Yesterday morning, as soon as I parked my car in the community, a white car parked behind my car, blocking my way out. Since I had to go out soon, I went over to say hello to the car owner. There were several parking spaces in front, and he should park in them.

I knocked on her car door lightly and said, "Hello, can you park the car forward? This blocks my car. I will have to get out in a moment."

"Where's the block for you?"

I pointed to my car

"I'll stop right here, do whatever you want"

She said as she got out of the car. He has a good temperament, wears famous brands, and has a poker face.

Pull it off, it’s better not to waste your time with people who feel like this. Later, I asked several people from the other direction and moved a lot of things before I drove the car out.

To see whether a woman's life is good or not, it is mainly up to her to feel it, and other people's judgments are all nonsense.

If you look at it from the outside, there are many standards. It's like a blind man touching an elephant. Everyone is right, but it's just not comprehensive.

Temperament

Temperament is a good business card for a woman. Beautiful temperament is related to many factors. For example, the influence of the native family, the internalization of knowledge, cognitive thinking, personal cultivation, etc.

This is only one aspect of evaluating whether a woman's life is good or not. If she has a good temperament, she may be lucky in some of the above aspects.

Wearing

There is a good saying: There is always one less piece of clothing in a woman’s wardrobe! It can be seen that women have a need and love for clothes.

The quality of clothing comes from the abundance of money. For a woman who prefers gorgeous clothes and beautiful accessories to feel satisfied, these may make her feel that her life is very good.

Conversation

Conversation is what a woman is willing to express. Some people reveal it naturally, while others do it deliberately. This can also be achieved through deliberate practice to achieve various communication purposes. Therefore, sometimes it is difficult to judge whether a woman's life is good or not by talking.

These points are all observed from an outsider’s perspective

For example, the woman who blocked my car, is she living well? My judgment is that her life is not very good, at least not very happy. Because she lacks "charm"

which is also called spirit.

She has a good temperament, beautiful clothes, and she can also speak well when necessary, but she just lacks something.

From her conversation with me, I felt her anxiety and uneasiness.

If a woman lives a good life, she will be very calm and calm, and the peace that radiates from her bones cannot be concealed.

No matter whether her life is rich or poor, her temperament is orchid or careless, her conversation is elegant or vulgar, people will feel that she is who she is, she can truly express herself, and she does not need to please anyone and wrong herself. Free and true.

She may not care too much about her temperament, clothing, or conversation, but she has the ability to make herself comfortable and others comfortable at the same time.

Shakespeare's famous saying: "There will be a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand readers." That is to say, everyone with different positions can see it in the book "Hamlets" Hamlet Completely different artistic conception.

Everyone has their own opinions when it comes to evaluating whether a woman’s life is good or not. The above is just my personal opinion.

But we should not ignore that the woman herself has the most say in whether her life is good or not.

In life, although many women have bright appearance, their real life is not satisfactory; on the contrary, some women, although simple and plain, live an enviable and happy life.

Therefore, it is not obvious whether a woman is living a good or bad life. So, what kind of woman really lives well? Take a look at these three places and you’ll know!

See if she has free time

Time is man’s most precious wealth and the fairest gift God gives to everyone.

Much of our lives are occupied with survival. It's nice to have some time to yourself after a hard day at work.

This is also one of the most powerful evidences of a woman’s good life.

All women who live in happiness have their own free time.

Going home every night, they can throw away their fatigue and find their true selves.

Don’t cook to suit your mood, and there are not many clothes waiting to be washed by yourself;

When you want to be alone and chase drama at home, your husband will be very interested in taking care of the children. .

When you are alone, don't think about chatting with your family or going shopping and watching a movie with your friends.

Their life may not necessarily be rich and expensive, but they can make themselves comfortable.

A bad woman never gets her job done.

I worked hard all day during the day and stayed at home at night.

The whole family is waiting for him to cook for himself.

Take off your clothes at home and wait for your own laundry.

No one cares about the health of the family without cleaning up after themselves.

The children cry, no one cares, their husbands just play with their mobile phones.

In their lives, they always play a "hard" role. They have to worry about themselves inside and out.

What they left behind was an aging face and a worse temper.

Look at the topics of conversation between her and others.

From a person's chat with others, she can also see her life.

They often have a husband who loves him, so they are happy to praise him in front of others. You may think she is showing love, but in their faces, you see true pride and happiness.

Women who are unhappy in life are completely different.

They are usually exhausted by their livelihood and chores, so life makes them impatient and irritable.

