Pattern and mind are the hallmarks of success - Life Wisdom Series (5)

Text/Nuan Yangjun

The so-called pattern is based on long-term, Look at problems from a developmental, overall and strategic perspective. Do things with a big heart. How big the pattern is, how big the cause is.

The Tao of Guiguzi emphasizes vertical and horizontal spleen and closing, using the heaven and earth as a chess game, and the pattern is huge.

It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a high IQ, and it’s not a big problem if you don’t have a high EQ, but the pattern of being a person must be big. To put it bluntly, a person doesn’t have to be smart, or he doesn’t know how to communicate, but he must be generous and have a certain vision. To be broad, your mind must be broad. When you encounter difficulties, you should hold your chest high, and when you encounter setbacks, you should stand firm. No matter what others say, you can let go of it, and no matter how much others do, you can be calm.

The size of your mind determines the size of your career. Employ people where they can be used, and don’t blame them for perfection. Don't let suspicion ruin your life. Forgiving others is actually letting yourself go. A broad mind dilutes the pain of life, looks down upon gains and losses of fame and fortune, maintains a normal mind, and faces life calmly.

The big picture has big ambitions, and every day is a process of progress. People with high positioning will not let themselves get by. They not only have big ambitions, but also start from small things.

Those who have a big picture have a broad mind and do not belittle themselves due to unfavorable circumstances, nor do they give up on themselves due to lack of ability.

Those who have a small pattern often complain about the unsatisfactory life, and are helpless because of a small setback. When looking at problems, they often miss the forest for the trees.

If you can't get up after a little setback, if you can't let go of one or two bad words from others, and if you hate people at every turn, then your situation is too small.