Things are always in constant ups and downs. "It is better to be open-minded when you have a certain time, but in the long run, it may be a blessing."
The story of a blessing in disguise tells the same truth. Once upon a time, there was an old man who lived in the border area adjacent to the Hu people. Passers-by all addressed him as "Sai Weng". Sai Weng is philosophical by nature and treats people differently. One day, for some unknown reason, Sai Weng's horse got lost while eating grass and never came back. When the neighbors learned the news, they all expressed regret. However, Sai Weng doesn't think so. Instead, he comforted everyone: "Losing horses is certainly a bad thing, but who knows if it will bring good results?" Sure enough, a few months later, the lost old horse ran back from the Great Wall and brought back a good horse rode by the Hu people. So the neighbors got together to congratulate Sai Weng and praised his foresight when he lost his horse. At this time, however, Sai Weng was worried and said, "Alas, who knows if this incident will bring me disaster?" Sai Weng's family has added a good horse that the Hu people ride, and his son is very happy, so he rides it every day and enjoys it. Finally, one day, my son got carried away, fell off the galloping horse, injured his leg and was disabled for life. After hearing the news, the kind neighbors came to offer their condolences, but Sai Weng still said, "Who knows if there will be a good result?" Another year passed, and the Hu people invaded the Central Plains on a large scale, and the border situation suddenly became tense. All able-bodied young people were recruited as soldiers, and nine times out of ten they died on the battlefield. Because Sai Weng's son was lame, he was exempted from military service, and the father and son also escaped this disaster in Where Are You Going? This idiom tells us that neither good nor bad in the world is absolute. Under certain conditions, bad things can have good results, and good things may also have bad results.
There are many laws at work in life, and contradiction is just one of them. When the law of contradiction does not play a major role, it may be wrong to think that suffering is a blessing. However, if you deny that suffering is a blessing, you will make the mistake of generalizing the whole.
Where is Fubao? A netizen put it well:
1 When you really understand that suffering is a blessing, you are blessed.
The happiness of losing money lies not in the loss itself, but in the influence after losing money. For example, if you invite people to dinner because of business, you will have to bear the loss of 200 yuan, but others can help you make business, which can generate a blessing of 1000 yuan.
The advantage of losing money is that the result is different from that of not losing money. Sometimes, if you don't lose money, you will lose more. Everyone is willing to suffer a little loss, right? Someone stepped on his foot and didn't want to suffer, so they fought and ended up with a disability. That would be a big loss.
Concentrate on things and do important things well, isn't it the greatest blessing to lose money?