What kind of love is most comfortable.
There is a distance between marriage and love. Love is the product of heartbeat and the temptation of hormone surge; Marriage, on the other hand, is as plain as water, and daily necessities make life comfortable and comfortable.
Everyone wants to find their fantasy Prince Charming (Princess). Everything in fantasy is beautiful, intoxicating, confusing and uncontrollable. But it is difficult for such people to get perfect love, because perfection is so illusory and a product of non-existence.
Time knocks your pride, and life smoothes your dreams. So you also began to put down your attitude and plan to give your life to someone casually. And it happens that this person is also like this. You are like two lonely wild ghosts who have no intention of touching each other. In the end, they found that no one can live without anyone, and everyone is trying to please each other and maintain the empty shell of this marriage. Half of a happy marriage is a conspiracy. It doesn't matter to know that the other person doesn't love you that much, because you don't love each other that much. As for love, you will open a cupboard in your spare time, turn to an object, you will remember the love you once had, sigh unrealistic youth, and then move on with your life. Marriage, a social contract, can not only ensure that you have a stable partner during the contract period, but also provide you with a legal way to create a life. Marriage may not let you know yourself, but it can make you live in peace with the world at the lowest cost. This sentence may be the closest to the essence of marriage, a little cold, but if you recognize this, you will get half the happiness.
When you begin to accept each other's shortcomings as you accept their advantages; When you learn to communicate deeply with each other instead of losing your temper to solve problems, and when you stop yelling at each other for throwing socks or not washing your face, you may have adapted to marriage.
Mature marriage makes two people better, children better educated, and parents healthy in their later years.
A failed marriage, two people are getting more and more tired, the children cast a deep shadow, and parents are anxiously waiting for your reconciliation.
May each of us have a beautiful love!