Some time ago, when I was watching Tucao Conference, I was struck by the phrase "obviously so ordinary, but so confident"! Yang Li, a female talk show actress, said this. After this talk show was broadcast on the whole network, it quickly triggered a wide discussion. Many female compatriots felt that Yang Li had said what they had always wanted to say, while many male compatriots thought that it was inciting the opposition between men and women and stimulating contradictions! No matter how to interpret Yang Li's point of view, I think there is a phenomenon that men are "so ordinary, but so confident"! In my opinion, "ordinary and confident", the word "ordinary" implies disdain and dissatisfaction with some men who are ambitious, while "self-confidence" is a metaphor for the cynicism of some men who are "self-centered"! To sum up, the phrase "ordinary and confident" is actually a double blow to some men's IQ and EQ!

I remember a famous writer Feng Jicai once said: A strong wind can blow away a piece of white paper, but it can't blow away a butterfly, because the power of life lies in disobedience! If we look down on all sentient beings from the perspective of God, each of us is like an ant, as small as dust. Ordinary is the background color of life! Don't you have to exist because it's ordinary? Ordinary individuals may be nothing, but ordinary individuals gathered together are great! Yes, the world turns around without anyone, but we should have such an ambition that the world is wonderful because of me! Some time ago, I was moved by Tik Tok's last song called "Live Hard", and the smoky voice in my mind, And unpretentious lyrics have been lingering:

We are all living hard,

We have been awake and drunk in ups and downs,

We have been stubborn, fragile and persistent,

We believe that flowers will bear fruit,

We are all living hard,

We have won and lost in the success or failure of love and hate,

We have been brilliant and lost, and we have no regrets to choose

We believe that suffering is a gain

. P > Whoever sneers at me coldly or belittles me

will laugh it off

There is another me in my heart

accompanying me * * * to face loneliness

When the reality betrays me, I am tired and tired, and I feel pain

Learn to be free and easy

Let's call it a day! I wanted to extend my opinion, but time doesn't allow me to work tomorrow. If I have time later, I will seriously analyze the deep meaning of "we are ordinary and confident", which really restores the AB side of men!