A friend told about her unfortunate marriage, which lasted for ten years. She summarized the man in the marriage in just four words, simple and crude! Of course, it does not refer to domestic violence, but to psychological violence.

My friend got married relatively late. When she was thirty, she was introduced to her husband, and they got married soon after being urged by her family. Life after marriage was not as good as she imagined. Not only did the man not care about her, he also had an attitude of wanting to listen to him in everything.

Her friend wanted to divorce several times, but her family was firmly opposed and she had to swallow her anger. Every time she and her husband couldn't agree on the same opinion, his husband would always insist on his own opinion, and every time after the quarrel, he would slam the door and leave his friend who was so angry that he cried.

Later, after having children, the man became even more aggressive. My friend did not want to quarrel in front of the children, but her husband never restrained himself in front of the children. Similarly, he has no patience when it comes to his children. He prevents them from attending interest classes and refuses to take them to school. His treatment of children is also simple and rude.

The two couples have been unable to communicate for a long time, and every time they break up on bad terms, and every time his friend is made angry and cries, he never forgets to slam the door and walk out. My friend filed for divorce many times, but her husband never agreed. Finally, my friend couldn't bear it any longer and fell seriously ill.

Most of women’s illnesses are caused by marriage and angered by men. Her husband wanted to use simple and crude methods to make her surrender, but unexpectedly it had the opposite effect.

In fact, when a man treats his wife simply and roughly, it is a sign of incompetence. Men need to be worshiped, women need to be loved, and men need to be respected. There is no other choice but to love their wives and families!

I remember a story I read before. There was a very smart man who was going to marry the girl he had planned to marry, but others said that the girl was ugly and not worthy of him at all. Everyone Everyone thought this man would break the engagement.

However, this man not only did not break the engagement, but also increased the betrothal gift. Everyone thought this man was stupid for paying such a heavy betrothal gift for an ugly woman, and they could not understand his actions.

After the man married the girl, everyone found that the girl was more beautiful than before, her waist was not as curved as before, and her face was not as ugly as before. In fact, it is nothing more than this man who makes women straighten their backs! This man gives women confidence!

Wives are meant to be pampered. If a man knows how to pamper his wife, the woman will naturally become confident. A confident woman is the most beautiful, and naturally she will not be ugly.

The great director Ang Lee once said: Just because I am a father and a husband does not mean that I can naturally gain their respect. I still have to earn their respect every day. Respect. Facts prove that respect in the family is earned by oneself and is not taken for granted!

Obama said more than once in his speech that he was very grateful to his wife. Sometimes when he talked about his wife and children, he couldn't help but burst into tears. There is no doubt that he is a man who understands love. For a man who dominates the United States to treat his wife like this, he is truly a tough and tender man!

Only a man who understands love will be moved by a woman's dedication, and only a man who doesn't understand love will feel that a woman's dedication is natural. In fact, women spend their whole lives giving, paying for the people who love her, and paying for the people they love. Aren't they enough for men to treat them well?

Shanghai gang boss Du Yuesheng has a famous saying: Don’t hit women with anything, and don’t hurt women with anything. Du Yuesheng has five wives, all of whom are devoted to him. His marriage to Meng Xiaodong was brokered by his second wife, which shows that Du Yuesheng's personality is extraordinary.

Women say that when they get married, they should marry Du Yuesheng. Du Yuesheng is famous for being kind to women. A man who dominates the world has such respect and pity for women. Facts have proved that the more promising a man is, the more he knows how to respect women. And a man who doesn't know how to treat women well will probably only have so much success in his life!

If a woman is a book, then this book requires a man to read it patiently. If you can't understand it, then you should put some effort into understanding her.

For example, a woman's cry, a woman's pain, a woman's injury. If you just hastily turn over the page you can't read, or even tear it up brutally, then you will probably never be able to read this book in your life.

Women are animals that are both soft and strong. They have a natural maternal love and a natural compassion. But her motherly protectiveness makes her extremely strong. She becomes soft when she encounters softness, and becomes strong when encountering hardness. A woman's nemesis is not a man who is simple and rude to her, but a man who makes her give up.

Men with truly high emotional intelligence understand women very well. They treat women so well that women are willing to give everything for him. If you want women to bow down, you have no choice but to be nice to them! Only stupid men will conquer women in simple and crude ways.

Home is not a place of reason, but a place of love. Home is a warm harbor. Home is not a place for men to establish their prestige. Men can go out and dominate, but you must restrain your prestige at home!

Because treating women simply and roughly can only prove a man’s incompetence!