She is a woman with a gift for poetry and calligraphy and a fragrant soul.
In this muddled life, she used 105 to explain the value of a woman in high live.
And a truly noble woman often has the following three characteristics:
First of all, there are principles
Mr Jiang Yang once wrote:
I deeply believe that a woman's most precious wealth is not how much money she has, but how many principles she has when facing the world of flowers and flowers.
A woman with principles has her own unique way of living, and she can take her time even if the world is noisy.
A principled woman, in the face of choice, can be more not confused, not afraid of the past, not afraid of the future.
Mr Jiang Yang is a very principled woman.
105 In recent years, she has experienced too many changes. She was shaved, fined to clean the ladies' room, sent away her beloved Qian Zhongshu, and sent by her daughter to a white-haired person and a black-haired person.
But even in turbulent times, Mr Jiang Yang still sticks to his principles. No matter what she went through, she never gave up reading and writing. No matter how hard life is, she acts calmly according to her own principles.
In the rough years, in the sad moments, in the sleepless nights, Mr. Jiang Yang will always be herself;
No matter what she goes through, she will never let her heart be disturbed by other trivial matters, and always adhere to the principle of being a man and doing things.
In this state, she has gained a satisfactory self at any time.
A woman, no matter when and where, as long as she has her own principles, life is mostly not too bad.
Because a principled woman knows what she wants, she can refuse to face temptation and bear suffering. No matter how ever-changing the outside world is, their hearts are still calm.
Like Jiang Yang, he devoted his life to studying his knowledge, and even if he dies, he will be immortal.
This is the charm of a woman with principles.
Second, don't be confused.
Feng Zikai wrote in "Don't spoil, live a life without surprises":
The most precious time in one's life is the present.
Smart women will not miss the past yesterday, will not worry about the future, and will only live in the present.
So is Mr. Jiang Yang.
She loved reading and writing all her life and studied hard. She never wastes her time complaining, let alone living in anxiety.
With a calm mind, she accepted where you are going with time. Even if she said goodbye to her beloved husband and daughter, she was not too sad, because she cherished every time during the days when the three of us were together, so she left no regrets.
Difficulties in life always create too many imperfections, but this is the normal state of life, and everyone will inevitably experience it; Among them, women who are not confused can manage their own lives better.
Let bygones be bygones, what should come will come, and the day without troubles is worthy of life.
A woman who can maintain goodwill can take the road of life well and live with a more attitude.
Third, indifferent to fame and fortune.
Writer Mao Mu once said:
It is true that the more people pursue wealth, the more greedy they will become, and in the end they will not become slaves of money.
Indifference to fame and fortune is a family life. A woman who is indifferent to fame and fortune knows how to control money, but she will not be fascinated by it, just like Jiang Yang.
In this life, Mr. Jiang Yang has gained countless wealth and fame, but she never shows off these honors, and even doesn't care much about the evaluation given to her by the outside world.
She reached a height where she didn't live for fame and fortune.
Although the outside world gave her a high evaluation, she was still modest, kind and serious.
Don't brag, don't be arrogant, don't be proud, and don't flaunt yourself with fame and fortune.
She doesn't like to argue, let alone bother to argue with others.
In her view, struggle is meaningless. Everyone is a unique self. Why do you hurt others and tire yourself in comparison?
A woman who is indifferent to fame and fortune is the most sober in the world.
Compared with fame, status and money, living with dignity is an independent life value.
Such women are also more respected.
Write at the end:
Jiang Yang said:
The most advanced way of life for women is to cultivate the mind and cultivate the nature.
Self-cultivation itself is a supreme realm. The purpose of living is not to surpass others, but to surpass oneself in the past.
When you have a truly independent personality and a dignified life, you will naturally live a noble life.
No amount of money can buy back this senior position.
On the road of life, it is inevitable to encounter bumps, and it is these bumps that promote our growth.
And a woman who can grow up and gain a better self is irresponsible for the years and herself.
Just like Mr. Jiang Yang, her life is dull and turbulent, with love and parting. Those things are her life, not stories told by others.
In this story, we see a noble woman smiling at life.
Prosperity is exhausted and times have changed. Mr Jiang Yang's lifestyle has always been an attitude that everyone should learn.
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