I told myself that unlike the first yellow leaves falling slowly, I felt the approach of autumn; Like a long red candle with tears, I feel that most of my perishable life has passed. When we look at the faltering and hasty steps of gorgeous turn year after year, we unconsciously breed infinite feelings ... I think when we look back on the past, your past, your experience and your feelings are all worth chewing. Because no matter how smart, strong and confident you are from China or an unruly foreigner, as long as you are a living person, you will have human weaknesses and defects. A person who dares to say no to himself and is good at summing up experience and lessons is not a trivial person, but a person who dares to take responsibility, a person who dares to fight and struggle with fate, and a person with a conscience of heaven and earth and a noble character. How can a person finish his life like this? -Don't sigh. We don't say that sighing all day is as terrible as a demon that devours people's souls and has a great psychological impact on people. Instead, I want to tell people that blindly indulging in sighing and clinging to sighing hands may miss the opportunity and give up opportunities that ordinary people can't reach, while they have been sighing for many years, getting nothing and being unhappy. Life is never a straight road. There may be joy mixed with pain, and joy is often accompanied by pain. Happy sowing may yield a bumper harvest, while sighing sowing may always leave farmers with no harvest and unpredictable regrets again and again, just like a rice seedling with pests. -Don't blame the environment. A good environment is indeed conducive to the healthy growth of people. Therefore, we want to make every effort to create a good living environment. But it is not necessarily a good thing to encounter a bad environment. Many bad living environments can cultivate and exercise people, stimulate their fighting spirit, and then work hard. Sima Qian's Historical Records, Cao Xueqin's Dream of Red Mansions, and Sun Wu's Art of War are all "mountains and heavy waters have no way to regain doubts, and the willow blossoms are another village." That is, people are in despair, then come back to life, then let life shine in bad luck, and sing nature in bad luck. Even if you can't become such a celebrity, don't be discouraged and pessimistic without their environment, their frustration experience and their brilliance. To say the least, there are many people who are worse off than you. Those who live on the edge of the city and at the bottom of society may be worse off than you. Even if it is a walking corpse, isn't it the same? Being alive is sometimes an unspeakable happiness. You can't do their great things, you still have considerable power and life, and you still have the capital to change the living environment and get rid of poverty and backwardness. Isn't this much better than people who have no way out? -Don't aim too high. People who aim too high are not without ideas, but with too many ideas. It's not that there is no goal, but that you are divorced from reality and look at flowers in the fog. With realistic goals, there will be a positive attitude towards life, a high-spirited spirit, and the motivation for unremitting pursuit. Living for a goal can be painful. But you can still reap the fruits of joy after suffering. Even if I get nothing, I can still proudly say to myself that I have pursued, worked hard and enjoyed an extraordinary life experience. -Not mediocre. Mediocrity is the general trend of society, a fertile ground for all living beings to multiply, and a spiritual ruin that people's inertia exerts a subtle influence and accumulates for a long time. Facing up to, rather than avoiding, all kinds of hardships that are bound to be encountered in life, overcoming them and winning the battle may be the only sunshine avenue to get rid of mediocrity and create brilliance. Don't ask for anything in return, just work hard, and the aura of luck will cover your head; Don't ask for something in return, but ask for something in return, and society will give you a fair and just evaluation and recognition. -Not afraid. Fear is one side of human nature. As a result of fear, many possible goals, difficulties that can be overcome, and opportunities to climb high places are all wasted. Years can pass away in fear, and people can gradually understand that old age is coming in fear. The stories of successful people are told to those who are afraid in hoarse voices; All the flowers are woven into baskets and dedicated to the fearless and brave. Fear of losing everything-years, career, love, reputation, power-is a disaster caused by unstable position and weak will, that is, being defeated by yourself like a coward. -No regrets. The past can only be recalled and cannot be retrieved; Can only be forgotten, there is no remedy. Those who are trapped in the past cycle will destroy not only the present but also the future. The old adages of "contentment is always a pleasure" and "as you sow, so you reap" are not easy to understand, and now they are more important than in the past. Because the past days, no matter how ordinary, difficult and unbearable, can chew the taste of happiness. Comparing the present with the past, perhaps the psychology and mentality will become more and more unbalanced, but this comparison really has no practical significance in essence. Only by looking forward to everything, trying to live up to the sky, the people and your heart can you experience a new realm of life, live more chic, more comfortable, closer to life and find yourself again. A soldier who loses his truth and self, but flatters him in order to win his reputation before he dies. Some people may be able to show off for a while, but they are often looked down upon in their bones and spurned by history. -Don't hold grudges. Hatred comes from hatred. Life or death because of hatred is based on the pain of others. Sword-wielding revenge is certainly exciting, which can show a man's true temperament, but if the real hatred in the world can be resolved by a sword, it will be peaceful and prosperous, and there will be no endless wars breaking out again and again. If the sword can solve the problem of one thing at a time, there will be no thousand-year proverb that the enemy is easy to solve. Love can push forward what the sword can't do, reach a height that the sword can't reach, turn hostility into friendship, make all nationalities in the world live in harmony, and make everything in real life full of vitality. Love and sword are both one word. Love may not be as shocking as a sword, but love is an invisible force that infiltrates silence. With invisible power against the power of tangible sword, love will always be better than the sword. If the sword is a helpless choice and a last resort, let us choose a better choice than the sword-to face the world with compassion, tolerance, openness and kindness, even if it is your opponent or your old enemy. After years of fighting, you can win the world at once, and it takes only half of the Analects to govern the world. What is this? It is the golden mean, the voice of harmony and the heart of tolerance. This truth, like other wise sayings, is really easy to say and really difficult to do. Our wise choice is not to give up the search and pursuit of kindness because of difficulties. At the end of our life, we should not regard love as an ornament or a lost fashion, but always keep it in our hearts, care for, love and help others, and play a hymn of love for ourselves, so as to make the world a better place in the atmosphere of love and in the harmonious exchange of mutual respect and love. Therefore, we are tirelessly supporting us to move forward.