Opening a book is beneficial, and there is no doubt about the importance of reading. Below is the "Parent-child Reading Experience: Bookish Young Man" compiled by me for everyone. Welcome to read. Parent-child reading experience: The scholarly boy (1)
The ancients said, "If you read thousands of volumes, you will feel like you are inspired when writing." This famous saying expresses the importance of reading. Books are the unique spiritual wealth of mankind and the ladder of human progress. Although reading cannot change the length of life, it can expand the width of life and enrich life. "The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own beauty like jade", but I think there is fun in the book, especially when reading with my children.
The world of children is full of innocence and joy. We need to enter the children's world and have real close contact with them. Parent-child reading is a happy experience again and again. I deeply understand that reading is an entertainment activity that can bring endless fun to children. At the same time, it is also a learning method for them to acquire knowledge and broaden their horizons. As parents, when we read, we also recollect the happiness of childhood life, and at the same time, we can understand the ups and downs of our children. In order to expose my child to as many books as possible, expand her knowledge, and create a family atmosphere for reading, under the "parent-child reading" initiative of the school and teachers, I deliberately found time to read with my son outside of busy working hours.
I believe that when you read with your children, you should adapt to their psychological characteristics and choose books that your children like to read so that they develop a good impression of the books. It is not advisable to control your children's reading too tightly. At the same time, you should also communicate with your children about reading methods and experiences, encourage them to tell the story plot or specific content in the book, express their own views and opinions, and then analyze and discuss together. If you do this regularly, your child's interest in reading may become more intense, and your child's reading level will gradually improve. This is a good way for him to learn observation and imagination, and then tell him what he sees and thinks, and guide him to learn to see and think for himself in the future. With such a reading process, we unknowingly become immersed in the world of books with our children, and enjoy the joy and happiness brought by reading together. Over time, children will fall in love with reading and become close to their parents. While we read with our children, we enrich ourselves and enrich ourselves.
Through parent-child reading, parents and children learn and grow together, creating opportunities for parents to communicate with their children and share the joy of reading. Let’s read with our children, let our family be less cigarette and alcoholic, more bookish, less impetuous, more bookish, and set a good example for children in reading and learning. Parent-child reading experience: Bookish Boy (2)
Reading is an entertainment activity that can bring unlimited fun to children. A love of reading can change everything about a child and benefit the child for life. Children like reading more than pure school education. Parent-child reading brings pleasant enjoyment and emotional communication to parents and children. When parent-child reading, please pay attention to: adapt to the child's psychology and carefully select books; provide a free reading environment and create a relaxed learning atmosphere; observe reading hobbies and learn more with half the effort; promote parent-child independent reading and care for the children's soul. Let’s talk about it in detail below, which can be regarded as a starting point.
1. Comply with the child’s psychological characteristics and select the first batch of books that the child “loves to read” so that the child will develop a good impression of the book.
Children are born to like toys, but they are not born to love them. Read a book. The interest and habit of reading are not innate. Whether a child likes reading or not, whether he likes reading or not, how to cultivate it is a matter of skill. In the early stages of reading, parents must carefully select the books and periodicals provided to their children. The content and appearance of the books and periodicals should try to cater to their children's psychology. In the eyes of children, colorful insects, lively and cute animals of all sizes are much more interesting and interesting than A, B, C, D and 1, 2, 3, 4 in the minds of adults. Therefore, try to choose picture books for your children that have beautiful printing, rich and interesting content, and plot developments that are in line with children’s imagination and thinking characteristics.
2. Provide a free reading environment and create a relaxed learning atmosphere
Curiosity, restlessness, lack of patience and endurance are common psychological characteristics of children. They are often unable to read as well as adults. Read a book from beginning to end. The performance is that the child always flips through this book and that book. Don't pay too much attention to this until you go to elementary school. Usually, at the preschool stage, as long as the child is willing to hold a book in his hand and read it with relish, parents should feel satisfied. Because this kind of performance is completely in line with children's early reading psychology.
3. Observe reading hobbies, give children the right to choose reading, and provide children with a relaxed and free reading environment as much as possible
Susan Rosenweig has a famous saying: " If you want your children to read exactly according to your plan, it will not last long. "Reading is an act of seeking knowledge and a kind of enjoyment." Therefore, in addition to controlling unhealthy reading materials, parents do not need to artificially restrict and control the content, type and scope of books their children read. Therefore, every time you choose books in a bookstore and subscribe to various magazines for your children, you can let your children choose the books themselves. Some children particularly like cartoons and animation books, but the content of the magazines that children read should be as broad as possible.
In order to avoid "a partial eclipse" in reading, when she chooses books, she recommends some other reading materials to her children in a timely manner, and introduces the content and characteristics of these books to her to arouse her children's interest in these books, instead of making simple choices for her children. Interference, try not to affect children's reading enthusiasm.
4. Parent-child reading to create a reading atmosphere
There is a passage in Jim Trillis's "Reading Manual": "You may have unlimited wealth, a box of Boxes of jewelry and cabinets of gold. But you will never be richer than me. I have a mother who reads to me. "Parent-child reading" is based on reading. Through ***reading, parents and children are united. *Learn together, grow together, create opportunities for parents to communicate and interact with their children, share the excitement and fun of reading, and bring more care and comfort to children's hearts: joy, wisdom, hope, courage, enthusiasm and confidence.
It is said that teaching by words is not as good as teaching by example. In order for children to have good reading interests and habits, parents must lead by example, read books with their children as much as possible, communicate with them more, and encourage their children to read the stories in the book. Retell the plot or specific content, express your own views and opinions, and then analyze and discuss with the children. If you do this often, your child's interest in reading will become more intense, and his reading level will gradually improve. This not only creates a harmonious parent-child relationship, but also allows children to enjoy the fun of reading and experience the satisfaction of learning.
