I am very scared now. My daughter saw it."
This is Na Ying on the stage of "Sister Lang 2",
responding to her curse words on Weibo in 2011.
Sure enough, her daughter still saw it.
When her daughter asked, Naying calmly replied:
"Don't you hate that kind of person? ”
Such a happy family atmosphere is all thanks to Naying’s current husband Meng Tong.
Every time she mentions her husband on the show,
Naying’s whole body exudes pink bubbles.
Who is this Meng Tong?
He can actually make Tou Naying, the all-powerful Northeastern eldest sister without any scruples,
As docile as a little sheep Same, stay by his side?
Moreover, Naying’s son is not Meng Tong’s biological son.
As a stepfather, he still takes care of the child as his own.
Trying to erase The shadow of a child being abandoned by his biological father when he was a child.
Nothing is good without reason. What is the reason?
Meng Tong is so good to his stepson?
What kind of sweet past does he have with Na Ying?
Na Ying was born into a medical family in Shenyang in 1967.
His father, Na Hongsheng, was a well-known medical expert in China.
My parents are both highly educated intellectuals,
This also means that my parents’ ideas are very advanced.
In that era, if all the children in the family were daughters,
they would have to have another son no matter what,
Even today, there are still some people who have this attitude thoughts.
But after Naying’s parents had two daughters at that time,
they did not have any more children. In their view,
boys and girls were the same. , as long as you cultivate it carefully,
you will definitely show your own brilliance,
Therefore, when she was a child, Naying passively accepted the cultivation of her parents.
As a father,
naturally hopes that his child can be like himself,
and become a respected doctor.
But Na Ying, who has been pampered by the people around her since she was a child,
how can she obey her parents' arrangements obediently?
In addition, she wants to sleep while reading. Characteristics,
Her temperament at that time was a bit rebellious.
As long as her parents are not around, or their parents go out to work,
she will definitely throw the book far away, either lying on the bed,
or Run out and play with your friends.
Moreover, she had a small dream in her heart at that time,
That was to become an actor.
She does not have any lofty ideals.
She just thinks that actors can wear nice clothes and beautiful jewelry.
Which girl doesn’t love beauty?
In comparison, her sister is much more sensible.
She followed the path arranged by her parents and walked on step by step.
But in the end, Na Ying took him astray.
We will discuss these things later.
Na Ying's dream of becoming an actress did not come true.
The reason was that when she jumped up and down with her friends,
she scratched her face.
The most taboo thing about this actor is the integrity of his face.
After all, the actor’s face must serve the plot.
If the face is disfigured, it will be easy to let the actor lose his appearance. The audience is out of the play,
thus affecting the audience's viewing experience.
People don't care about what is being performed throughout the whole process.
They just watch your face get scratched. place.
Therefore, Na Ying’s dream of being an actor was shattered not long after he had dreamed it.
But he can’t be an actor, but he can still be a singer.
Singers can also be Wearing nice clothes,
Na Ying, who was frustrated in her career as an actor, turned her attention to the career of singer.
On the recommendation of her teacher, she entered the children's choir at the age of 12.
As soon as he joined, he was appointed as the lead singer by the leading teacher.
Na Ying, who is very popular with others and has a very moving voice,
quickly stood out in the choir. .
But it was not that she had never encountered difficulties.
Naying, who was killing everyone in the children's choir,
began to think about going to a higher place.
Another year later, in 1980, she took the exam for the Shenyang Song and Dance Ensemble.
However, God did not favor her this time. After three consecutive failures,
In 1983 She just entered the song and dance troupe to continue studying music.
From then on, Na Ying’s musical journey officially began.
Everything was difficult at the beginning. Na Ying, who had just started studying in the choir,
also experienced many things. A long period of trough.
In the beginning,
she had been active in the choir as a backup singer,
had no chance to become the lead singer,
< p> The difference between a backup singer and a lead singer is a huge difference in status.But Naying did not feel discouraged.
During this period of time, she has been strengthening herself.
She has been dormant and waiting for her opportunity.
