Yan Zhitui: Brothers, fractal and even angry people, young, left behind by their parents with their forearms tied, eat the same, dress the same, learn the same and swim the same. Although people in chaos can't help falling in love. And strong, each wife, each son, although there are honest people, not much decline.
Fan Zhongyan: Filial piety should be done, loyalty and courage should be sincere; Brothers help each other and have boundless compassion. Diligently read sages' books and respect teachers; Don't be rude, you will admire your neighbor. Respect the old and the young, and sympathize with the lonely and the poor; Modest and honest, never proud. Don't waste paper, we must protect the five hubs; Do things according to nature and cherish life. Eight virtues in life, self-cultivation and service to the Lord God; Sun Jian's heart is guarded, and a home is a good root.
Su Xun: Entering is filial piety to parents; Be at peace with your neighbors when you leave. If you have questions and answers, you must improve your body here. Don't be ridiculous, don't be arrogant. Don't call the number on the table, just ask respectfully. Old people eat first, then walk.
Ji Xiaolan: One commandment is (late); Second, quit being lazy; Three commandments of luxury; Under the temptation is pride. Observe under temptation and observe four rules: First, study hard; Second, it is right to respect teachers; Three righteousness and love for the masses; Fourth, we should eat carefully.
2. About, the ancient poem of family rules and family instructions 1, Zeng Guofan's Family Instructions, Zeng Guofan's original text in the Qing Dynasty: the way of self-study is not difficult to raise the heart; It is difficult to raise your heart, but you should also be cautious.
You can be cautious, introspective and innocent, and you can geological ghosts and gods. No one is ashamed, then the heavenly king will be calm.
This heart is always agile and broad-minded, which is the first way to strengthen yourself, to have fun and to keep fit. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's self-cultivation is to cultivate one's mind, and the most difficult thing to cultivate one's mind is to be careful when you are alone.
If a person can be cautious in thinking, speaking and acting, he can have a clear conscience and live up to the conscience of heaven and earth and the questioning of ghosts and gods. If a person doesn't do anything guilty when he is alone, then he will feel very stable, and his mood will often be very happy, satisfied, relieved and safe. Think, say and do carefully (when you are alone) is the best road to self-improvement, the way to find happiness in life, and the basis to remain honest.
2, "Training frugality to show health" Northern Song Dynasty historian Sima Guang Original: The rest are famous for their frugality, and there are many people who lose themselves in extravagance, which is countless. Here are a few people to train you. If you are not a disciple, you should cultivate your children and let them know the customs of their predecessors.
There are many others who have built their reputations because of thrift, and committed suicide because of luxury, so I won't list them one by one. Here are some people to teach you. You should not only practice frugality yourself, but also use it to teach your children and grandchildren and let them know the styles and customs of their predecessors.
3. The original text of Fan Zhongyan in the Song Dynasty, "A Hundred Words Inscription of Fan Wenzheng's Public Instructions": Filial piety should do its best, loyalty and courage should show Dan Cheng; We should do our best to be filial to our parents and relatives and express our loyalty to our country. 4, "Disciple Rules" Li Yuxiu in the Qing Dynasty Original: Parents should call, should not go slow.
Parents, don't be lazy. Parents should listen to them.
Parents' responsibilities must be obeyed. Parents should answer the phone in time, and don't delay it for a long time.
Parents have something to explain, and they should start at once, without delay. Parents teach us how to behave, and we should listen respectfully.
5, "Reading on a Winter Night" Song Dynasty poet Lu You Original: The ancients learned nothing, and they lived for a long time. What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do.
The ancients spared no effort in learning, and often achieved nothing when they were old. The knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to understand the truth deeply, you must practice it yourself.
3. List the family precepts of an ancient celebrity 1, Lu You's family precepts. Lu You, a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, wrote 26 family instructions and passed them on to future generations, warning them: "Don't be an official, don't be an official, and don't regret it."
But don't be forced by food and clothing, for the people. Don't say that. Don't say that. "
It means that it is better to be an official than to farm, and it doesn't matter if you don't be an official all your life. Self-cultivation, food and clothing, such a good life, life without regret.
