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What are the maxims of running a family?
People should not be happy when they are in trouble. Being a good person and wanting to be seen by others is not really good; Fear of being known is a great sin. Seeing the color, I reported my wife and daughter;

Hide resentment with arrows in the back, delaying future generations. Home and everything, although not from, but also happy;

The Chinese class ended in the morning, but there was nothing left. I was complacent.

Reading is aimed at sages, serving officials and serving the country.

It's hard to succeed in one's home.

Everything is harmonious, so be humble and tame; Save money to keep the house, wealth does not forget the book; Eat reasonably and keep fit.

Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, and leisure can die.

No matter the size of the family, harmony is the most important thing. Parents should cultivate and repay with care.

Law enforcement is like a mountain

Join hands to share a better life and create a safe home together.

Brothers and uncles need to be more generous, regardless of age, whether inside or outside, should be strict with themselves.

Cultivate studious study habits.

It's hard to fall asleep when you are greedy, your hands are clean and the food smells good.

The tradition of collecting intelligence information has been passed down from generation to generation.

Love, righteousness, dreams, and single-minded pursuit.

Justice produces clarity, while partiality produces ambiguity.

Avoid morality in life; Sincerity is the most important thing in life.

Loyalty is not lost in noble work, and the hearts of public servants are firm because of respect.

Rich without luxury, poor without ambition.

Rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, diligent housekeeping, boasting at both ends, and great family harmony.

It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal.

Honesty begins with words and deeds, and civilization lies in bits and pieces.

Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay overnight.

The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold;

The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.

It is better to prepare for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.

Three aunts and six wives are the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.

It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.

Work diligently for the country and frugally for the family.

It is easy to be frugal, but difficult to be frugal.

The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold; The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.

Life should be frugal, and teaching children should be upright.

Worry and fatigue can rejuvenate the country, and leisure can die.

People's livelihood is diligent, but diligence is not lacking.

Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land.

If you are naughty, you will be bored for a long time;

Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other.

Is it unreasonable to listen to the speech lightly?

People say that husband and wife are close, just like a family.

Diligent housekeeping, open-minded reading, governing the country by virtue.

Poor knowledge never forgets, and the wife of dross never leaves the court.

Men have no ambition, and their family is not prosperous. Women are not soft, drive the money away.

Filial piety is the first word; The courtesy word is behind; Net language finale

Men are superior to women, women are superior to men and men are equal; Husband respects wife, wife respects husband, and husband and wife love each other.

Husband and wife take love as the root, fill each other's gaps and don't blame each other.

We should do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues to ensure the prosperity of the family.

If you accumulate goodness, you will be rich, and if you accumulate virtue, you will be flat.

All virtues and filial piety are the first, and harmony between brothers is the most important. Children should guard against arrogance and laziness, and couples should not be suspicious.

Modesty is the most important thing in life, and honesty is the foundation of life.

Say a thousand words, say 10 thousand words, it is better to do it in a down-to-earth manner.

It is necessary to guard against others, but it is impossible to harm others.

Be filial to parents, respect teachers, cherish time and know how to pay.

Respect the old and love the young, and love your neighbors and relatives.

Strict family style and harmonious family; Living in the countryside is tolerant, and the countryside is harmonious.

The husband doesn't think his wife is ugly, and the wife doesn't think her husband is poor. Complete family aphorisms

A family, baking like a treasure, black sheep, money like grass.

Be patient and think twice before you act; How do I know if I argue about something, it's not my fault?

Listen to the woman said, good flesh and blood, is it a husband, value talent, thin parents, not a man's son?

Keep quiet and listen to the weather forecast. If you do this, you will be very close.

You must think calmly. Don't forget to help without thinking.

Leave room for everything and be proud of it.

Three aunts and six wives are the media of prostitution and theft;

Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.

Don't be handsome for a servant, and don't make up for wives.

Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere;

Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics.

Simple residence period; The essence of teaching children.

Moral cultivation is the foundation, diligence and talent can build a family, and friends are frank, simple and elegant.

