When you learn to be strong, don't forget the injuries that make you strong. Worry is torturing yourself with your own mistakes; Regret is destroying yourself with helpless past events; Worry is to scare yourself with virtual risks; Loneliness is to imprison yourself in a self-made prison; Inferiority is to destroy yourself with the strengths of others. Stop caring about the soul, that's God's business. What you can do is to do every little thing in life well. Life is in a hurry, don't leave regrets for yourself, try to live in the way you like. Take fewer detours and you will miss the scenery. Don't forget the distance you decided to reach because of one setback. If you are confused and miserable, please think about why you started. 3. Do what you want to do, not what others want to see. Many people are unhappy because they always feel that the past is too good, the present is too bad and the future is too foggy. We grew up by chance, even if something seems to be going backwards, we have to face it. We can turn back, but we don't have to. You should make big strides in the right direction instead of looking back and complaining that you were wrong. It is better to fight for the future than to regret the past. Whenever you want to give up, think about what keeps you going. The road of life depends on yourself. Many personnel changes, although you can't control them, can only follow the fate. But it is good to know that people are alive. Don't compete with yourself all your life. Living flatly and faintly is the greatest happiness in the universe. The blooming of flowers endows the world with colorful beauty, the singing of birds brings us beautiful music, the jogging of snails teaches us unyielding spirit, white lies can make us know later and feel later, and the affectionate warmth of the world makes the vicissitudes of life full of love. Let's move forward happily in life! 6, floating like tea. Because of the ups and downs of tea, it releases its own fragrance, and life, only when it encounters setbacks and bumps again and again, will inspire the fragrance of life. People who have never experienced wind and rain are like tea soaked in warm water, which only floats on the surface of life and can't soak the fragrance of life at all. In life, suffering is to exercise the will; Surviving a disaster is to increase your strength. 7. Every step we take is a new starting point, and these starting points are connected into the trajectory of our lives. Don't be afraid to start, only after the initial difficulties can there be a leap in evolution; Don't be afraid of the end, all the ends are new beginnings. In the end, we will find that life is like a circle, and the end point is also the starting point. Don't expect too much, what you get will eventually be lost; Don't be too afraid, it's always you who can dominate you. When you choose that moment, don't doubt or hesitate. Decision is just one way you have to go. Life is like a journey, you will inevitably encounter thorns and bumps, but when you reach the end, you will find yourself on the way? Rough? It's just a landscape on your journey. 9. There are too many regrets, too many sorrows and too many helplessness in one's life. Friction, misunderstanding, entanglements, grudges, can all become the shadow, pain and sadness of life. So we must learn to forget, forget the grievances in love, forget all the sadness, forget all the hatred, forget all the pain and forget all the unhappiness. 10, on the road of life, we will encounter many setbacks, and genius is inseparable from setbacks. It is precisely because of setbacks that genius can be made. In setbacks, we learn to be strong, in adversity, we learn to live in a different way, firmly believing that the benefits of life are not boring. Sometimes, it is difficult for us to change our living environment, but we can change our attitude towards ourselves. 1 1. You can't succeed if you work hard, and you can't succeed if you don't work hard. Your parents and your future family depend on you. Why don't you sit down and be discouraged? Why don't others know how to work as hard as they do, but you indulge yourself? No background, no background, it doesn't matter, then compare with the future, fight for the future, and rely on ambition. Hard work is better than death. 12, there is not much difference between people, the real difference lies in the mentality. Either you control life or life controls you. Mentality determines who is a jockey. ? Faced with the trough of life, some people give in to reality and give up their ideals and pursuits. Some people don't bow their heads and give up. They constantly examine their lives, analyze their mistakes and face them bravely, so as to get out of the predicament and pursue their dreams. Everything is controlled by the heart! 13, life is like the weather, there is rain in the sun, and the wind will rise after the tree is quiet. If you feel unhappy, just blow in the wind and get wet in the rain. The world is big, the scenery is numerous, and life is short. Instead of crouching in the shadows, it is better to fight bravely, starting with failure and taking setbacks as a ladder. As long as you work hard and struggle hard, you will find that without the shadow, the sunshine will lose its meaning and the flowers growing on the wound will be more dazzling. 14. Life is a 10,000-meter race. If someone criticizes you, you should run faster so that those voices will be behind you and you will never hear them again. 15, give yourself a compliment! Everyone will encounter many things every day, both good and bad, but we can't face them with the same mentality. Sometimes we will be depressed, irritable, uneasy and insecure, and sometimes we will be comfortable, calm and natural, but no matter what our mentality, we must remember to give ourselves a compliment! 16, life is one mistake after another, and the college entrance examination is just one of the nodes. All the processes have their meanings. What we learn is a mark that can affect our life. The people we meet are friends we cherish all our lives. The successes, glories, setbacks and failures we have experienced are precious experiences in our lives. 17, when everything was hopeless, I watched the stonemason knock on his stone hundreds of times, but no cracks appeared. But at the 10 1 time, the stone was split in half. I realized that it was not this blow, but the previous blow that split it. 18, looking for something recognized by others all your life will lose your happiness and happiness forever. Vulgar comments will annihilate your personality, and secular suggestions will leave you at a loss. Money for money will make you disown your six relatives, power for power will make you bold, and fame for name will make you unprepared. In the deliberate pursuit, the real me will become fragments fluttering in the wind, and the secular me will become disgusting. Get kitsch, lose truth, strengthen confidence and own yourself. 19, no matter how you choose, as long as it is your own choice, there is no right or wrong, and there is no need to regret it. The past you will not satisfy the present you, and the present you will not satisfy the future you. If you have the courage to choose, you should have the courage to bear the consequences. 20. Don't stand by and envy the happiness of others. In fact, your own happiness is always by your side. As long as you have life and hands that can work miracles, you have no reason to be a passer-by and a bystander, and no reason to complain about life. Because as long as you work hard, happiness can be achieved.