Good reading materials can enrich children’s minds and expand their horizons. In fact, we have not done enough in parent-child reading. We will work harder in the future, hoping that through these efforts, children can develop good reading habits and shape their own good personalities. The above are some of my experiences and encouragement to everyone. Parent-child reading experience: The Bookish Boy (3)
I remember that when we were young, there were many children in every household, our parents were very busy, and their educational level was not very high. They were more The figure is in the fields, on the stove... and there is very little time to really accompany us. Our parents would always say to us: "Go and play with the little sister (little brother) next door. Mom and dad have to be busy, be good." Nowadays, our generation of parents is getting younger and younger, and every household has only one child. Two children, watching society develop, children's growth must also keep up with the times. Therefore, more and more families will find time to cultivate their children, starting from an early age, such as the parent-child reading for young children that I want to share with you.
Parent-child reading is a very important interaction between parents and babies. Many preschool teachers say that good parent-child reading should be established from the time the baby is born. I think every parent starts reading with their baby with a beautiful picture in mind. However, they lose their persistence when the baby grabs the book, tears it up, and shows no interest. How to establish beautiful parent-child reading with your baby requires beautiful wisdom and patience from parents. Below, I will talk about some of my simple views on parent-child reading.
1. How to read with your children
First of all, we can choose appropriate books according to age, choose books and illustrations that children are more interested in, and increase children's desire to read. There should be a fixed amount of time for parent-child reading every day to cultivate interest in reading from an early age.
When choosing to read, it is a great test for children. There are many words and they do not understand them. Therefore, when reading with children, the characteristics of the books we choose must be bright colors and vivid patterns. There are few words, and the text description is slowly added so that children can understand the story based on the pictures.
Secondly, for children over four years old, you can let the children choose their favorite book before reading, and encourage the children to read it based on the illustrations, imagine the general meaning of the story, and then have parents guide them in reading together. When reading, be sure to tell your children the title of the book, which can deepen the impression of the book. The title is also a summary of the story in the book.
Finally, young children are prone to lack of patience. If the storyline is too long, their minds may have gone elsewhere while the story is being told and they may not be able to listen. Therefore, when you first start reading with your children, choose a story with a short and clear plot. , and encourage children to tell stories by repeating the storyline after telling them. After reading, study the plot of the story together, provide suggested references, let the children summarize their thoughts after reading, develop their imagination, and increase their language skills.
2. Benefits of parent-child reading
Parent-child reading can increase the relationship between children and parents. Parents are usually busy with work and have limited time to spend with their children. If they take some time to read with their children every day, the children will feel the deep love of their parents in their gentle voices, which is beneficial to their mental health.
Parent-child reading can cultivate children’s ability to think independently. Children will encounter many things they don’t understand when reading. You can tell them and guide them to think. The more they know, the more curious they will be. .
Parent-child reading can help parents better educate their children and guide their children's behavior. Sometimes parents don’t know how to teach their children, but there are correct behavioral norms in picture books. Parents can guide their children to learn according to the methods in the books, such as how to brush their teeth, take out the trash, sleep, etc., and the children will be more likely to accept it.
Parent-child reading can cultivate students’ interest in reading language and text, make children love books, and develop the habit of reading.
If you spend more time reading, you will have less time watching mobile TV and playing mobile games.
I believe that if parents can insist on spending a certain amount of time reading with their children every day and develop good reading habits for their children, this will benefit them throughout their lives. Parent-child reading experience: Bookish Boy (4)
Children are our hope. Parents all hope that their children can have good reading habits, and we also know the importance of reading to a person. Reading is an ability that a person must possess. Only by reading can one think, and by thinking can one judge. This is the basis for a person's success in modern social life. Living in the era of lifelong learning, facing the ever-changing knowledge information and diverse concepts of value, we need to have a continuous dialogue with books through reading and gradually learn to think independently. Therefore, reading is the basis of learning!
In fact, I did not deliberately cultivate my children. I just started to like parent-child reading with my children under the guidance of the teacher. I spent some time and paid more attention to it. Parent-child reading is not only the acquisition of knowledge by children, but also the emotional exchange between parents and children. It can be said that reading is the wealth accumulated by parents for their children. The rewards and benefits of parent-child reading are immediate. Through parent-child reading, I have found that the children's expression skills and self-confidence have been greatly improved. Through parent-child reading, he is gradually willing to express more and more things. He can recite the children's songs he has learned when he goes home, and can also describe stories with children. I think the most important thing to cultivate children's interest in reading is parent-child participation. If parents are involved, the effect can be twice the result with half the effort.
As children grow up, their interest in reading is also increasing. Almost anything with words can arouse his interest. After eating, he would unconsciously look through some newspapers or books and tell me about what he saw or some new things that happened in school. Many effective family education methods have also been derived from parent-child reading, which are of great benefit to cultivating children's thinking, moral character, and communication skills. Of course, children also benefit a lot from it. The formation of many good habits comes from their understanding and affirmation of the protagonist in the book.
Developing a good reading habit is an everlasting light that opens up a child’s independent exploration on the road to life. It will always light up the path under his feet as he grows up. Reading can increase knowledge and broaden horizons; reading can understand things and enhance abilities; reading can cultivate temperament and nourish people's hearts. Along the ladder formed by books, we can learn to be a person, learn to do things, and climb to one scientific peak after another.
I hope that I and my children can support and grow together on the road of parent-child education!
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