Dragons are role models for families; Son, it is the words and deeds of the family.

Tao is the road under your feet, and virtue is the name behind you.

Don't forget the lessons of the five bows and arrows that made the five brothers reconcile.

Reading makes people quiet, while learning makes people far away.

Seeing small profits, you can't make great contributions; Selfish, can't seek business.

When you see poor relatives and neighbors, you must warm your shirt.

Put an end to evil thoughts, crooked thoughts and greed, and take the road of getting rich through diligence and thrift.

Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, clean inside and outside; When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will behave well.

Reading is aimed at sages, serving officials and serving the country.

Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, clean inside and outside;

When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will behave well.

It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal;

It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.

It is better to prepare for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.

Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay overnight.

The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold;

The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.

Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land.

If you are naughty, you will be bored for a long time;

Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other.

Is it unreasonable to listen to the speech lightly?

Zhu's motto of managing the family

1, don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land.

2. Reading is aimed at sages, not disciples; If you are an official, you will keep your country.

3. Save your life and leave it to fate. If you do this, you will be very close.

4, the heart is good, rich and old. Life is not smooth, and happiness becomes an ominous sign.

5. Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice must be sincere; Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read classics.

6. The life cycle is simple, and the godson should have an upright side.

7. Don't covet unexpected wealth and don't drink too much wine.

8. Do not use the transaction with Shoujian; When you see poor relatives and neighbors, you must warm your shirt.

9, three aunts and six grandmothers, the media of prostitution and theft; Beautiful girls and concubines are not the blessings of the boudoir.

10, don't use handsome servants, don't make heavy makeup for wives and concubines.

1 1, don't bully the weak with the strong; Don't be greedy and kill birds.

12, eccentric, there will be many regrets; Laziness and self-indulgence are hard.

13, regardless of giving benefits, but don't forget to be grateful.

14, I am proud of leaving room for everything.

15, people are happy, not jealous; People should not be happy when they are in trouble.

16. It is not really good to be seen by others, but it is a great evil to be afraid of being known by others.

17, it is the most shameful to forget righteousness; Being arrogant when you are poor is nothing more than meanness.

18, the family avoids litigation, and the lawsuit is ultimately fierce; Don't talk too much in life, you will suffer.

19, a kind heart and a bad person turn disaster into blessing. If you have a bad heart and a bad life, you will be miserable and poor.

20, the heart can keep life, the most important thing is the benevolent. Life is made by the heart, and good or bad luck is only called by people.

2 1, believing in life but not cultivating heart, yin and yang are afraid of deficiency and positive. Heaven and earth protect themselves when you obey the orders of your mind.

22, a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think about; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.

23. It is advisable to save for a rainy day and dig a well without thirst.

24, self-help must be frugal, banquets must not stay.

25, the utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold; The more exquisite the diet, the more delicious the vegetables in the garden.

26. Evil is long-lasting; Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other.

27. Listen to your words lightly, be aware of unreasonable complaints, and think twice patiently;

28. Because of the dispute, how do you know it's not my fault? You must think calmly.

29, see the color, report the wife and daughter; Hide resentment with arrows in the back, delaying future generations.

30, the home is smooth sailing, although awkward, but also enjoy it;

3 1, the Chinese class ended in the morning, but there was nothing left in the bag. I was happy.

32, get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, clean inside and outside.

33. Whether you are fainting or resting, close the door and behave yourself.

34, which means getting married and enjoying it for a long time; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon.

35, brothers and uncles, be sure to decorate widows more; Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strict with themselves.

36, listen to women, good flesh and blood, is it a husband; If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be the son of human beings.

37. Marry a woman and choose a good husband, and don't ask for re-employment; It's not too thick to marry a daughter-in-law and beg a lady.

Zhu Jiaxun's full-text translation

8. If the family style is good, the rural style is good, and the national style is good, there will be hope, and the party style, political style and folk customs will be clear.

9, home and everything is prosperous, and the neighborhood is blessed for a hundred years.

