It is harder to say than to say, and it is harder to say than to do.

——"History of the Song Dynasty" Volume 442 "Biography of Wenyuan"

A gentleman tolerates what others cannot tolerate, tolerates what others cannot tolerate, and deals with what others cannot tolerate.

——Manan Village's "Yanshan Night Talk: Self-cultivation"

A gentleman carries his wealth with kindness.

——"Yi Kun"

A gentleman should know that the big is far away, and the villain should know that the small is near.

——"Zuo Zhuan: The Thirty-One Years of Duke Xiang"

Tolerate what cannot be tolerated and tolerate what cannot be tolerated, only those who know enough about others can do it.

——[Ming Dynasty] Volume 1 of Xue Xuan's "Principles of Neo-Confucianism"

Don't hold your body too clean, and accept all the insults and filth; don't be too clear-cut in your dealings with the world, and don't be too clear-cut about the virtuous and foolish. It's so ugly that you have to tolerate it.

——Master Hongyi's "Farewell to the Proverbs"

Being gentle is enough to gather people, being disciplined is enough to convince others, being generous is enough to win people, and being proactive is enough to lead people.

——[Song Dynasty] Lin Bu's "Records of Saving Hearts"

The sea embraces all rivers, and it is great to have tolerance; it stands on a wall with thousands of feet, and it is strong to have no desire.

——"Couplets of Celebrities in Ancient and Modern Times" written by Lin Zexu.

It is not the fault of others to tolerate their faults.

——"Traditional Customs and Customs"

The prime minister is very fond of punting.

——[Ming Dynasty] Ye Sheng's "Shuidong Diary"

Only when you can tolerate villains can you become a gentleman.

——[Ming Dynasty] Feng Menglong's "Zengguang Zhitanbu" Volume 3

It is a good thing to be able to forgive others, but it would be even better if you can completely forget other people's mistakes. good.

——(English) Browning's "Poetry"

If you can read, you will be talented and knowledgeable; if you can nourish your energy, you will be ambitious.

——[Qing Dynasty] Jiangyin Baiyi layman "Hutian Lu"

He is able to serve others, so he has a guilty conscience; The taller the person.

——[Ming Dynasty] Li Zhi's "Book Burning: Gao Jie's Theory"

It is better to resolve grievances than to settle them.

——[Qing Dynasty] Yang Fenghui's "Nangao Notes" Volume 2

Only wide can accommodate people, but thick can carry things.

——[Ming Dynasty] Xue Xuan's "Book of Readings" Volume 1

Being respectful and respectful can inspire bravery; being broad-minded and upright can accommodate people.

——"Collected Sayings of Confucius·Qi Diao Shi"

When the eye holes are shallow, there is no large amount.

——[Ming Dynasty] Feng Menglong's "Eternal Words to Awaken the World" Volume 1

Be respectful and treat others with forgiveness.

——"Preface and Notes to the Collection of Cai E·"Quotations of Zeng Hu Zhibing""

The world is vast in my belly, and there are often boats to ferry people.

——"Selected Poems of Ten Old Masters" Zhu De's "Visiting Qixingyan"