Remember, never do bad things to survive. 2. Zeng Guofan's family training Zeng Guofan, one of the four famous ministers in the late Qing Dynasty, is diligent, diligent and pragmatic, and has always been inherited by Zeng's descendants.
Zeng Guofan once left a 16-character motto about family style: "frugality is prosperous, diligence is healthy;" Thrift, never be poor. "It means that thrift can make the family prosperous, and diligence can make the body strong.
Thrift, life can rest easy. He refused to leave the money to future generations. He wrote to his daughter and said, "Since I was 30 years old, I have been ashamed to be an official and make a fortune, and I am ashamed to leave the money to my children.
Sun Ruoxian on the cover can find food and clothing by himself without his parents; Children and grandchildren who are not virtuous will accumulate more money and commit more crimes. Later, they would commit adultery and make a scene at home. Therefore, I will never make a fortune by being an official, nor will I distribute the money to future generations. "
It means being an official should be honest and clean, pleading for the people, not for making a fortune. Children and grandchildren depend on themselves. Why should I help them?
Therefore, I will never leave a penny for future generations. 3. Ji Xiaolan Family Training Ji Xiaolan, the first gifted scholar in the Qing Dynasty, had a strict family education and demanded "irresistible temptation" and "four clothes" for his children.
Under the temptation is: one abstains from getting up late, the other abstains from laziness, the third abstains from luxury, and under the temptation is pride. Four things are: first, study hard; Second, respect teachers; Third, love; Fourth, eat carefully.
"Under the temptation" and "Four Suits" complement each other and complement each other. Complement each other and make each other interesting.
Tell future generations not only what not to do, but also what to do. 4, Zhuge Liang's "Xunzishu" husband and gentleman's trip, quiet to cultivate one's morality, to cultivate one's morality.
Not cold, not awake, not quiet, not far away. Fu Xue, want to be quiet; Just, you have to learn.
If you don't learn, you can't be versatile, and if you don't want to learn, you can't succeed. You can't study hard if you are slow, and you can't be rational if you are in danger.
Interpretation: This is a letter written by Zhuge Liang to his eight-year-old son in his later years. In this letter, Zhuge Liang asked his son to study hard, be inspirational and work hard on his indifferent and quiet cultivation.
Don't be impetuous and behave absurdly. At the end of the article, he inculcated: "Young people who don't work hard are sad."
5, Zhou's "Zengguang Xianwen" accumulated thousands of dollars, it is better to understand the scriptures. Adopting a son without teaching is like raising a donkey, and adopting a daughter without teaching is like raising a pig.
There are fields that are not cultivated and books that are not read. Children and grandchildren are stupid, and the years are lacking. Children and grandchildren are stupid and polite. People don't understand today, horses and cattle are like donkeys.
Interpretation: Instead of saving 1200 gold, it is better to buy more books and pass them on to future generations. Raising an uneducated son is no different from raising a donkey, and raising an uneducated daughter is no different from raising pigs.
If you don't plow, the granary will be empty, and if you don't study, your descendants will be stupid. There is no guarantee for an empty life in the granary, and even the stupid children and grandchildren will not be polite.
Talking with you for a long time is more rewarding than studying for ten years. A person can't learn from the past, nor can he learn from the present, just like a cow or a horse wearing clothes makes no difference.
4. Ancient poems about good family style 1. Sleep all night and you are born-The Book of Songs? Xiaoya? After reading the original Xiao Wan, Wan Biming is a pigeon and Han Fei flies to heaven.
Sadness fills my heart, longing for the memory of my ancestors. I didn't fall asleep until dawn, and my parents missed it.
Smart people and smart people, drinkers can also see a steady stream. But those idiots get drunk every time they have a drink.
Please pay attention to their manners, and grace will never come again. The field is full of soybean seedlings, and people go to pick them together.
If the cotton bollworm has a young, the Potter wasp will bring it back. You were educated by me to inherit the favor of our ancestors.