When they met an acquaintance, their resentment seemed to have found a breakthrough and suddenly burst out.

They can make detailed statements about their husband's "crime" in front of the person they are chatting with; their children are always unwilling to save themselves, and other people's children are always envious of them; conflicts between daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law It is an abyss from which they cannot escape.

Life has no fun or expectations for them. They hate their lives and are frustrated with what they do every day, but they have no choice.

Full of dissatisfaction, they chat with others and end up dissatisfied with life and complain about all kinds of fantasies.

Take a look at the contents of her circle of friends

Finally, there is another place to see a person’s life, which is her circle of friends.

Through the circle of friends, you can see what she usually does, what she sees, what she is thinking, and what kind of emotions she has.

If a woman’s circle of friends often shows the books or movies she has read recently, where she has traveled, what new friends she has, what kind of expectations and longings she has for life... her life is full of Be fulfilled, happy and positive.

On the contrary, if a woman’s circle of friends sees these things all day long, her life is mostly unhappy.

For a long time, people have raised some questions about husbands cheating, how to prevent cheating, and how to deal with domestic violence.

Sighing motionlessly about his life, complaining that he married the wrong man, and vowing to never be a woman again in his next life;

Often delivering violent social news, and even making some Destructive comments.

The content of your circle of friends may be approved by you, or you may criticize it, but they have one thing in common, that is, you care more about it.

A woman having a great time. Unable to install. There are so many small details in life that can easily reveal a person's true life.

When you know what kind of woman is good, you can compare yourself to see if your life is satisfactory. No matter how often a woman travels, she must have these 5 habits

1. Don’t stay up late, go to bed earlier

If you can’t repeat your life, if you don’t cherish your body, you will only hurt yourself.

The night you spend today is an advance overdraft for the days to come.

You can make more money after you have spent it, and you can make a comeback after being frustrated at work, but if your body breaks down, everything is just talk.

In the second half of life, health is what we fight for. From now on, change yourself and develop the habit of going to bed early when you have nothing to do. Going to bed early and getting up early is the best way for women to maintain their health.

2. Don’t be too lazy, exercise more

No matter what age a woman is, she should understand that she has to carve out whatever look she wants; if she wants to stay youthful forever , investing and maintaining yourself is indispensable.

By maintaining regular exercise habits, you will not only be healthy and energetic, but your overall posture and temperament will also be improved.

No matter how busy you are at work, please do not take up time to exercise.

Choose an exercise method you like and stick to it. I believe that every drop of sweat you shed is an accumulation of health.

3. Don’t think too much, be more relaxed

Thinking too much will complicate simple problems, or even create a problem that does not exist at all, thus making Falling into endless troubles.

Always thinking about too many meaningless issues will cause your mood to be disturbed and you will not be able to focus on work;

Always worrying about people and things in the past will not be able to Seize the moment better and move forward with ease.

Only by thinking more openly and letting go of those worries and troubles can we truly achieve self-liberation and go into battle spiritually.

You might as well let your heart be at peace and don't insist on competing with yourself.

Only with an open-minded mind and an open mind about everything can you experience less sorrow and anxiety in life.

4. Don’t overdraft, save some money

Deposits mark a person’s ability to resist risks, and it also means a person’s confidence.

There is no eternal backer in the world, and no one will always be someone's safe haven. Only having money in your pocket can keep you calm when things happen.

After all, if you have money, you won’t wait until your parents are sick and humbly go around borrowing money;

You won’t encounter something you really like, you can only look at it and see what it can’t be. Buy;

You will not watch other people’s children receive higher education while your own children have nothing.

Money is a person’s courage, and it is also the life of those who have no money.

Learning to save money and holding a sense of security tightly in your own hands is more important than anything else.

5. Don’t be angry, be more calm.

In this life, bad emotions are inevitable.

However, many times, after getting angry, many problems will not be solved, but will continue to intensify, creating an out-of-control situation.

When you gradually calm down, you will find that anger is a useless thing. It will not only disturb our mood, worsen our interpersonal relationships, but also destroy our physical and mental health.

Perhaps we cannot control the occurrence of bad emotions, but we can learn to face everything with a peaceful mind.

Instead of punishing yourself for other people's mistakes, it is better to let go of other people's mistakes and laugh them off.

When you argue, learn to be patient; when you are angry, learn to be calm; when you are persistent, learn to give up; when you care, learn to let go.

Be kind to yourself and start by never getting angry.

If you learn not to be angry, you will win your whole life.