Finally the opportunity came,
One day the lead singer did not participate in the performance due to physical reasons,
Na Ying was temporarily adjusted as the lead singer by the person in charge,
As a result, her singing stunned everyone present.
The person in charge and the instructor never expected that
this little girl who usually seemed to be an unassuming person,
actually sang a song. It sounds so good.
From this moment on, Na Ying changed from a backup singer to a lead singer.
Time passed to 1988.
Na Ying, who had studied in the song and dance troupe for 5 years,
was recommended by her teacher and came to Beijing.
Participate in the new "Sunshine Cup" Young Singers Competition.
The period of participating in the competition,
can be said to be the most difficult period for Naying.
She and her sister support each other.
Her sister is working part-time while studying in medical school.
Na Ying concentrates on practicing her professional abilities. < /p>
Try to become famous in this game.
Fortunately, she succeeded this time.
With the song "I Found Myself",
successfully won the gold medal in her category.
With this championship, she became Gu Jianfen’s student.
From then on, Na Ying officially started her singing career.
But the development of anything must have a process.
Na Ying’s beginning in the music industry was not very smooth.
It was not until 1995 that the album was released. The album "The Day Does Not Know the Darkness of the Night" made Naying really popular.
Perhaps the songs and tunes are too touching,
Or maybe Naying’s singing is too touching,
In short, as soon as this album is released,
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It became an instant hit, and 150,000 copies of the album were sold in ten days.
Such data was in an era when there were few publicity opportunities.
It's amazing enough, and can even be said to be the queen of the first battle.
As her career took off, she encountered the pain of her life - Mr. Gao in love.
Mr. Gao is a football player.
Culture, sports and art are indistinguishable. Na Ying and Mr. Gao met at a party.
"You are from Shenyang" "I am from Shenyang too!"
The identity of fellow villagers made the two of them quickly become familiar with each other.
The two of them met at the party. We had a great time chatting, and we even left each other’s contact information after the conversation.
As the two got closer and closer, they gradually fell in love with each other.
But the relationship between the two is not favored by the public.
A new force in the music industry, a football star,
Such a huge industry span, < /p>
The public feels that there is absolutely no identical topic between the two.
Coupled with Mr. Gao's nature of always hanging out among flowers,
the public unanimously believed that the two would definitely break up before they could talk for long.
But Na Ying has the kind of temperament that the less you tell me to do something,
I have to do it. I not only do it but also do it well.
In order to express her love to Mr. Gao,
It didn’t take long for Na Ying to live with Mr. Gao.
The relationship between the two was indeed very beautiful at that time.
At that time, Naying’s career was at its peak.
But she often gave up her job and went to see high school students. Mr. Competition.
As Na Ying’s agent,
Sister Na Xin was very annoyed with her sister’s behavior.
And she was not optimistic about her sister’s relationship from the beginning. Love,
But Naying, who was deeply trapped in the whirlpool of love, could not listen to what others said,
But her sister had no choice but to let her do whatever she wanted.
When I first started falling in love with Na Ying,
Mr. Gao was indeed very serious.
He introduced his girlfriend to his friends.
Among them was Na Ying’s later husband Meng Tong,
But the two had no intersection at that time.
Girls who fall in love are rarely judgmental.
For her boyfriend, Naying has never been a woman in the kitchen.
She started to learn how to make soup. How to make delicious meals.
If it were another man,
he would have put away his fun-loving heart long ago,
But Mr. Gao would not,
He still hasn't gotten rid of his habit of lingering among flowers.
Even when Naying was pregnant with their two children,
he would go and have a little intimacy with other flowers.
Mr. Gao, a fierce football player,
often has a few drinks with his friends at the bar after training.
In the process of drinking ,
He fell in love with Wang Nawen, the resident singer in that bar.
But Wang Nawen knew about his relationship with Na Ying.
After all, the two of them were so well-known.
Faced with Mr. Gao’s fierce pursuit,
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Wang Nawen stepped back repeatedly to express his refusal.
You are not afraid of scumbag men, but you are afraid that scumbag men can still talk.
