As the saying goes, "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." The words left by our ancestors have been tested by practice and have some truth. We should listen attentively and learn modestly in order to avoid detours in life.

First, family members talk in one ear and outsiders talk in another. Jin Zijing

Testimony: Parents are the closest people in our lives, and they care about and care for us the most. No matter what they say is good or bad, it's all from the heart, and it's all for our own good. Children often don't understand and refuse to listen, and always feel that what outsiders say is the truth.

second, it is necessary to have the heart to harm others and the heart to prevent others.

Testimony: evil is rewarded with evil, and good is rewarded with good. It's not that you don't report it. It's not time. Don't have the idea of hurting people at all, but for the sake of protecting your family from harm, you still have to have the heart to prevent people.

Third, be kind to others on weekdays, and help others when you are in trouble.

Testimony: You have to go your own way in life. You are kind and helpful to others at ordinary times, and naturally others will help you when you are in trouble.

fourth, you need a gentleman to ask for help, and you need to help others when they are in need.

Words: When you are in trouble, don't go to the hospital in a hurry. Asking for help must be a gentleman, not a villain, or you will encounter greater trouble. If you have the heart to help others, you should give timely help, not icing on the cake.

5. People are not complacent when they are doing good things, but when flowers are gorgeous, they will lose.

Testimony: Life is like a dream, thirty years in the east and thirty years in the west. There are good times and bad times. Don't get carried away when it is good, and don't lose heart and morale when it is bad.

six, one chopstick is easy to break, and ten chopsticks are as hard as iron

Testimony: if two people are United, their profits will be cut off. Although a person's strength is weak, if we unite, we will form a powerful force, invincible and invincible.

VII. Everything can be achieved with perseverance, and everything will collapse without perseverance

Testimony: Where there is a will, there is a way. No matter what you do, you must have perseverance and perseverance to get close to success. If you fish for three days and dry your net for two days, you can't do anything.

8. I'm afraid of eating and choosing a big bowl, but I'm afraid of being lazy in my work.

Testimony: I'm not afraid of eating more, even if I'm almost angry, as long as I can do my work well. What I am most afraid of is being lazy and not working, so there is nothing I can do.

IX. Don't talk about the light whenever the blind person is blind, and don't talk about the sore whenever the boils

Testimony: When people talk, they should look at the occasion and the object, and don't talk about which pot is not open. I was blind and couldn't see anything, and you just talked about the light that others couldn't see. When you see a person with leprosy, you still talk about sores. Isn't that uncomfortable for others?

1. People don't know how to be blessed when they are blessed, and the boat doesn't know how to flow in the water

Feeling: People often don't feel blessed when they are enjoying happiness, and only after they lose it and recall the past will they know that what they used to have was happiness. In fact, every moment, every possession, is our happiness. We should always know how to cherish it, and don't wait until we lose it to regret it.