10, harmony is the most important thing for a family, big or small. Parents are nurturing and rewarding with their heart.

1 1. Home is a warm harbor, tolerant and modest, and a warm place for each other.

12, home is a river, and I will make a harmonious little wooden boat with my heart; Home is a desert, and I am looking for a clean crescent spring with my heart; Family is a book, and I write a new chapter of peace with my heart.

13, family members value family ties and love and trust each other; Neighborhood talks about friendship, mutual help and mutual respect.

14, I have books at home, so I can easily take them and look around. You can share the scholarly family at any time and pass it on from generation to generation.

15, giving up smoking and limiting alcohol is the right way, and the dinner CD is good.

16, no money is just the hardship of life, and the vacancy of family is huge loneliness.

Although there is no decent house in my family, my mother is the most luxurious palace in my heart.

18. Carefully cultivate seedlings and realize the Chinese dream. Entrepreneurial feelings are promoting China and the United States.

19, enlightened and law-abiding ordinary people, honest, equal and civilized households.

20. Looking in the mirror can correct fallacies.

2 1. Honesty and simplicity start with words and deeds, and a harmonious family comes from bit by bit.

22, integrity, family affairs and state affairs are all things of the heart; Corruption and bribery, storms are coming.

23. Clean as a lamp, illuminating a bright future; Housekeeping is like a silkworm, weaving a happy life.

24. Honesty begins with words and deeds, and civilization lies in bits and pieces.

25. Integrity is not an official, fair and decent; Aboveboard, spotless, remain uncorrupted.

26, the neighborhood is harmonious, and the owner likes to take care of it; It is difficult for children to show their true feelings by working hard and helping each other outside.

27, check the doors and windows before going to bed, anti-theft and rainproof is a good prescription; Prepare a fire extinguisher before bed to prevent fire and eliminate hidden dangers at any time; Everyone learns the knowledge of disaster prevention, which benefits the safe construction of the whole family.

28, the road is long, Xiu Yuan, hand in hand with the wind and rain; Home is safe and happy, and we are happy together.

29. No matter how busy you are, the crops will lose money, and you can't teach your children to give birth to the next generation.

30. Learn to build a family, be famous for supporting the family, govern the family in a civilized way, be filial to the family, manage the family diligently, and gamble on drugs to defeat the family.

3 1, do not abandon agriculture and live in peace, you must know that food is the first thing for the people.

32. Don't exchange your hard-earned money for a court summons.

33. Equality between men and women, patriotism and love for the family, and building a beautiful Chinese dream together; Filial piety and love for the young, thrift, and build a happy and warm home.

It is better to make honest and poor friends than to be greedy and rich.

35. It is better to eat a dish outside than to tighten your belt at home.

36. Cultivate the positive energy of family style and stimulate the family Chinese dream.

37. Peace and sincerity are precious, and the price of harmony is even higher. If you are involved in pornography and gambling, you have to throw it.

38. Love home and beauty are equal and keep pace with the times.

39, extravagance and waste, the bottom of the pool is long; Diligence and thrift accumulate over time.

40. Modesty, tolerance, less contention and mutual affection.

4 1, live frugally, be broad-minded and be kind to yourself.

42. Diligence and filial piety are strong, and family style is fragrant; The Chinese dream of carrying the world with morality and constantly striving for self-improvement

43. Green tea is for good friends, and simple meals make good talents.

44, a refreshing bath, an innocent life is good; A clean life has less greed, and a clean family has no troubles.

45. Failure in life begins with greed, corruption and regret; Be content and think more, be strict with yourself and enjoy it.

Family motto

0. Leave room for everything and be proud of it.

1, three aunts and six grandmothers, the medium of prostitution and theft;

2, the beauty of prostitutes, not the blessing of boudoir.

3. Servants should not be handsome, and wives should not wear heavy makeup.

4. Although the ancestors are far away, the sacrifice is not sincere;

Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must read the classics.