A woman’s status is never measured by her age, but by how wonderful her life is, how full her heart is, and how rich her spirit is.

Therefore, if a woman wants to be in good condition, she must develop the above habits, so that she can give herself a comfortable and happy life.

Author: Uncle Bei

Woman is like a beautiful flower, embellishing our boring life. A woman who lives a good life is like a gorgeous flower that makes our lives brighter and brighter. A woman in good condition can be summed up with the following characteristics:

1. The first is the condition of the skin, whether the skin is firm and shiny. If a woman's skin is in good condition, it means that she usually pays more attention to maintenance and cares about the quality of life; on the other hand, it also means that her sleep quality is also good, and there are no annoying things that cause her to have insomnia. Good sleep quality will make your skin look fair and shiny.

2. Pay more attention to personal appearance. Dress more tastefully and know what style of clothes suits you. The clothes are neat and decent, and even without makeup, you look better without makeup.

3. Look at the overall mental outlook. The mood is relatively optimistic and open-minded, not fussy, and has a smile on the face. His words and deeds are elegant and decent, and his every smile is friendly. A woman who lives a good life must be calm emotionally and will not get angry easily.

4. Not only is it pleasing to the eye externally, but it also focuses on improving oneself internally. I have my own interests and hobbies, like reading, fitness and traveling. Live a relatively fulfilling life, like to be alone occasionally, have the ability to introspect and have unique insights, and do not follow what others say.

A woman with high emotional intelligence can adjust her state even in adversity, be confident and calm, and infect everyone around her with her full spirit. If you have such a person around you, you must cherish it!

Look at the eyes, the look.

Other aspects of a woman may be inadvertent or covered up, such as not dressing up, or being soaked by heavy rain, but the emotions revealed in her eyes are always the most accurate. Even if she is not dressing up, there is no look of fear, anxiety, disappointment, or boredom in her eyes. It may be the laziness of just getting up, or the relaxation after just finishing housework, but her eyes are definitely full of energy. Glossy, calm, confident, contented, without worry or panic. Even if she had just been caught in the rain, there was no look in her eyes that was extremely angry, angry, mean, or complaining. It might be cunning and curious, or it might be helpless and self-deprecating, but there was no hatred or hostility. , because she does not need to regard the rain as God's injustice or hostility to her. It is just a rain, an episode in life.

People have different personalities, some are lively and extroverted, and some are quiet and introverted, but the eyes of happy women are all the same shiny, giving people a feeling of high spirits, warmth, brightness, and flowing light. There is always a smile behind it. If a woman is frustrated in life, her eyes will either be dull, slow or dull, showing helplessness, emptiness, disappointment, and sadness frequently, or she will have sharp and mean eyes, revealing her cunningness to compete with others.

Whether a woman lives well or not, I personally think can be determined from the following points:

First, look at her hands. In life, people have to work and create with their hands. If a woman's hands are thin and tender, she must be someone who rarely works, rarely does housework, and pays attention to maintenance. If your hands are rough and you have no intention of taking care of them, they must be caused by heavy housework and worry. You can tell a lot by looking at a woman's hands.

The second is to look at the complexion. A woman has a good complexion, elegant appearance, a look in her eyes, and a gesture that can reveal her life status. A woman who is knowledgeable and courteous, and has seen the world, must be calm in everything, neither humble nor arrogant, and can show her demeanor to everyone.

The fourth is seeing consciousness. People often say: There is poetry and calligraphy in the abdomen. A woman who loves learning and reading must be energetic and elegant. Such a woman knows better about life, knows how to cherish life, can enjoy the fun of life, and will definitely live a comfortable, happy and happy life.

In short, everyone’s attitude towards life is different, and women are the same. We are in an era of equality between men and women. Women are not inferior to men, and there are endless women who have achieved success in their careers. Women have become the trendsetters of the times, and a woman's social value is reflected in her entrepreneurial efforts.

Beijing people have a word to describe a good life: "Shu Xin!"

The most important thing for a woman to live is comfort! I met a lady. In the past, they were considered my distant cousins ??and in-laws for eight lifetimes. That person, that temperament, is the image of a Bodhisattva!

Incomparable! He is a person who is happy all his life. The first is to look good. Pay attention to "good-looking". Let you "see and forget the vulgar". No one has ever encountered such scraps and disputes in the world. The family background is among the first-class wealthy families in Beijing's courtyard. There is a person in the family who has received stamps. She has been loved by her elders since she was a child. Lively and happy. When he grew up and went to China Foreign Affairs University, he became even more distinguished and elegant.

