Social software is very popular now, such as WeChat, QQ, Momo and so on. The connection between work and life is also inseparable from social software. Many people like to separate work from life, working for one number and living for another. Of course, some people use a micro signal in their work and life. Avatar and nickname seem to be a business card for everyone on the internet, which has different functions and psychology for avatars placed for different purposes.
There are basically the following categories of avatars that don't change all the year round.
First of all, for work
Many people use their own photos as headshots and rarely change them. Their inner psychology is usually as follows.
1 is highly recognizable and easy to find by colleagues and customers.
2, the company unified requirements, highlighting professionalism (the general enterprise WeChat uses a little more)
3, reflect personal style (generally like to use personal art photos have this embodiment)
Second, in order to communicate.
Some people don't like living in the virtual world (network). For TAs, social tools such as WeChat, like the address book in the mobile phone, are used to contact friends and have no other meaning.
Such people generally don't send friends and don't like to browse other people's friends' circles. It doesn't matter if they change their heads.
Third, personal meaning.
The picture used as an avatar has special significance to this person and can be understood as a feeling.
1. If the avatar is written in words, it may be a surname, a word (name), or a sentence (inspirational, * * * sentiment, famous saying)? Avatars that have special meaning to themselves usually don't change frequently.
2. The person who uses a character as a head portrait may be a childhood photo, a star, a boyfriend and girlfriend, or a cartoon? This kind of picture is usually nostalgic and exclusive. Generally, it is because of the psychology of liking, so it is used as an avatar, and it is not often changed.
From the comprehensive analysis of the above three aspects, a person who often does not change his avatar is still relatively calm, not grandiose and immature, but of course it is not absolute. Compared with people who often change their avatars, people who often don't change their avatars will be more calm.
The subject finally asked this question in order to get to know each other and the people you care about. You can't analyze too much content from just one avatar. Personally, I suggest more communication and contact with each other, so that you can better understand a person's real inner world.
People who don't change their WeChat avatars and send friends should have a low-key attitude towards life, or feel that there is nothing to send and they are not used to it.
1. I once heard a story about a classmate who didn't contact other classmates for many years after graduation. Her speech is almost invisible among her classmates, and there is no information update by clicking on her account. Her incarnation is still the original one.
Later, at the class reunion, the appearance of female students surprised almost everyone, changing their previous image and temperament image. In the chat, I learned that in recent years, female students talked about a vigorous love, traveled to many places, and published their own books after hard work.
She said: I am too busy to contact everyone. ? With such a rich experience, it seems to many people that there should be many photos and feelings that can be sent to the circle of friends at any time to share with you. For her classmates' suggestions, she just smiled and didn't speak.
Indeed, life is for yourself, not for others. Some things don't need too many people to know, as long as you know what you are doing.
Second, carrots and vegetables have their own hobbies, but their habits and hobbies are different. Some people are willing to share, while others are not interested.
A friend I know never changes his avatar or sends any friends. Wechat is basically for the convenience of working with friends and colleagues, as a text message? And voice communication? Tool use.
I didn't deliberately log in to the circle of friends, but she didn't have the habit of brushing friends in her life. She doesn't think it necessary to report her life to others? . She never posts, and naturally she doesn't care about other people's affairs, but she attaches great importance to it every time she meets her friends. Everyone who knows her knows that this female executive is actually very willing to chat. Every time she meets, the topic is constant, from travel experience to family life. Kan Kan talks. These feelings can't be conveyed and expressed by simple photos and a few sentences.
Living seriously is an attitude, and how to live is your choice.