The Book of Changes says: "One yin and one yang are called Tao", and the Tao Te Ching says: "Everything is negative and holds Yang". Everything in the world follows the Tao of Yin and Yang, such as heaven and earth, sun and moon, men and women, day and night, etc.
Only when everything in the world follows the path of Yin and Yang can it last forever. People follow the path of yin and yang, and they will have good feng shui all their lives.
To prosper a family, you must know how to combine yin and yang.
The Book of Changes says: "Family, women are inside, men are outside, men and women are upright, and heaven and earth are righteous."
It means that in a family, if the wife is gentle and virtuous, has a good temper to her family, and her husband is indomitable and has a big pattern, and the husband and wife are harmonious and yin and yang are combined, the family will be harmonious, warm and prosperous.
Huang Lei and his wife, Sun Li, have been in love for nine years and have been married for twenty-three years. During the thirty-two years, they have not been tired of each other, and their feelings are still as beautiful as when they were in love. Huang Lei said, "After two people have been together for a long time, is it habit or love? -I am used to love. "
After getting married, Sun Li temporarily put down her popular career, focused on her family, managed her family, guarded her family and children, and educated her children to be clever and sensible.
Huang Lei, on the other hand, earns money to support his family and makes his career prosperous, but he does not forget to be considerate of his wife. He must cook for her in his spare time. When Sun Li was pregnant, Huang Lei accidentally fell and broke her bone. In order to let his wife eat well, Huang Lei still cooked for Sun Li himself. As a result, both of them got fat. Huang Lei smiled and said, "Fat, fat, and happiness will make you fat."
Huang Lei and Sun Li understand each other's difficulties, cherish each other's efforts, and rarely quarrel. If they quarrel occasionally, Huang Lei will admit his mistake first. He said, "Men who are usually low-key at home and follow their daughter-in-law are generally stronger outside, because they are also confident. On the contrary, it is always more true to the daughter-in-law. This kind of man is not very clever outside. "
loving each other between parents is the best tutor for children. Huang Lei and Sun Li love each other, so they can run their families in harmony and happiness, and they can run their careers well outside, and their children are also excellent and sensible.
Husband and wife are the beginning of human relations. The wife is yin and the husband is yang. Only when husband and wife love each other and combine yin and yang can the family flourish and the children educated be excellent and kind. If the husband and wife are not harmonious, the yin and yang are not good, the family will never have peace, and the children educated often feel inferior and insecure.