That kind of elegance only belongs to children from that special family background. To put it bluntly, it is a kind of unworldly and confused "silliness"!

She had to see the food stamps, because she had never seen them before. She couldn't understand the importance of a salary increase to the average human being. I once went to a female classmate’s house. It is an ordinary cadre family. She insisted on following, probably because she wanted to "get down to the grassroots level". In the 1990s, the housing in Beijing was crowded. When she arrived at the house, she said nothing and lowered her head. I'm surprised. My classmates think she is arrogant, isn’t she just an ordinary person? Why actually? You can't even guess it. The "eldest lady" saw the family's men's underwear hanging on the balcony. If the "eldest lady" raised her head and looked directly, she would come into view, so she didn't dare to raise her head...

How could this happen? She couldn't understand. why is that? How could underwear exist in the sight of a foreigner? After hearing this, I just said: Stop thinking blindly, their house only has a small balcony and no space!

The eldest lady will be happy all her life. My husband is the "Phoenix Man" chosen from thousands of people. A leader on the diplomatic front. She is diligent, thrifty, and lives with her husband in an amiable and respectable manner. I also took care of my mother-in-law who was born in a small town. No airs at all. In fact, I found that people who really look down on others are actually people who have been looked down upon by others. And the "eldest lady" has always been particular about "hiding" in her life. He is the person who attracts everyone's attention all his life. She really wants to mingle with the masses!

Now, the "eldest lady" has retired. Got a grandchild. Fat aunt. There are no wrinkles on the face. A lifetime of elegant and simple dressing. No high heels, no eyebrow makeup. She is the kind of Beijing aunt who looks comfortable at first glance and exquisite in taste. What kind of body management does a real grandma not bother to care about? That's almost it. The best man is by her side and will love her forever. Who else does she attract? Moments? Not at all. She has been "hiding" all her life!

She has a good heart. When I was seriously ill, she helped me find a doctor and find medicine. Now we are no longer relatives. When I returned to Beijing, she took the initiative to contact me, "We haven't seen each other for many years. How is your brother?"

I got interested and took my brother to open his eyes. Let me show you what a real "lady from a famous family" means. When my younger brother saw her, he said: "She cannot be evaluated. She is not a woman for men to judge after dinner."

"Then what do you think of her temperament?" I asked my younger brother. This "big carrot", this man who has found a lot of girlfriends.

The younger brother thought for a while and then said one word: Yong!

Yes, a woman favored by God!

To see whether a woman is living a good life or not, we need to consider many aspects.

①Wearing

It has to be said that a person’s clothing can also reflect whether a person is living well or not. After all, in this society, it is difficult to move without money. A well-dressed person, There is no need to worry about the most basic living expenses.

②Conversation

Conversation reflects a person’s cultivation. A person whose life is unsatisfactory will have more or less shadows in his voice. Only when you live a good life can you put all the things into consideration. Although smiling is a basic etiquette to bring happiness to others, a person who lives in the sound of water and heat, even if he smiles, will have a somewhat sad look.

③Temperament

A person’s temperament is formed over time. If a person is sad and disappointed for a long time, the temperament exuded will not be happy.

Linlin is my college classmate. She is an employee in the marketing department of a securities company. One weekend morning, her client asked her to open an account. Linlin said nothing as she walked on the road, but a person passing by her asked her to open an account. An aunt stopped her and said, your smile almost melted me, how could you be so happy.

The reason why Linlin can infect passers-by is because she has always been in a happy atmosphere, so her temperament is also happy.

Whether a person lives well or not can be reflected in his clothing, conversation, and temperament.

Everyone has a love for beauty. When their living conditions improve, they all attach great importance to their external image. If a person has been in a sub-emotional state for a long time and is too lazy to take care of herself over time, you can tell whether her living situation is good or not from the first glance. Let’s not talk about being beautiful and attractive. We should also dress appropriately and look like normal. If you have been slovenly for a certain period of time, it means there is a problem with your sitting and living status. This is only a preliminary judgment, and it is not completely correct. Whether a woman's living environment is good or not should be viewed from many aspects.

Human nature dictates that when you are happy, you laugh, and when you are sad, you are sad. The mental outlook can reflect a person’s life state. Women in happy and sad states have completely different behaviors. The two attitudes are different between women and men. Women are more emotional and won't hide it, while men generally bury their sad things in their hearts and don't like to show them. If we judge whether a woman's life is good or not based on her appearance and condition, this reason is not sufficient. Only by in-depth understanding can we fully understand how a woman is living!

