As everyone knows, this is just an ignorant child, trapped in his own ignorant little world. Outside that well, adults also sit in their own wells to see the world, believe in their wishful thinking, and stubbornly adhere to the justice in their "wells".
Stubbornness can be said to be a derogatory term, belonging to those ignorant people who paint the land as a prison and ban themselves. The world often doesn't like it. But I never asked myself whether I belonged to that stubborn frog in the well.
Adults are a complex of contradictions, and contradictions are not just exclusive titles for women. Stubborn beliefs and stubborn taboos at the same time.
In the adult world, stubbornness is still taboo.
Kant once felt that the lesson that mankind has learned from history is that mankind has never learned from it. In the adult world, yes. They only believe what they want to believe, but they will not change what they don't want to change.
For example, parents in China only see how excellent other people's children are, and take it for granted that their children should also achieve such achievements and become their own existence to show off.
However, I have never thought about whether the genes I passed on to my child are qualified to be a person, and I have never thought about whether the thoughts I imposed on my child are what he expected.
As a result, contradictions have gained a firm foothold in this family. Parents' expectation and children's resistance, the final result is either parents' pessimistic compromise, or children's warning to parents all over the world at the cost of burning their lives: you have made me lose confidence in my family and the world with your stubbornness! Sad tragedy is always alerting the adults in the world, stepping out of stubbornness and seeing the world from a new angle.
People often use the generation gap to describe the inconsistency between people, which is actually a stubborn performance. Stubborn people, not bad people, just immerse themselves in their own world and do something meaningless to the world.
When someone kindly points out some minor faults to them, the stubborn person will say, I know, but he won't make any changes. It's like trying to communicate, but he patiently listened to what you said. It seems that such people will not please people from the beginning.
Stubbornness is the passport of the stubborn, and prejudice is the sophistry of the prejudiced. They are trapped in the cage of their own thoughts, regard stubbornness as an iron bar and enclose themselves in stubbornness. Reject all visitors, perhaps naive expectation, maybe one day you can really pick up thousands of stars in the sky.
Stubborn people are unpopular, even if they are not suspects. But when they were young, they also longed to be an ordinary person who was needed by society and loved by others. What makes this person who is eager to be Andersen's child become Snow White's vicious stepmother, who only wants to believe that there is only the most correct self in the world.
If you are willing to explore his life, you will find that he is also a victim of family and society, suffering from unwarranted stubborn expectations, stumbling into the arranged fork in the road, and finally becoming such a four-elephant.
It turns out that stubbornness can be contagious, especially when adults instill stubbornness in their children. This adult world is full of contradictions and ironies. Step by step, we become the most annoying ourselves. Finally, we tortured ourselves and never let others go.
I think adults are not rigid, but more, we can be our own masters. From now on, let go of all our experiences and positions, let everything start from scratch, let go of ourselves and liberate others.
The Buddha said, put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha. Just gently put down your sharp knife aimed at yourself and others. So you won't be scarred and bleeding, and you don't have to look at everyone defensively.
Relax physically and mentally, and look at everything around me from a new perspective that I have never paid attention to since I became an adult. You will find that the air is so fresh today, and the stars you wanted to pick when you were a child are still shining in the night sky. Everything around you has not changed. Only you have changed.
The prodigal son returns, but he still doesn't exchange gold. When a stubborn adult stood up from the well where he painted himself as a prison, he found that the wellhead was only a standing distance away from him.
My former self stubbornly believed that this well was the whole world. Coming out of the well requires not only the courage to break all barriers, but also the wisdom to believe that you have entered another greater comfort zone. Break conservative stubbornness and move towards openness and tolerance.
Water conservancy is omnipotent, but it is soft. But since the water is still flowing, although we also cut it with swords, we hope to get out of stubborn adults and lead a wonderful life!