if people are rude, they will not stand up, and if things are rude, the country will be rude and restless; We should be enthusiastic about acting according to morality, not talking about morality; There are two kinds of peaceful violence, that is, law and courtesy.

the Tao should be told by virtue, and the qi should be treated with courtesy; Politeness makes polite people happy, and also makes those who are treated politely happy; A gentleman's trip is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate morality, indifferent to one's ambition, quiet and far-reaching.

courtesy, through the country, determines the country, orders the people, and benefits the heirs; Luxury always follows fornication, and fornication always follows luxury; Poverty without flattery, wealth without arrogance.

Be careful, even when you are alone, don't speak ill or do bad things, but learn to be more ashamed in front of yourself than others. -democritus