(1) Remember people’s strengths and forget their weaknesses. ——Zhang Jiuling

(2) An inch of courtesy will lead to a foot of sacrifice. ——Cao Cao

(3) You have to be merciful and be merciful. ——Cao Xueqin.

(4) People are the same no matter where they go. They should endure it and should not be stubborn and fight against society in vain. As long as you feel at ease, just go your own way. In order for a person to truly become an educated person, he must possess three qualities; profound knowledge, thinking habits and noble sentiments. ——Chernyshevsky? We deliberately make ourselves embarrassed and ridiculous in society because we are too vain and want to steal happiness from people's malice. Others are afraid of this kind of malice. It turns out that it is also because we arouse Caused by their jealousy. ——Stendhal

(5) We do not despise all people with bad habits, but we despise people who have no virtue at all. ——Anonymous

(6) If you live up to your heart on the inside and live up to the customs on the outside, don’t make friends for profit, and don’t seek salary in officialdom, learn from the past and present, purify your emotions and desires, why worry about the grievances in the world? —— Ji Kang

(7) If the purpose of improving appreciation cannot be achieved through cultivation, the word cultivation will be meaningless. ——Boys? It is polite to reciprocate, but it is not polite to go back and forth; it is also disrespectful to come and not go back.

——"Book of Rites"