In ordinary daily life, everyone has been exposed to papers. Papers are a comprehensive style, through which you can directly see a person's comprehensive ability and professional foundation. So, have you ever understood the paper? The following are the argumentative papers that I have compiled for you. Welcome to read them. I hope you will like them. There is room for argument. 1

The way to carve is that the nose is as big as the eye is small. The nose can be big or small, and small can't be big. The same is true for the event.

The sky says: Leave a space for Baiyun to fly freely, and I can reach higher.

The moon says: Leave a space for the stars to twinkle at will, and my world will no longer be lonely.

people say: leave room for everything and leave others a way out. Open a window for yourself, too

I remember when I was a child, my grandmother often told me that when I bought clothes, I had to wear an extra button. At that time, I didn't understand grandma's meaning, and I didn't care much. Until one time, my beloved clothes were missing a button, and I couldn't find it after rummaging through the cabinet. Finally, when all the tailor shops couldn't find the same style of buttons, I began to be heartbroken. Finally got the message from grandma. It turns out that one more button means one more way out. One more choice, one more hope. Similarly, there will be one less regret.

Adolescence is a rebellious period. When I think back on those years, I feel a lot. In adolescence, I became inexplicably impetuous and at a loss. The world doesn't seem to be as satisfactory, comfortable and relaxed as I imagined. In my life, my parents' nagging and restraint disgust me; In my study, my parents' harshness and harshness suffocated me. In the face of parents' reprimand, I once slammed the door in anger; I turned a blind eye to my parents' expectations. Life seems to be a mess. Solidified into glue, every step will be entangled, and every time I want to speak, it will become heavy.

Fortunately, an emotional exchange after a meal made me know myself and understand my parents. My parents adjusted their attitude and gave me a more relaxed study and living environment.

Learn to communicate and understand, leaving room for yourself and parents. Family will be more harmonious and life will be happier.

in life, all the time. We should all learn to leave room for everything. When we have an argument with our friends, there is no need to immediately argue for you to win or lose. This time is fast, and it will only become a lose-lose situation. "endure a calm moment, take a step back and broaden the horizon", this sentence should not be used only in composition. When we begin to look back, we will find that the so-called dispute at that time was only a little disagreement; When we learn to be patient, the bridge of friendship will become stronger and longer.

Leave room for friendship, and the flower of friendship will bloom more brightly. If you have studied sculpture, you must know that when you first started carving. The nose should be big and the eyes should be small, so that we can modify it in the future. Let our works be more good.

A small way of carving contains a great principle of life; There is room for everything. We will be more handy. Leave room for argument 2

You should leave more room for yourself when doing things. Leaving room for yourself is also leaving room for others. Leave room for others, and there will be more room for effective communication when dealing with others.

effective communication means that harmony is the most important thing. For example, if there is an argument between colleagues and friends, first of all, we should think that it is temporary, and we must make up after all. If there is a contradiction between the two sides, they will immediately open their posture and swear at each other, dare to expose anything short, dare to say anything bad, and dare to scold anything bad. This is not to leave room, but to cut their own way.

There is a precept in "Caigen Tan" that "it is not too strict to attack people's evil". That is to say, in the interpersonal relationship, in the spirit of tolerance, rationally eat some losses, others will owe you, so that you also have the basis for establishing good interpersonal relationships. If you make yourself emotional and grumpy because you want to punish a person, and think about how to punish that person all day long to get back at him for hurting you, you have a good intention. However, it would be foolish to do something that harms others and does not benefit others.

Many people have experienced the feeling of being offended to varying degrees. You may be so angry that your lips tremble and your face turns pale that you want to punch the person in front of you, but in the end, you managed to suppress your anger and finally didn't make any exciting behavior. It's just that you have a hatred in your heart and can't forget the moment of humiliation. You want to be a generous person, but you don't know how to erase unpleasant memories. As the saying goes, "Adults don't remember villains." It's a pity that you still can't reach the measure of "adult", and you are at a loss between "wanting revenge" and "forgetting it". That's suffering! In this kind of suffering, you forget the realm that you can enjoy by leaving more room for yourself and others, so you don't break out in this kind of suffering, just waiting to fail in this kind of suffering!