6. Simple residence period; The essence of teaching children.

7, marry a woman to choose a good husband, no longer employed;

8, marry a lady, don't be cheeky.

Translation of Famous Sentences in Mr. Zhu Bailu's Housekeeping Motto _ Housekeeping Motto

Zhu Bailu's Family Instructions _ Family Instructions, also known as Zhu Bailu's Family Instructions, Zhuzi's Family Instructions or Zhuzi's Family Instructions, are Zhu Bailu's most famous works. The book is only over 500 words. It is catchy in form, easy to remember, concise in content, and extremely close to daily life. It has become an enlightening reading alongside three books and money. The motto of family management puts forward specific requirements for the norms that people should abide by in their daily lives: to develop good living habits; We should be thrifty and cherish material resources; Be good at choosing friends and making friends, and don't intersect with bad things; Marry a person with high moral standards, don't covet wealth; To read and understand, cultivate self-cultivation; Law-abiding, generous; Such things still have guiding value for us to stand on the world today. At the same time, some contents in Family Instructions also show some prejudices and limitations. The selection and translation here are based on the family instructions of Zhuzi published by Yuelu Bookstore in 20xx. The following 1- 10 is selected from Family Management Motto.

The exhortation is divided into four chapters: filial piety, diligence, reading and moral accumulation, which is slightly larger than the management of the family. It is a more concrete exposition of Zhu Bailu's ways of managing the family, cultivating oneself and dealing with the world, and can be regarded as a supplement to Managing the Family. Zhu Bailu believes that filial piety is human nature, as long as you follow your inner love for your father and brother and practice it; Diligence is the foundation of a person's life. Only by diligent administration can filial piety and courtesy be further achieved. Reading should be based on cultivating personality, supplemented by emphasizing poetry and pursuing fame, and not putting the cart before the horse; Doing good deeds and accumulating virtue should be based on people's compassion, not for the pursuit of wealth and return. The words of exhortation are short in length and have no separate edition. The selected translation here is based on the content of Five Legacy Rules (Chen Hongmou in Qing Dynasty) published by online bookstore in 20xx. The following 1 1- 15 is selected from the content of "advice".

0 1. One porridge and one meal is not easy to think about; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.

When you drink a bowl of porridge and eat a bowl of rice, you should think that it is hard-won food; With a little silk or hemp thread, we should think of the hard-won materials and financial resources.

02. Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay. The utensils are clean and tidy, and the tile is better than gold; The diet is good, and vegetables are more than delicious food.

You must be frugal in your daily expenses, and you must not get carried away in entertaining guests. All daily utensils should be simple and clean, and the wine vessels made of tile are better than those made of jade; The food you eat should be simple and exquisite, and the vegetables grown in the garden are better than the precious exotic ingredients.

Don't covet unexpected wealth and don't drink too much. Don't take advantage of your shoulders, be considerate when you see poor relatives and neighbors.

Don't be greedy and don't drink too much. Don't take advantage of the peddlers, but take care of your relatives and neighbors who see poverty and suffering.

04. mean marriage will not last long; Lun Chang is a good boy and will die soon. Brothers and uncles must decorate widows more; Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strict with themselves. Listen to a woman. Good flesh and blood. Is it a husband? If you value your parents, you can't be the son of human beings.

Those who get rich by hook or by crook have no reason to entertain themselves for a long time; It violates the ethics of human relations and will soon die out. Brothers and uncles should help each other, and the rich should help the poor; Young and old are orderly, and there are differences inside and outside. There must be strict rules and proper speech. Listening to a woman's provocation hurts the feelings of flesh and blood, not the actions of a gentleman; It is not a son's proper behavior to value money and treat his parents badly.

05. Marry a woman, choose a good husband and not seek re-employment; It's not too thick to marry a daughter-in-law and beg a lady.

It is most shameful to flatter at the sight of wealth, and it is most despicable to be arrogant when encountering poverty.

