The best way for you to know how to treat people calmly is to be soft and principled inside, with armor and temperature. It can be as proud as the scorching sun or as warm as the breeze.
People change for only two reasons. Otherwise, they have learned too much. Otherwise, they have been hurt too deeply. So simple, but so profound.
The older people get, the more complicated they are, and the greater the difficulty and cost of making friends. On the contrary, it is the stranger who makes you feel warm and surprised most easily, because you don't expect him.
Loneliness is similar. The relationship that should be broken is clean. Those who want to leave will never stay, and those who feel comfortable will stay with them. One should at least live a free and easy life. Those unhappy days, things that block the heart will always pass, just get over it.
Every indifference will leave a mark, and every quarrel is not a deepening of understanding. Sometimes I wonder, is there such a thing as reconciliation in this world? Everyone's happiness is always similar, but sadness is always different.
Like simple things, clean things, clear feelings. Some scenery can only be liked but not collected, just as some people are only suitable for meeting and not for long-term companionship.