A famous German saying about turbulence is to the effect that turbulence itself is not terrible. The terrible thing is that if we don't change in turbulent times, everything will be a dream, but it will be beautiful in an instant. I will hold hands with you and look forward to it together. The poor dog smiled. When you open your eyes, your back is very light. It's just that the wound is deep and my heart is very sad. Every blue brick overflows with blood, tears turn into red rain, cuckoo groans, lovesickness comes and goes, and the blind man in the sky cries. Where should I pursue it? Where does the cloud go?
It is not terrible to like someone. What is terrible is all kinds of habits.
Indeed, it's terrible. ..
When you get used to having someone in your life. ..
One day, I got used to it because of TA. ..
The process was really terrible, and I was not used to it at first.
Failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you have lost the courage to face failure. Is it a famous saying? It's definitely not a famous saying, but a classic.
I hope I can help you!
The enemy is not terrible, what is terrible is undercover. Relax. This happens all the time. You are not the only one in the world. There are several people around me who are like this. When they go out for a while, they tell their friends to take care of their girlfriends. When they came back, it was not like that. Their girlfriends are already with their best friends. I have encountered such a problem. A friend's girlfriend. After a while, I gradually felt it. I like him very much, but I have never expressed myself. One day, his girlfriend also confessed to me, and I like him very much. But I gave up. To tell you the truth, I was miserable later and felt really stupid. Because I really like her. If I come again, I will stay with her. The past will pass, and time will dilute everything. Then they got married, and I got married a year later. Now I'm doing well. I love my wife very much.
I just want you to know that few people can do it like me. No one will give up love for friendship. Love is selfish, there is no eternal love.
Take a look, maybe you can get some comfort, just make it clear. 25 truths that men must understand.
1. Men are the main body of society, whether you believe it or not. Therefore, men should have a sense of responsibility. From the country to the family, we have no reason to evade our responsibilities as men! !
Before the age of 2.25, please remember that love is usually fake or not as beautiful as you think, understand? If you are over 25 years old, then you should understand this truth.
It is most comfortable to eat 70% full. Please leave 70% for your girlfriend at most.
Please take good care of yourself before you are 30. In the first 30 years, you seek medical treatment, and in the last 30 years, you seek medical treatment. If you are over 30, you will naturally understand this truth.
5. Career is far more important than love. If the cause can't last forever, then love can only be regarded as a flash in the pan.
6. Don't accept girls who pursue you easily. If you fall into it easily, you will find that you will miss a lot and lose a lot.
Please believe that any problem that can be solved with money is not a problem. If you think money is king, money has women and money has no women, then women are not a problem.
8. Please always be optimistic. Everyone has his loveliness, but what he doesn't love is that he doesn't face life positively.
9. Don't let the same woman hurt you twice in a row. There is a reason why a good horse never returns to the grass. If you seriously consider breaking up, please don't do something you can't bear.
10. If you can be friends with your ex-girlfriend, then you have to ask yourself why you are still friends after breaking up. There are only two possibilities. You were just joking at first, and you didn't pay each other's true feelings. Or someone must be silently paying without regrets!
1 1. Never believe a woman's sweet words when she is in love. It is said that women love sweet talk, but men prefer it.
12. Please don't worry too much about your appearance or height and feel inferior. People are animals, but they are different from animals. Congenital conditions are not an excuse to stop you from living a good life. A person's heart is far better than his appearance. Please believe this. If someone judges a book by its cover, you shouldn't care too much. Because in a sense, they are just animals. Will you be angry with animals?
13. When you are lovelorn, there are only two possibilities, either you love her, or she doesn't love you, or the other way around. Then, when the person you love no longer loves you, or never loved you, you have no regrets, because all you have lost is a person who doesn't love you.
14. Please don't cheat the kind girl. There are too few kind girls in this world.
15. You can't think that money is everything. At least, money can't cure AIDS.
16. Please be confident. You are a landscape, there is no need to look up in other people's landscapes.
17. No matter how difficult it is, please believe that the sun is new every day as long as life is still there.
18. Love can never be a balance. If you want to be happy in love, you must be willing to be sad.
19. If you like a mm who thinks others should treat her well, please give it up as soon as possible. No one should be nice to a person. If she doesn't understand this truth, then she doesn't know how to cherish at all.
20. Don't go to GF just because you are lonely. Please learn to taste loneliness. Remember, even if you are lonely, there must be people like you in the dark night sky. Lonely people are different, but the stars you look at are the same.
2 1. Nothing lasts forever. Do not ask how to last forever. There is a lot of helplessness in life. Please try to enrich yourself and your life. Please be kind to life. Men have a lot of helplessness. Life is tiring, but life is meaningful. When you feel that you have nothing, you at least have time. Time can heal all wounds. So please don't cry. .....
Always believe that man proposes and God disposes. But we are not waiting for success, but actively "seeking", which is the only thing we can do, otherwise we are waiting for death! ! ! Since God disposes, there is no need to care too much about the result, which is difficult for us to decide.
Sometimes suffering is a blessing.
Family is our eternal harbor, so it is inevitable to stumble if we cherish it.
Let's be realistic about life. Idealism is a luxury.
Sindh Failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is that giving up persistence may not be successful, and not persisting may not be successful. If you want to do things well, you must have the right direction and the wrong direction, which will be in vain.
It's not terrible to wait. What's terrible is that you can't wait. You are still yourself. Because you have to wait for the sunrise, you will inevitably live up to your sleep, but don't miss every trace on the top of the mountain.
Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that you make excuses for failure! There is a difference between frustration and failure. The difference should be whether we have enough capital to make a comeback, and new problems appear here. How to make a comeback is also a question of life goals and significance. In our current mainstream values, it is nothing more than promoting to a higher position and making a fortune, or to put it mildly, calling it a career. According to this standard, being fired at the age of 20 can be called a setback, and there are plenty of opportunities waiting. Being fired at the age of 40 may be a failure, because at this age, you are not competitive enough, and most of you are just muddling along. Of course, if you can succeed in your career in your later years, this failure will become just a setback.
So to sum up, we must first define whether an event (such as lovelorn, unemployed, or losing other things) is a setback or a failure. As long as it can be defined as frustration, it is not terrible.
The heights are not terrible, but the slopes are terrible. Who said that? Nietzsche
Divorce is not terrible, but it is terrible to make do with children.
Still have to consider the child's feelings.
You can't be too selfish.
Only consider yourself.