Look at the Ji bird over there, calling its name while flying. Every day outside, I travel outside.
Get up early and be greedy for the dark, and don't humiliate your parents. They called the birds and they pecked at the millet along the valley.
Self-pity and self-pity are worse, even if it is really annoying to go to court. When can I get lucky? Being gentle and polite to those people is like standing on a big tree.
Be afraid, just like you are in the valley. Trembling, walking on thin ice! The turtledove is small and short, flying high in the sky.
How sad my heart is, I believe in my ancestors. I can't sleep all night and miss my parents all over the world.
Anyone who is smart and wise will drink moderately and will not get dizzy. Those ignorant fools are even more complacent when they are drunk.
Everyone's dignity must be cautious, and his fate is gone forever. The soybeans in the field are flourishing, and the civilians collect them for cooking.
The moth gave birth to a young, and the thin-waisted bee took it back to the nest. Educate the next generation and inherit Zude.
Look at the bird's name Lingling, singing while flying. I am going forward today, and you are busy traveling every month.
Get up early and go to bed late. Try hard. Don't insult your parents. Birds are flying around, pecking at corn along the fields.
Have pity on us poor people, and we will go to jail to sue. Grab a handful of millet for divination. Where can I get good luck? People are respectful and gentle, just like living in a big tree.
Be careful when you are nervous, as if you are near a deep valley, and be careful when you are afraid, walking on thin ice! Second, there is no end to filial piety, never leaving the body-(Western Jin Dynasty) The original reading of Fu Xian's Two Chapters of Filial Piety. There is no resentment up and down, and it is not evil to people.
There is no end to filial piety. These three people are prepared to serve the people.
Honor the king, don't leave a name. It is obligatory to think and believe.
Cure its evil, and disaster will not happen. Filial piety to the gods.
Nowadays, in the world, it is necessary to follow the heaven, and filial piety begins with serving parents. (The former king ruled the country by virtue) People, no matter how high or low, have no resentment or dissatisfaction.
People who love their parents will not hate other people's parents. Filial piety has no beginning and no end, and it can maintain wealth.
Dress, speech and behavior are in line with etiquette and morality. The former king ruled the country and governed the people by rules and regulations.
People with filial piety will be loyal to the monarch and will not lose their good reputation. Be loyal to yourself, and you will be just if you don't remonstrate.
If negligence is corrected and remedied, all kinds of natural disasters will not happen. Obey your parents and brothers to the extreme, and you can achieve immortality.
Third, the righteousness is practiced, and the family is skillful —— (Western Jin Dynasty) The original reading of Pan Yue's Poem on Family Style. The hair also stops at the temple.
Day by day. Be wary of it.
There is no shortage of professional knowledge. By parents.
Singing cranes and bandits. Analysis of salary and welfare.
There are hidden worries and regrets. My house is a mess.
Justice is training. The Ying Ying family.
How dare you be desolate? Three provinces a day.
Roll up your black hair and join the ranks of adults. We should learn all kinds of skills, inherit the fine family style, and be respectful and cautious.
Just like parents whose health is affected, family virtues should be carried forward. The crane crows in the north mountain, and the crane crows with it. They can't inherit and carry forward the family style, and they feel very painful and can't solve it.
The family style has been set and the family rules are strict. I must go to three provinces a day, obey the rules anytime and anywhere, and dare not waste it.
Fourth, smart people do things, Shang Mo is in China-(Western Han Dynasty) Dong Fangshuo's "Poems of Admonishment" was the first civilized person, and Shang Mo was in China. You are comfortable, you follow the path.
The first Yang is a fool and Liu Xia is a worker. Eat well and walk safely, and replace agriculture with officials.
Now is not a good time to live in seclusion and play the world. Only when you are in danger can you have a good reputation
A group of people are tired and lonely. There's not much left, and there's not much left.
The way of saints, dragons and snakes. See the god hidden in the form and change things.
There is no home at any time. Nothing is more valuable than translating the attitude of the wise in line with the middle way.
