However, in this world, there are many things that make us unable to look directly at our conscience. ...
There was such a message in my backstage yesterday: "adoptive parents, it is better to have a dog!" " At least the dog will wag its tail at me when I'm full and won't hurt me. Where are my parents?
Hu Yueer, I have read many of your articles, and you have always stressed that as a child, you should be filial and kind to your parents. Excuse me, have you ever experienced your own biological father strong x your own biological daughter? Without experience, there is no right to speak. Please don't persuade others to be filial to their parents in the future. "
Seeing this news, to be honest, I really don't know how to reply: I can't blindly emphasize the filial piety of 5,000 years of cultural civilization in such a realistic situation! However, I can't tell the netizens who leave messages that you shouldn't honor the elderly.
To be honest, I don't know what kind of mentality this friend left me, and I don't know if what this friend said "My father is better than my own daughter" is true. However, I know that if what my friend said is true, such a father is no longer worthy of the title of "father" and should be changed to "beast"!
But I think that the vast majority of parents in this world love their children. They love their children selflessly, asking for nothing in return, regardless of gains and losses, and can even protect their children at the expense of their own lives. There is no doubt that blood is thicker than water!
Furthermore, no matter how dissatisfied we are with our parents, don't compare our parents who gave birth to dogs! No matter how bad our parents are, if our parents are worse than dogs … what are we?
If such a father is like this friend who left a message, we really have nothing to say! However, I think this kind of thing belongs to a case.
In my article advocating filial piety, I have long seen many people leave messages saying that their parents are not good to them, they don't eat well, they don't dress well, they don't buy anything they want, and so on. Even, a friend left a message saying that his parents who went to college to buy a notebook did not support it, and felt that such parents should not keep it because they were sorry for themselves. ...
But I want to say, why do some people hate their parents so much? Unless it's like the friend who left the message said (parents are not parents, but animals), or we really have no right or qualification to say "parents are sorry for themselves"-you only consider that your parents can't let you eat and dress well, and you only consider yourself. Have you ever considered what your parents' life is like? Have you ever thought about your parents, do they have the conditions to satisfy you?
In this life, there are only a handful of people who can have real relatives! Maybe, just our parents and their children! People can't live too selfish, especially for their own flesh and blood relatives. We should stand in their perspective and think for them!