Choose a son-in-law with good conduct when marrying a daughter, and don't ask for expensive dowry; When you marry a daughter-in-law, you should choose a woman with good looks and good character, regardless of dowry.

Flattering the rich is the most shameful, and it is the most despicable to be arrogant and self-reliant when you meet the poor.

06. Don't bully widows by force or kill birds by greed. If you are eccentric, you will regret many mistakes; If you are lazy and self-indulgent, it is difficult for you to succeed in the family business.

Don't bully orphans and widows by relying on power, and don't slaughter livestock and poultry unscrupulously to satisfy your appetite. People who are eccentric and self-righteous must have many regrets and mistakes; Decadent, lazy and unrepentant people find it difficult to get married.

07. Evil is long-lasting; Qu Zhi is old, but if you are in a hurry, you can rely on each other.

Listen to the speech lightly, be aware of unreasonable complaints, and think twice patiently; If you argue about something, you must calm down and think about it.

If you get close to bad teenagers, you will be implicated for a long time; People who are obedient and cautious can rely on them in times of crisis. Listen to other people's reports rashly, how do you know it's not someone else's rumors, be patient and think twice; Have an argument with others because of something. How do I know it's not my fault? I should calmly and secretly reflect.

08. Don't forget to thank you. Leave room for everything and be proud of it.

Don't always dwell on what benefits you have given others, and don't forget what benefits you have received from others.

Don't go to extremes or overdo anything, and put yourself in a passive position of no way back. If you have something to be proud of, you should stop at a good time and don't push your luck to avoid getting into trouble.

09. People can't be jealous when they are happy, and people can't be happy when they are troubled.

Being a good person and wanting to be seen by others is not really good; Fear of being known is a great sin. Seeing the color, I reported my wife and daughter; Hide resentment with arrows in the back, delaying future generations.

Don't be jealous of other people's festive events. Don't gloat when others are in trouble. It is not really good to do good things and want others to see them; Doing bad things for fear that others will know it is a great evil. Seeing a beautiful girl will make your wife and daughter suffer retribution; If you hold a grudge against others and stab them in the back, you will leave the disaster to future generations.

10. The family is happy, although there is lingering joy; After the Chinese studies class ended in the morning, the schoolbag was full of complacency, aiming at sages and serving the country for officials.

Family harmony, even if there is no dinner after breakfast, it has its own fun; I paid all the taxes of the country early, even if there was no money left in my pocket, I felt extremely happy inside. When studying, you should aspire to be a saint, and when you are an official, you should think about the kingdom.

1 1. Diligence is the way to make a living. If you are not diligent, you will be scarce. If you don't economize, you will waste money. If you spend too little, you will lose money. Take it if you have money. Fools are shameless, fools are lucky to take risks. Life stops here, and you die here, and the voice of the ancestors falls here, and the physiology is absolutely gone. What's more, if a family has a wife and children, it can't lead by example, and it tends to be greedy and lazy, then it will kill its physiology and the wife's physiology.

Diligent housekeeping is the correct way to run a family business. If you are not diligent, your income will decrease. If you are not frugal, there will be a lot of unnecessary expenses. When income is reduced and expenditure is excessive, property will be scarce. Once property is scarce, it is easy to obtain it through some improper means. Stupid people will do some shameless things for money, and smart people will take risks and be greedy for money. In this way, a person's life-long behavior accomplishment will be lost, and the good reputation accumulated by ancestors will decline from now on, so it is impossible to inherit the family business. What's more, there are wives and children in a family. If parents can't set an example of diligence and thrift for them, they will make their families greedy and lazy by comparing with each other, cutting off not only their own lives, but also the lives of their wives and children.

12. Diligence is the way. First of all, we should think deeply and plan ahead. If you do things early, you must manage them in advance. If you stay temporarily, the warehouse will be too busy to spend. The second is to go to bed early and get up early. If you get up in the morning and lie down at night, you can finish half a day's work. If you get up early, you will only get a half-day job.