Calm and comfortable, naturally mean. Therefore, gentlemen like Boyi and Shu Qi, though lofty, are stubborn and clumsy in life. Liu Xiahui, on the other hand, is the smartest and most original person. He respects things with integrity, and no matter how he manages the world in troubled times, he will not change his normal state.
Have plenty of food and clothing, be content with the status quo, and replace retirement farming with being an official. Quiet and modest in the imperial court, living a leisurely life like a hermit, will not be hurt, although it does not cater to the times.
What is the reason? Sharp-edged, there will be danger; If you have a good reputation, you can get a lottery ticket. Get the expected and busy life; Self-righteous loss of people and.
There is room for everything and nothing is lacking; Everything is exhausted and exhausted. Therefore, the principles of a sage's life, such as walking, hiding, moving and being quiet, are all suitable at that time, sometimes colorful and mysterious; Sometimes silence is dormant and unfathomable.
He can live with the changes of everything and time in the most appropriate way, instead of staying the same and never sticking to the rules.
5. Family style, family discipline and family rules, the minimum is 0.27 yuan. Open a librarian to view the full content > The whole family is based on love. Without love, a family cannot be established, and love is the first condition for marriage.
I have collected a complete set of famous sayings about family style and family instruction. Welcome to reading. Old people, like the earth, silently bear everything, tolerate everything and educate everything.
Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed. Old people should inherit the family tradition, parents should demonstrate the family tradition, husband and wife should steer the family tradition, children should inherit the family tradition, grandchildren should obey the family tradition, and brothers and sisters should contend with it.
How does an old man make his family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.
No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is nothing more than a shame. If something goes wrong at home, the old people should be ashamed: it is my old people who have not done well, are wicked and have not educated their families well.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home are all foreign surnames, and mother and daughter come to the same home. There are problems at home, first of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly.
First, we didn't do our duty. Second, we went too far. I feel that love has no shelf (price): don't elevate your position and don't treat love as a business.
Understand each other's benefits and admire each other's benefits; Understand each other's difficulties and forgive each other's mistakes. If the other party has it, you can enlighten and guide the other party to change.
A child's ignorance is like a sour fruit. If the fruit is sour, you should work hard at the roots.
The five steps of educating children: nurturing, educating, teaching, leading and guiding, but not controlling. The key is to cultivate morality and educate morality.
Children don't have to worry, they are all influenced by virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches.
Not charming, not drowning, not hitting people, not swearing. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation.
Different family roles have different ways of paying attention. Men have no ambition, and their family is not prosperous.
Women are not soft, drive the money away. A woman's temperament should be soft as water, so that she can be rich, and money and luck will naturally follow; If a woman is strong.
6. Ancient poems about keeping family rules and promoting family style There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, but few people can succeed.
-The posthumous son of Princess Luzon, my descendants are innocent. -"Liang Shu and Zhou She Xu Mianchuan" children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, don't be cattle and horses for them.
-Yuan Anonymous "Yu Qiao Ji" Children are people who create industries, not people who inherit them. -Tao Xingzhi "How to Choose Books" Anyone who doesn't love himself really lacks the qualification to be a father.
-Lu Xun's "How Do We Be Fathers Now", wealth is meaningless, and the family is ruined. -"Dian Ju Jiao Dian, ancient and modern books supplemented, integrated with Dong Mao, a model of a family" Don't be suspicious, don't listen to the language of alienation, don't do anything different, and don't specialize in public interests.
-Nine times out of ten, the "Family Biography Model of Ancient and Modern Books Integration" was left to future generations. -Song Linbu's "Peace of Mind". Thank you.