At that time, Na Ying was pregnant with Mr. Gao’s child.
Mr. Gao actually said that he Already broke up with Na Ying.
After hearing that they had broken up, Wang Nawen gradually let down his guard.
Mr. Gao was able to catch Na Ying.
Wang Nawen naturally did it easily.
As a result, the scandal broke out and Wang Nawen was pregnant.
Wang Nawen was very happy at first.
After all, pregnancy meant that she would form a family with Mr. Gao.
When Wang Nawen told Mr. Gao the news ecstatically,
Unexpectedly, what was waiting for him was that Mr. Gao turned around magnificently and
disappeared into Wang Nawen in life.
At first, Wang Nawen thought Mr. Gao was doing it because he had to play a game.
He was training with the team and could not make phone calls at will.
As a result, we saw Mr. Gao and Na Ying,
holding hands and attending the event together.
Only then did Wang Nawen realize that he had been cheated.
Women's emotions during pregnancy are prone to changeable moods.
This was good, as it directly made Wang Nawen full of hatred for Mr. Gao.
But what's the use of just hating, the problem still needs to be solved,
Wang Nawen spent a lot of effort before contacting Mr. Gao again,
I wanted to talk about the child,
Unexpectedly, Mr. Gao just arrived and said directly:
"How are you sure the child is mine."
< p> Wang Nawen was stupid at the time.She never expected that she had sweet words to herself.
The man who claimed to love her forever,
in order to escape He should have shouldered the responsibility, but he actually said such words.
Everyone knows the result.
Wang Nawen sent Mr. Gao to court with a complaint.
Originally a well-known football player,
Coupled with the identity of Naying's boyfriend,
One can imagine the impact of this incident at the time.
It has almost become known to everyone,
Many people are laughing at the way Na Ying looks at men.
Na Ying was pregnant with Liujia at the time and was so angry about this incident that she couldn't sleep all night long, crying and making trouble.
Seeing the condition of my daughter and sister,
her parents and sister did not bother to blame her.
They could only comfort her and repeatedly told her not to move the fetus. gas.
Na Ying, who had stabilized her emotions, thought of her years of relationship,
plus she couldn’t let the child be born without a father,
she was still prepared Forgive my boyfriend Mr. Gao.
The result was good. In the end, Wang Nawen's child was born.
A pair of DNA tests confirmed that it was Mr. Gao's child.
At this moment, Na Ying completely collapsed. She never expected that,
What she had sacrificed so much would result in her boyfriend's betrayal.
After painstaking experience and the persuasion of her sister,
Na Ying ended the 10-year relationship.
Taking her 4-month-old baby with her The son was happy and left his former love nest.
How about being a scumbag and ruining his life? After he separated from Mr. Gao,
Na Ying no longer believed in love.
At this time, Meng Tong appeared in Naying's life like a ray of light.
In fact, Meng Tong had already noticed Na Ying when Mr. Gao introduced them to each other.
Meng Tong had already noticed Na Ying.
Meng Tong, the bar owner and elite returned from overseas,
has never seen such a carefree girl.
But at that time, after all, she was in love with her friend again.
Not only was it not allowed on a moral level,
What’s more, Na Ying was full of thoughts at that time. They were all Mr. Gao,
Meng Tong had no choice but to bury his appreciation for Na Ying deeply in his heart.
He thought he had no hope in his life, but unexpectedly, things took a turn for the worse.
Meng Tong, who had hope, gradually began his pursuit.
Unlike Mr. Gao, Meng Tong does not chase girls.
He will only foolishly create opportunities for chance encounters.
I found out about the place where Naying must go to finish recording.
He always appears there pretending to be casual.
No one is stupid, Na Ying quickly noticed Meng Tong’s thoughts.
At that time, she no longer believed in love,
Therefore she declined politely Meng Tong's pursuit,
After all, he has a child, this kind of thing is easy to say or not,
It can easily have a bad influence on Meng Tong.
But Meng Tong is not a person who gives up easily.
He knows very well what Naying is worried about.
In order to express his feelings,
He often accompanies Naying.