Nervousness will bring you invisible oppression, and your mind will become narrow-minded, suspicious and jealous; Unpleasant memories will evoke all kinds of evil thoughts, and your pain will not disappear, but you will be fooled by yourself. However, in the room, the people you hate will also have a lovely and respectable side. Who are enemies and friends? That is a very narrow dichotomy.

the same is true when arguing with others. It is pleasant to refute the other side with a rigorous debate, but it is not necessary to refute the other side to pieces. Because as long as you think about it a little, you will know that it is actually stupid to do so. Not only is it not good for yourself, but sometimes it is even counterproductive, and it will not be recognized by the other party, and one day it will suffer the consequences and be attacked by the other party. When we have friction with others, we must first understand his thoughts, and then state our opinions on the premise of taking into account the other person's face, leaving room for the other person. This point must be kept in mind when dealing with interpersonal relationships.

Han Feizi said: "A dragon is a worm, and it can ride softly. However, there is a scale ruler under its throat. If a person has a baby, he will kill someone. "There are scales in life, and those who say that they can live without babies are few!" Legend has it that when the dragon is tame, people can ride on its back, but it has an inverse scale about a foot in diameter under its throat. If someone touches that inverse scale, it will definitely eat you. Just as people attack each other, if you use the other person's fault as an excuse to reprimand the other person and make the other person feel ashamed, then you should be careful, because the other person will avenge this arrow one day. Therefore, even if we should reprimand each other, we should leave a little way out for them. People who have no retreat and no room are doomed to fail! Leave room for argument 3

There is such a passage in Han Feizi's "On Lin. The Second Part": "Huan He said:' The way to carve is that the nose is as big as the eye. The nose can be big or small, but it can't be big or small; Small eyes can be big, big eyes can't be small. " The same is true for the event, because it cannot be repeated, then it will be defeated.

The main idea of this passage is that the morality of craft wood carving lies in that the nose should be big, the eyes should be small, and the nose can be reduced if it is carved big. If the nose is carved small at the beginning, there is no way to remedy it. By the same token, the eyes should be small at the beginning, and they can be enlarged when they are small. If you make your eyes big at the beginning of carving, you can't shrink them at the back. Doing things for people is also a truth. We should leave room for everything and leave a way out. Only in this way can we avoid failure.

an experienced woodcarver pays attention to top-down, front-to-back, surface-to-inside, and shallow-to-deep, so it is difficult to leave room for the easy first. In folk jargon, it is well said: "If you keep fat, you can change it into small ones, but it is difficult to get back fat if you worry about thin ridges." "The inner distance should be small, but not large. Remember that carving is subtraction." Being a human being, isn't it?

There used to be many folk sayings, such as "raising children to guard against old age, hoarding grain to guard against hunger" and "bringing umbrellas sunny and full of dry food", all of which said that we should plan ahead and leave room for tomorrow. There is also a saying in Minnan dialect: "Let's leave a line for human feelings and meet again in the future." It means that when you get along with others, you should never do anything. Remember to leave room for each other, and you will not be embarrassed or embarrassed when you meet in the future.

Only by leaving room can we achieve balance, symmetry and harmony.

only by leaving room can we advance and retreat calmly and bend and stretch freely. Leave room for argument 4

Leave room for everything and leave a way out. The kind of person who says, "Only by cutting off his own retreat can he win a better way out" is a desperate situation or a decisive battle. It is undeniable that sometimes if there is no retreat behind them, people will concentrate all their energy and go forward bravely to win a way out for themselves. However, it was a rescue. Under normal circumstances, no one is willing to take the initiative to cut off the retreat. On the contrary, it is better to have more room and a back road.

leave room for doing things. The plan is not as fast as the change, and the change is not as fast as the phone. You should leave room for your daily work and give it to yourself and others, but you must carry it out as planned. For example, to catch a train, we should arrive at the station in advance to leave room for some unexpected things. For example, some things should be prepared in advance so as not to be rushed temporarily-a few more minutes of preparation last night may save a few hours of trouble today.

There should also be room for doing things. If you keep it fat, you can make it smaller, but you can't get it back. For example, don't talk too full, so as to accommodate some accidents, so as not to be unable to step down; There should be a back road for investment, and it doesn't matter if you take risks, but when you take risks, don't gamble all your property; You can't do things too well, so that you can leave yourself a way out, so as not to get out of hand. Don't slam the door, because you will probably come back.

in fact, there is room and a way out, and it cannot be measured by the number and size. For example, carving, experts know that the inner distance should be small but not large, and the outer distance should be large and not small. Remember that carving is subtraction. Han Feizi talked about the truth of carving in "Talking about the Forest-The Next Part", "The way to carve is that the nose is as big as the eye. The nose can be big or small, but it can't be big or small; Small eyes can be big, big eyes can't be small. "It's the same for an event, because if it can't be resumed, it will be a failure." The meaning of this passage is that the main point of craft wood carving is that the nose should be big and the eyes should be small. If the nose is carved big, it can be made smaller. If the nose is carved small at the beginning, there is no way to remedy it. By the same token, the eyes should be small at first, and they can be enlarged when they are small. Doing things for people is also a truth. We should leave room for everything and leave a way out. Only in this way will we not encounter failure.

