The other side argued amicably.
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? I am very happy to discuss with my opponent here "which is more tragic, never getting it or getting it back?" Our view is that the former is far more pathetic than the latter.
Our argument is which is more tragic: never getting it or getting it and losing it. From this perspective, the perspective of a third-party observer should be a sad definition.
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Never getting and getting and losing highlight the importance of getting.
Never means never.
The so-called "gain" means wanting something, realizing a certain meaning and meeting people's physical and spiritual needs. According to the authoritative dictionary: Well,
The word "knowing" looks like a bronze inscription, with "north" on the right and "hand" and "Yu" on the left, indicating that the line has something to gain. Synonym: I didn't have it, but I won it for myself.
So never getting it means actively fighting for what you want but never getting it. People always have to experience to grow up and enjoy the beautiful past. On the contrary, those who haven't got it have never owned it or experienced it. The process of getting is often empty, and psychological fatigue and powerlessness are gradually formed under long-term fruitless efforts.
Failure will weaken people's confidence and make people deny the value of hard work. For example, Mu Rongfu in "Tian Long Ba Bu" tried to surpass the supreme martial arts all his life, but after numerous failures, he began to think that his efforts were meaningless and eventually his personality collapsed. In contrast, Xiang Yu, the overlord of Xi Chu, never doubted his efforts and efforts, although he finally lost his land. It can be seen that never getting this experience of eternal failure will not only hurt people's hearts, but also cause more serious self-denial, which is naturally more tragic.
On the other hand, in Titanic, if Ruth had not met Jack, there would be no tears in the Atlantic Ocean. You wouldn't have this experience. For example, in Titanic, Jack and Rose were finally separated by Yin and Yang, but this sincere and beautiful memory has always been the light in Rose's heart. So, in her later years, she still came to the place where she and Jack once loved each other, and threw the beauty in the sea to the bottom of the sea with her weak body. In addition, this recovery experience made her experience true and pure love and enriched her life.
Jamaican Powell's world record of 100 meter set in 2007 was broken by Bolt in 2008, which lasted only a short year. Nevertheless, I don't think not only we, the audience, but Powell himself will feel sad. Because I had such a close hug with the world record, I made my long-term efforts bear fruit and proved my value.
On the contrary, behind Powell, there are more warriors who are driven by loneliness day and night. We don't know their names, and no one in the future will know these dreams that sweat runs down their cheeks in the scorching sun and are recorded in the middle of the night no matter how hard they try.
Isn't the latter more pathetic? Because I have never owned, experienced, seen or understood, I have been advancing one by one, but I will never see the edge without progress, and there will be no day and night. Wang Yongyuan of Sisyphus, who never seems to succeed, can't walk out of the blank of "never getting it".
Therefore, we insist that what we never get is more tragic than what we can't get.