The two of them joked and chatted with each other like they had been friends for many years.
In this process, Na Ying once again felt the sweetness of love,
But the fetters of the world made her hesitate.
Seeing that Na Ying also had the idea of ??falling in love,
Meng Tong said directly: "I like you,
I want to give you a Family, you don’t have to worry about your son.
Your son is my son.
I will fulfill my father’s responsibilities well. ”
After hearing this. After saying this, Naying could no longer hold back the waves in her heart.
In this way, two suitable and loving people finally got together.
In 2006, 39-year-old Meng Tong still held a grand wedding for Na Ying.
In his heart, this woman deserves to do this.
After the marriage, Meng Tong did fulfill his previous promise,
When Na Ying and Mr. Gao broke up,
His son was only 4 months old, < /p>
Therefore, when he grew up, Gao Xing thought that Meng Tong was his biological father.
On the road of happy growth,
Meng Tong did everything a father should do.
But his son’s words left him at a loss:
“Dad, why do people say we don’t look alike?
My son shouldn’t be Do you really like your father?"
Meng Tong was speechless and choked up.
He didn't know how to answer his son's question.
Let’s be honest, my son will definitely feel uncomfortable.
But no matter how tactful this is, it will still be somewhat harmful.
Na Ying didn't know what to do, so she could only drag it.
But the child's curiosity drove him to want to know everything.
Just when he could no longer hide it, his sister Apple was born.
The arrival of my sister suddenly dispelled the happy curiosity.
While the family was enjoying themselves,
Mr. Gao suddenly contacted Na Ying and said he wanted to see his son.
Can you agree? Na Ying, who only hates Mr. Gao, will not let him disturb her life at all.
In the end, Meng Tong persuaded her: "That is the child's biological father.
If you don't let me see him, the child will blame you if he finds out later.
This is unfair to him. If you don’t want to see him,
You can ask our nanny to take the child.”
After listening to what the husband said. , Na Ying's heart gradually calmed down,
I thought so, then just do what Meng Tong said.
So she made an agreement with Mr. Gao to meet every Saturday.
At first I was happy but still confused,
Why did I want to meet this strange man?
As I grew up,
Only then did he realize that the man was his biological father.
After seeing this news, he was as happy as an eggplant beaten by frost.
Even his favorite dish,
At this time, he No appetite either.
The longer this kind of thing accumulates, the deeper the gap in the heart will be.
Unexpectedly, my sister’s unintentional words at the dinner table broke the barrier.
"Brother, why is my surname Meng and your surname Gao?"
After hearing this, Meng Tong and Na Ying asked with red eyes,
"Yes Ah why, why don't I have a healthy family.
”
Na Ying kept crying at that time,
The guilt almost eroded the whole person.
How about highly educated talents?
Meng Tong calmly took Gao Xing aside and said:
"Son, let me ask you something, am I good to you? "
Nodding happily, Meng Tong continued:
"Then is your biological father good to you? "
Still nodded happily, Meng Tong continued:
"Isn't this enough?
Isn’t it good that you have more fatherly love than other children? ”
After hearing this, everyone was so happy that he was stunned, but he was still young at that time,
and did not understand the meaning of his father’s words.
Only Knowing that his father would not abandon him or treat him badly,
allowed his sensitive heart to gradually calm down.
He solved this big trouble.
The whole family has returned to its usual cheerful atmosphere.
No matter how naughty they are with their mother,
they will run to their father immediately.
< p> In the eyes of the two brothers and sisters, their father is their biggest support.Now Gao Gao is 18 years old and has become a big child.
Na Ying’s face was filled with emotion when he mentioned his son.
When mentioning her daughter, her face is full of doting.
After all, as the youngest child in the family,
she also received the favor of the whole family. ,
She has continued this tradition with her daughter
Na Ying, who was once crazy about love but was let down by love,
still met the one. The man who saved her life - Meng Tong
Maybe Meng Tong is not a successful businessman,
But in the profession of husband and father,
he is. A perfect score.
Such a good man is rare in history.