7. Translation of Classical Chinese Family Instructions Jiang Duanyou's Family Instructions:
Ordinary people know the origin of food when they eat. Grain is a difficult process for farmers to harvest after sowing. It only grows when the weather between heaven and earth is favorable, and then it matures into raw food. None of this is easy. Delicious meat is obtained by killing animals, and the suffering is beyond words. I really can't bear to eat when I think of it, let alone choose the good and the bad, which leads to disgust. After a hearty meal, no matter whether it is eight treasures or miscellaneous medicinal materials, they are all regarded as rotten things. Therefore, no matter how rich your family is, you need to be frugal, and you will be self-sufficient if you can fill your stomach. You know, there are countless people outside the door, people who work hard and can't get a full meal, and people who are hungry all day and can't get food. I can't just sit around and enjoy the food. What choice do I have? If this can be done, it will not only be easy to be satisfied with less desires, but also be of great help to learning. I once said that few people who want to learn Taoism or study hard and ignore food can live a long life directly. Besides, you will die in a short time, so don't learn Taoism at this time, restore your nature, return to your source, and only satisfy your appetite and fatten your body. This is really an empty world. There is nothing to do after dinner. It is good for everyone to read an article or two at will through Shi Wendian, which is better than using your mind elsewhere.
When dealing with people, you should choose people who are upright and elegant. If you make friends, you will regret it. Besides, you can't stay with those people for a long time, be influenced by them, or be a saint all your life. When talking about others, don't delve into their right and wrong, but think about it and know who is right and who is wrong. Chess is an elegant game. It can be said that it can be played. Don't break your will by talking and laughing with women. This is the last thing you can do. Since you don't respect yourself, you will be despised by people of insight. As human beings, people are despised by others. You have to remember this!
Jiang Duanyou's family motto:
It is not easy for people to know what they eat and drink, and it is not easy to make crops. The taste of meat kills, and its pain makes people think they don't want to eat it. If they choose to like or not, they will be angry again. A full meal, careless and eight treasures, stinking and rotten, rich and frugal with family, enough to satisfy hunger. There are countless poor people outside the door, some of whom have worked hard and have not enough to eat, and some of whom are hungry all day and can't eat. I have no choice but to sit and eat. If you can do this, you will not only want to be easy, but also learn to help. As I said, if you want to learn Taoism, you must overcome difficulties and eat lightly before you can live a long life without geometry. Looking around, you are isolated from the world. At this time, I don't learn the Tao, I return to my roots, I only care about my mouth and support myself. It can be said that you are a world. There's nothing to eat. It's better to read one or two "Shi Wen Dian" slowly than to have ulterior motives.
To make friends with others, choose elegant people. If you cross it, you will regret it and you will get used to it for a long time. You can't be a good person all your life. Don't go deep into the right and wrong of others when you speak, just know what is right and wrong. The elegant play of chess is just as good as saying that women don't participate, and it is most impossible to laugh off their fangs and lose their will. If you don't respect yourself, you will be despised for your knowledge. If you are a man, you will be treated lightly. You will make up your mind to do so.
8. Family Style and Family Discipline Famous sayings Original Publisher: Sany Building
Trinity Library () [Family Style] The whole family is based on love. Without love, families cannot be established. Love is the first condition for starting a family. I have collected a complete set of famous sayings about family style and family instruction. Welcome to reading. Old people, like the earth, silently bear everything, tolerate everything and educate everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed. Old people should inherit the family tradition, parents should demonstrate the family tradition, husband and wife should steer the family tradition, children should inherit the family tradition, grandchildren should obey the family tradition, and brothers and sisters should contend with it. How does an old man make his family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is nothing more than a shame. If something goes wrong at home, the old people should be ashamed: it is my old people who have not done well, are wicked and have not educated their families well. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home are all foreign surnames, and mother and daughter come to the same home. There are problems at home, first of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, we didn't do our duty. Second, we went too far. I feel that love has no shelf (price): don't elevate your position and don't treat love as a business. Understand each other's benefits and admire each other's benefits; Understand each other's difficulties and forgive each other's mistakes. If the other party has it, you can enlighten and guide the other party to change. A child's ignorance is like a sour fruit. If the fruit is sour, you should work hard at the roots. The five steps of educating children: nurturing, educating, teaching, leading and guiding, but not controlling. The key is to cultivate morality and educate morality. Children don't have to worry, they are all influenced by virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Not charming, not drowning, not hitting people, not swearing. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation. Different family roles have different ways of paying attention. Men have no ambition, and their family is not prosperous. Women are not soft, drive the money away. A woman's temperament should be soft as water, so that she can be rich, and money and luck will naturally follow; If a woman is strong,
