Do many married men have a deep understanding of women’s irrationality? Often in life, women can reward themselves for being irrational everywhere, so what should they do if their wives quarrel irrationally? Let's get to know each other.
What to do if your wife is unreasonable in a quarrel
First: Your wife is always right; Second: In case your wife is wrong, please refer to the first point. Please don't reason with women, because I am a woman and I know I will not give in even if there is no reason. My uncle next door’s famous quote is: All shortcomings and mistakes are mine. When he said this, I felt like my aunt basically lost her temper. It's not that you win or lose in a fight with her, it's that she can never fight with you because of your ability. Who doesn’t admire a man with a safe backyard?
Can you reason with your wife when you have a quarrel?
Women are here to be pampered, not to listen to your lectures. Being a woman is not easy. When I was a child, I listened to my parents preaching, and when I was in school, I listened to my teachers preaching. When I finally grow up and get married, I still have to listen to my mother-in-law’s teachings. If you don't teach her, she won't be able to stay at home or at her parents-in-law's house. Marry a chicken and follow the chicken. Since she is a married girl, she will definitely not be able to return home. If she wants to gain a foothold in her husband's family, she has to bully her in front of her own man and make her listen to her mother-in-law. snort! No way! Do you know why the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult? Two women, one old and one young, both want to have control over their son (man) and want his son (man) to hurt themselves; the mother-in-law loves her son and wants her daughter-in-law to do more. A daughter-in-law loves her husband and wants her mother-in-law to do more. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is inherently delicate. You, a grown man, jump out at this moment, break the original balance of the family, and quarrel with your own woman, no matter whether it is right or not. You should know this!
How to deal with your wife's unreasonableness
1. Of course, she is more docile when she is in love, but she will change after getting married. Have you seen your wife's bravery? It's just that she will fall out because of the smallest thing, and then lose her temper and yell at you regardless of everyone's eyes. Be patient at this time and don't backhand slap her!
2. Before getting married, did she ever say that she wanted to cook every day? That's a ridiculous plot! Most people will not cook for you every day after marriage. They always complain that cooking and washing dishes are tiring every day, and they look reluctant. Be patient at this time and don't backhand slap her! You need to negotiate carefully, for example, you wash the dishes and he cooks.
3. When they are always in a mood, you should think that good men do not hit evil women. At this time, she has to endure it even more and cannot slap her backhand! Try to avoid her.
Why is my wife unreasonable when they quarrel
When a couple quarrels, if you love her, don’t reason with her. She only makes trouble unreasonably in front of you because she doesn't treat you as an outsider. You are her lover. She can let her temper play tricks and see if you know how to tolerate and understand her. Besides, if you love her, love her, and pamper her, will you still reason with the woman you love when you quarrel? I don’t think a smart man would reason with his loved one at this time. He would tease her like a child, make her lose her temper, and lose the quarrel to her. When she calms down, she'll tell the truth in a joking way. Women are not unreasonable. A woman quarrels with you because she still loves you. If Lai has quarreled with you or tried to reason with you, it means that you are no longer important in her heart. There is no need to argue and reason with you. Men must understand women.