In fact, there is no road in the world. When more people walk, it becomes a road. ?

I believe this famous saying is familiar to everyone. It always appears in various inspirational videos, and the author who said this sentence is none other than the well-known Mr. Lu Xun.

This man who used pen and paper as weapons and wrote articles as bullets used his extremely sharp words and to-the-point comments to penetrate the enemy's inner defenses and made a contribution to the Chinese literary world. made a huge contribution.

But when it comes to his family, it is not so satisfying. The three brothers in the family should have supported each other and made progress together, but they parted ways because of family conflicts.

In the end, Lu Xun’s nephew Zhou Fengsan shot himself. A young boy lost his precious life. So what was the reason that made him commit suicide?

What caused the great writer Lu Xun to fight with his younger brother Zhou Zuoren? What kind of story is there?

Childhood experience, lack of companionship.

The young Zhou Fengsan was born in the Zhou family compound in 1922, but although he lived in this scholarly family, his life was not happy, and he was not even as happy as children from ordinary families, because when he was born Soon after, his biological father Zhou Jianren left home, leaving behind his young children and lonely wife, and went to Shanghai alone.

Zhou Jianren actually had two marriages in his life. His first wife, Yuta Yoshiko, got married with the help of his second brother and sister-in-law. But who would have thought that what should have been a very happy family turned out to be... After the marriage, they broke up unhappy.

Because Zhou Jianren has never been able to find a formal job, his life is very difficult. Especially after getting married and having children, he needs financial support. However, in the face of Zhou Jianren who does not seek progress, , Yuta Yoshiko was very disappointed. She did not want to have to rely on her second brother and second sister-in-law for support in her future life, so she frequently quarreled with Zhou Jianren.

And their relationship also had cracks in the quarrels again and again. In the end, Zhou Jianren couldn't stand such arguments day and night, so he chose to run away from home and go to Shanghai alone, hoping to escape the marriage in this way.

So in the heart of the young Zhou Fengsan, Zhou Jianren, his father, was very strange, not even as close as the friend he had just met. Having grown up in the home of his second uncle Zhou Zuoren, he had already regarded his second uncle as a father. As his own father.

But what he didn’t expect was that his biological father, Zhou Jianren, not only abandoned his wife and children, but also met Wang Yun, a young and beautiful female student in Shanghai, and fell deeply in love with her. , they live together like a couple and have children, but sometimes they send some living expenses to the family to prove the existence of his father. But fundamentally speaking, he has already separated from the family and should be judged morally.

But this is only the beginning of the decomposition of the Zhou family, because the wife of the second brother Zhou Zuoren, Yuta Nobuko, believed that her sister had been wronged in the Zhou family because the eldest brother Lu Xun failed to discipline his younger brother well. There is quite a bit of criticism about it.

But later, because the two sisters, Yu and Tai, brought their extended family members from Japan to live in Beijing, the financial burden on the entire Zhou family increased. Lu Xun was also somewhat dissatisfied with them, and this also led to the relationship between the two families. nervous.

In order to change this situation, Lu Xun, who had always been honest and simple, told his second brother Zhou Zuoren, hoping that he could advise his wife not to be so lavish. However, Zhou Zuoren, who was gentle by nature, did not follow what his elder brother said. Do this.

This also made Lu Xun extremely disappointed with his second brother and the family. Later, because of this problem, the two had a big fight, which eventually led to Lu Xun directly moving out of the Zhou family mansion. From then on, the two families never had anything to do with each other. touch.

The second uncle surrendered to the enemy, causing great harm.

It is precisely because of this that Zhou Fengsan has never seen his father since he was a child, nor has he received the package of father's love. This also led to the subsequent defection of his second uncle Zhou Zuoren to the enemy, which was a huge blow to him.

In the context of that era, Mr. Lu Xun's younger brother Zhou Zuoren chose to join the Japanese in order to survive, and became a traitor and a traitor in the eyes of ordinary people.

After learning the news, the young Zhou Fengsan almost collapsed. He had regarded his second uncle as his idol since he was a child, but he actually did such a thing. Although he was still young, he was very important to the survival of the country. , things like national plot are still very clear.

As Zhou Zuoren’s nephew, I was also affected. Many classmates in the school pointed at him behind his back, and some bold students even ran in front of him and criticized him. Insulting and scorning, watching his friends leave one after another, Zhou Fengsan couldn't accept this feeling of being criticized, so he became depressed.

The unfeeling father is extremely disappointed.

But this was not enough to make the young boy give up his life. What happened next completely shattered his heart.

In the spring of 1937, because the Zhou family’s mother celebrated her 80th birthday, Zhou Jianren, who had not been home all year round, returned to his ancestral home with his little wife to celebrate his mother’s birthday. This was also the first time Zhou Fengsan met his father. The first time and the last time.

Because of Zhou Jianren’s shameful behavior of abandoning his wife and son, everyone ignored him. Now he has brought a woman back home. What will happen to the already aggrieved Yushin Yoshiko? It was good, so the conflict was about to break out. After a fierce fight, the angry Zhou Jianren not only announced that he would sever all relations with her, but also claimed that he would no longer have contact with his second brother and his family, and that everyone would be fine. After saying that, he walked away.

And he never came back after leaving, and the letters and money he originally sent home every month were also discontinued after that.

But what he didn’t know was how huge a blow such a move would have to a boy who was not yet 18 years old. But when he saw his long-awaited father, he looked like this. Zhou Fengsan was completely disappointed, so from that day on, he seemed to be a different person.

These successive blows pushed Zhou Fengsan's psychological endurance to the limit. The family changes, the lack of father's love, the second uncle's defection to the enemy, and the subsequent death of his eldest uncle Lu Xun. This series of events, He completely gave up hope of life.

So on March 24, 1941, young Zhou Fengsan took advantage of Zhou Zuoren's bodyguard's inattention, picked up the pistol he had casually placed on the table, pointed it at his temple, and pulled the trigger.

Such a young life full of infinite possibilities disappeared into this beautiful world.

Summary:

In fact, from Zhou Fengsan’s incident, we can see how much influence family education, parents and living environment have on a child, and can even make him lose hope for life. .

For the child Zhou Fengsan, it is undoubtedly the most tragic. His future should have unlimited possibilities, but he was treated like this by fate, which led to tragedy. He was talented, lively and cute since he was a child, but he left this beautiful world in this way.

Since ancient times, people have been well aware of the importance of family education. Regular and effective communication with children can also help them understand their children's hearts better, which will help parents change their own education methods, thus It can eliminate and alleviate the anxiety, tension, distress, loneliness and depression of teenagers, so that children can have a healthy and positive mentality and better welcome their beautiful life.