9. List the family precepts of an ancient celebrity 1 and Lu You's family precepts.
Lu You, a poet in the Southern Song Dynasty, wrote 26 family instructions all his life and passed them on to future generations, warning them: "It is impossible to be an official, or you are a farmer. No regrets. But don't be forced by food and clothing, for the people. Ring the bell. "
It means that it is better to be an official than to farm, and it doesn't matter if you don't be an official all your life. Self-cultivation, food and clothing, such a good life, life without regret. Remember, never do bad things to survive.
2. Zeng Guofan's family precepts
Zeng Guofan is one of the four famous ministers in the late Qing Dynasty. His diligence, diligence and pragmatism have been passed down by Zeng's descendants. Zeng Guofan once left a 16-character motto about family style: "frugality is prosperous, diligence is healthy;" Thrift, never be poor. "
It means that thrift can make the family prosperous, and diligence can make the body strong. Thrift, life can rest easy.
He refused to leave the money to future generations. He wrote to his daughter and said, "Since I was 30 years old, I have been ashamed to be an official and make a fortune, and I am ashamed to leave the money to my children. Sun Ruoxian on the cover can find food and clothing by himself without his parents; Children and grandchildren who are not virtuous will accumulate more money and commit more crimes. Later, they would commit adultery and make a scene at home. So I will never make a fortune by being an official, and I will never give money to future generations. "
It means being an official should be honest and clean, pleading for the people, not for making a fortune. Children and grandchildren depend on themselves. Why should I help them? Therefore, I will never leave a penny for future generations.
3, Ji Xiaolan family training
Ji Xiaolan, the first gifted scholar in Qing Dynasty, had a strict family education and asked his children to be "under temptation" and "under four clothes". Under the temptation is: one abstains from getting up late, the other abstains from laziness, the third abstains from luxury, and under the temptation is pride. Four things are: first, study hard; Second, respect teachers; Third, love; Fourth, eat carefully.
"Under the temptation" and "Four Suits" complement each other and complement each other. Complement each other and make each other interesting. Tell future generations not only what not to do, but also what to do.
4. Zhuge Liang's Book of Commandments
A gentleman's journey is quiet to cultivate one's morality, and frugal to cultivate one's morality. Not cold, not awake, not quiet, not far away. Fu Xue, want to be quiet; Just, you have to learn. If you don't learn, you can't be versatile, and if you don't want to learn, you can't succeed. You can't study hard if you are slow, and you can't be rational if you are in danger.
Interpretation: This is a letter written by Zhuge Liang to his eight-year-old son in his later years. In this letter, Zhuge Liang asked his son to study hard, be inspirational and work hard on his indifferent and quiet cultivation. Don't be impetuous and behave absurdly. At the end of the article, he inculcated: "Young people who don't work hard are sad."
5. Zhou's "Augmented Contributions"
It is better to understand the scriptures than to save thousands of dollars. Adopting a son without teaching is like raising a donkey, and adopting a daughter without teaching is like raising a pig. There are fields that are not cultivated and books that are not read. Children and grandchildren are stupid, and the years are lacking. Children and grandchildren are stupid and polite. People don't understand today, horses and cattle are like donkeys.
Interpretation: Instead of saving 1200 gold, it is better to buy more books and pass them on to future generations. Raising an uneducated son is no different from raising a donkey, and raising an uneducated daughter is no different from raising pigs. If you don't plow, the granary will be empty, and if you don't study, your descendants will be stupid. There is no guarantee for an empty life in the granary, and even the stupid children and grandchildren will not be polite.
Talking with you for a long time is more rewarding than studying for ten years. A person can't learn from the past, nor can he learn from the present, just like a cow or a horse wearing clothes makes no difference.