Regardless of whether Heaven rewards diligence and punishes laziness, it is a disparity that personnel will win. Third, be patient and bear hardships. Impatient and hard, if you are not careful, you will lose. If you must do something yourself, you must do it yourself. If you have to do it for a day, you have to do it for a day. Everyone kills himself by practicing hard work, but he doesn't know what it is, so he lives.

To be diligent, you must first have foresight. What should be dealt with early, what should be dealt with early, must be dealt with in advance. If you don't deal with it until the last minute, you will be in a hurry, at a loss, and always spend more time, energy and money. Secondly, stay up late and get up early. Get up at dawn in the morning and sleep until midnight at night, which seems to be half a day longer. If you get up early and get up late, there will be only half a day left. Don't say that it is natural to reward and punish laziness, even the gap between gains and losses in specific things is already obvious. Finally, there are unbearable troubles and discomfort. You can't be bored and uncomfortable. If a place is not carefully done, it will be lost and wasted. Do what you need to do yourself; What needs to be done in one day must be done in one day. People think that personal efforts are self-destruction, but they don't know that this is the way to achieve themselves.

13. Thrift is the way, first of all, we must be calm and forbearing. The anger of a dynasty, without self-measurement, fights with the population and constitutes a lawsuit officer. After the incident, it was not only discredited, but also humiliated. Second, do what you can. The merits and demerits of civil engineering, marriage, and the cost of guests' banquets must not be too high to win. There was a meeting for a while, and the cost was not enough. Later, it was made up, or called a loan. The compensation is weak and the morality is ruined. Third, we must tighten our belts. The pass to renew the frontier is only for appreciation. If you warm your body, what's the difference between Busu and renewing the frontier? Fat and sweet beauty is just a moment's comfort between your breath. If it comes down from the throat, what's the difference between the fat and sweetness of Chenopodium album? Everyone regards being thin on themselves as not loving life, but they don't know what it is, so they have been exercising.

To be thrifty, we must first keep a calm heart and be able to endure stimulation. Because of a time of resentment, if you are not careful, you will quarrel with others and even fight with the government. After the incident, it not only ruined the family's reputation, but also humiliated itself. Secondly, we should do what we can.

Build a house at home, hold weddings, funerals and other ceremonies, entertain guests, arrange banquet expenses, and never pursue luxury excessively. Because you spend too much on a temporary interest, and then make up the deficit, or borrow money, but you can't afford it. Breaking the contract will damage your virtue. Finally, we should be frugal in clothes and food. Continue the beauty of the leading edge satin just to make others envy and envy. If we say that it has the function of keeping warm, what's the difference between a piece of cloth without patterns and a piece of satin? Fat food is just a temporary satisfaction between your breaths. If you are hungry, what's the difference between poor food and fat food? People think that frugality in their own expenses is simply not caring about themselves, but they don't know that this is the way to care about their health. 1 14. When you accumulate virtue, everyone calls it wealth, that's fine. He who knows money gains virtue, and he who gets money gains virtue. When will wealth be available? When can I do the good deeds? Only if you are neither rich nor expensive can you do good things. This is particularly difficult, and its work is particularly good. Gade is also naturally prepared and has nothing to ask for. It is up to you to accumulate virtue without waiting.

People think that they can't do this until they are rich. Wealth is the reward of accumulating virtue. If we must wait for wealth, when can we get it? When can I do it? Only if you are not rich can you do good things by yourself. This matter is particularly difficult, so it has a great effect. Virtue is probably possessed by human nature and does not need to be sought from the outside; You can also do it anytime and anywhere without waiting for any conditions.

15. It goes without saying that poor people and friends in Eritrea mean to make money. Although his poor man has no contact with me, he should know that this is one with me. He gives alms when he is alive and buries his bones when he dies, but his strength is observation and he is full of compassion.

It goes without saying that friends should exchange property for people who are trapped in poverty. Even those who don't know me are in poverty, they should know that they are the same as me. If they are still alive, I will give them some help. If they die, I will bury them, depending on my ability, to fulfill my compassion.