Verbal communication with a woman is the most direct proof of understanding her living conditions. Although he did not directly ask "How is your life?", you can find some clues from the language, tone, and demeanor. Although she hides something, for a man with rich life experience, he can guess a woman from her overall appearance. It’s not difficult to decide what your living situation is like.

A woman, including men, should look at the gain and loss of fame, wealth and material desires in life with a normal mind. Eighty-nine times in life, things will not go as planned. As long as you work hard and leave other things to God, I will be lucky to get them. , don’t be sad if you lose. This is the so-called golden mean!

I hope my answer can help you. If there are any mistakes, please correct them in the comment area, and let’s discuss the secrets of life and build a happy life together. @tiehanrouqing161 will always be a small light in the dark night!

What does it look like if a woman lives a good life? Some people say it depends on her temperament, some people say it depends on her clothes, and some people say it depends on her conversation. I think she should look at the man around her.

Temperament is sometimes something you are born with. I once saw a woman who looked like an average person. Her eyes, nose, and mouth were not prominent. Her figure was neither fat nor thin, but she was He exudes a special temperament that is different from other people.

She always gives people a faint feeling when she talks, as if nothing can arouse her desire. The temperament is like orchid, which is really appropriate to describe it. It is that kind of clean and pure temperament.

Ordinary clothes have a special charm when worn on her body, but through other people's words, she learned that her father had been sentenced to death for rape since she was a child, and her mother had never remarried.

Since she has no conditions to move, she has been living in an old house. She has lived under the guidance of others since she was a child. Rather than saying that her temperament is outstanding, it is better to say that it is caused by her low self-esteem since childhood. Today's She is already in her fifties, and she has never been seen walking with a man. Maybe she will die alone in this life, so a good temperament does not mean a good life.

Let’s talk about clothing. Xiaoxia, who plays mahjong downstairs, is known to be well-dressed. She often shows off how much her watch is and how much her clothes are. We have never heard of the brands she mentioned. I know how to wear gold and silver, and the gold is shining. When I was at my peak, I wore eight rings on my ten fingers.

I heard from her that every boyfriend would buy her a piece of gold jewelry, as well as countless clothes and shoes. When she was in a good mood, she would dress up sleekly and have painted on her face. Wearing heavy makeup and spraying perfume, she sits at the mahjong table and smiles proudly. When she wins money, she goes out to eat with a lot of fun.

If one day you see her with disheveled hair and wearing home clothes, it must be that she is in a bad mood today. Maybe one of her boyfriends has messed with her again. She lives here alone, and her neighbors People often say that the men in her family change too frequently. Some laugh at her and some even envy her, so you can't tell whether a person's life is good or not just by looking at his clothes.

There is an eldest sister in Jiangbian'er's morning exercise. All her words are Wen Zou Zou, and occasionally she will say a few words. I heard that she used to be a teacher in a middle school, but her dress is really... I don't dare to compliment her. She often has oil stains on her clothes. People who know her say that you can't go to her home. There is almost no place to stay in her home. She spends all her time exercising and reading.

My point of view is that whether a woman is living a good life or not depends on the man around her. My mother’s old neighbor, I call her Aunt Guan, her eyes were inexplicably dark in the past few years. Her eyesight declined, and her husband took her to seek medical treatment, but she still became blind.

Their only son lives in Zhengzhou and is already married and has children. Uncle Guan takes good care of Aunt Guan every day. He puts on sunglasses, dresses her up neatly, and goes out for a walk holding hands. Son, people who don't know can't tell that there is anything wrong with Aunt Guan's eyes, because she often goes out with Uncle Guan, she is very relieved, and her steps are very brisk, and it is completely impossible to tell that she is a blind person.

Five or six years have passed. Every time I go to my mother’s house and Uncle Guan opens the door, I can see that his house is clean and tidy. Uncle Guan smiles every day. Yes, he didn't regard taking care of his wife as a worry, but enjoyed it. He talked to me when he saw me. After hearing this, Aunt Guan also fumbled and stood at the door of the room, saying, are you here to see your dad again?

Every time at this time, I am very envious. I envy Aunt Guan that she cannot see her eyesight and cannot do housework. However, her husband not only does not complain, but also takes good care of her every day. I heard that the two of them have never complained. I had a good relationship when I was young, and I have never had a blush or quarrel in my life.

Do you agree with my point of view?