When dealing with people, we should not only leave room for ourselves and a way out, but also leave room for others. Our hometown is a mountainous area, rich in persimmons. One year, when I returned to my hometown, I found persimmons hanging on the trees on the hillside in dribs and drabs at the time when the persimmons were harvested in late autumn. I thought it was the omission of my fellow villagers, but later I learned that my fellow villagers deliberately didn't pick it clean, and a small amount of persimmons left on the tree were for magpies to eat. Because there was a lesson in the past, all the persimmons on the trees were picked up one year, which coincided with the snowstorm that year, and the magpies starved to death because they couldn't find anything to eat. The persimmon trees were attacked by insects the next year. It can be seen that everything can't be done to the extreme, and giving up the retreat for others is to clear the obstacles for yourself; Leave room for others, that is, leave a world for yourself. People don't live in a moment, nor do they have only one contact with people. Smart people know how to leave a retreat for themselves and leave room for others. On the surface, it forgives others, but in fact it paves the way for itself. Otherwise, you will fall into a dead end, leaving yourself with no way out and no way out.

We should leave room for others and ourselves. To this end, we should: where the path is narrow, leave one step for others to go; When the taste is strong, subtract three points and ask someone to taste it. Know people don't have to say everything, leave three points room for others, and leave some lip service and self; Don't be harsh on others, leave three points room for others, and leave some tolerance for yourself; You don't have to be arrogant, leave three points room for others, and leave some connotations and yourself; You don't have to show your sharpness, leave three points room for others, and leave some deep convergence for yourself; You don't have to invite all the meritorious deeds, leave three points room for others and leave some humility for yourself; Don't fight for reason, leave some room for others, and leave some tolerance for yourself; Don't lean on the momentum, leave three points room for others, and leave some kindness and self; You don't have to enjoy wealth, leave three points room for others, and leave some blessings for yourself; You don't have to do everything, leave three points room for others, and leave some virtues and yourself. Life should not be too full, and life should not be too crowded. Leave more room for yourself to do things so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others to take, leave some roads for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave some room for your life at any time. You won't be complacent when you get it, you won't be unhappy when you lose it, and you will be calm between gains and losses. Leave room for argument 5

Sometimes you have to leave room for yourself when you speak or do things. In interpersonal communication, there is no need to strive for everything. Everything is your own good. Being strong is of course a good thing, but you must be measured and never go too far. When we were students, we may not realize that at work, you who are competitive and different will often suffer.

Everyone thinks he has done a lot of things right, but sometimes don't take things too seriously. If you are right, others are wrong. Some things are just a matter of personal opinion, and there is no right or wrong. When you want to express your thoughts, it's better to be tactful. Don't take an aggressive attitude that you have to be right. It's disgusting, but sometimes others don't want to say it. Even if two people really don't get along, don't insist on the whole life-and-death. If they get along, say more, and if they don't, say less.

When someone speaks ill of others to you, you should pay attention to it, unless it is a close friend who tells you his heart. He will also speak ill of you behind your back, so never dare to say more to him. Sometimes, there will be a lot of things. Do you believe it? This kind of thing has happened to me. It is better for such people to be careful what they say, but there is no need to argue.

And I heard a classmate tell me the secret of someone, which made me feel exaggerated. In fact, sometimes she just wants to break up your relationship and make you feel bad about others. In fact, there are some things, especially personal privacy, which we don't need to care about. Don't mind things that have nothing to do with ourselves. This is my point. Leave room for argument 6

As we all know, tailors are most afraid of cutting clothes thin, because the material is thin and can't be fattened; Everyone who cooks knows that when cooking, put less salt first, because the taste is light and you can make up the salt; When sculptors carve faces, they often carve their eyes a little smaller and their noses a little bigger, which is to leave room for further improvement.

it's the same with being a man and doing things, so leave room.

however, in real life, we often encounter things that are full of words and do things absolutely. The quarrel between husband and wife is frequent. "This day can't be passed, divorce!" Friction between friends and colleagues is often "let's make a clean break from now on!" Examples of embarrassing yourself because you talk too much can be seen everywhere.

A boss often strikes the table and stares at his subordinates. There are often three sentences on his lips: "What do you do for a living? ！” "Do you still want to do or not? ！” "Toads with two legs are hard to find, and people with two legs are everywhere. If you don't do well, you will be laid off and leave!" not