1. Just try your best
You are just a mortal, you are not powerful, and you will not change in 72 ways. You cannot be able to do everything and be the best at everything.
Don’t set too high goals for yourself, and don’t overestimate your abilities. Pressure is a kind of motivation, but when the pressure exceeds the range of endurance, you will be crushed.
Many times, you can’t control the outcome, and you can’t please everyone. Trying and trying your best is enough.
2. Just do your best
You are not a savior and you cannot help everyone. Relatives, friends, besties, buddies and sisters, you can help one person, but you can't help everyone. You can help for a while, but you can't help for a lifetime.
In times of crisis and emergencies, it is imperative to use as much strength as you can, and you will not feel at ease if you don’t help yourself. For the rest, don’t force yourself.
Don’t feel too guilty. You have your own life and you have to live your own life. Besides, you have only friendship with them and have no obligations.
3. Just adapt.
You cannot change many things. Everything has its own trajectory, runs on its own, and is at peace with itself. All you have to do is adapt to it and respect it.
Don’t try to change impossible things. Man can conquer nature, which means that it is very human. Everything depends on man-made things and opportunities. Our ancestors have all said that planning depends on people and success depends on God. One third of effort depends on God's will. No matter how ambitious you are, your ambition will depend on it.
For all living beings, in the end, you have to admit that except for changing yourself, you can actually change nothing in this world.
4. Just let it happen
Don’t force anything. What’s mine will always be mine. No matter how hard you try, it’s not mine. People who love me won’t bear to look at it. I cry, because the person who doesn't love me will be indifferent even if I die for him immediately.
Vibrant and vigorous things are exciting, but ordinary things also have their own warmth. Cherish what you have, and what you lose will drift away with the wind.
Life only lasts a hundred years. After all, it is fate. Right or wrong is not important. Life is rich and peaceful because of experience.
5. Just be bearish on it
As long as material things are enough, you can be bearish on the gains and losses of fame and fortune.
No matter how big the house is, it cannot accommodate an insatiable heart; no matter how high-end the bed is, it cannot let a person with anxiety and insomnia sleep peacefully. If you eat too much delicacies from the mountains and seas, your body will not be able to bear it;
If you have been thinking about it for too long, your spirit will collapse.
No matter how successful your career is, it cannot make a person who cannot find the meaning of life happy; no matter how much money you have, you cannot buy health.
Living is not easy anymore. If you are not happy, no one can make you happy.
6. Just face it
Who can make mistakes without being a sage? Everyone makes mistakes, and mistakes are an important factor in growth.
We can usually easily forgive other people's mistakes, but it is difficult to forgive our own mistakes, as if to forgive our own mistakes is to admit failure.
You are just you, an ordinary mortal. Don’t think of yourself as so great. When you are sad and wronged, you can shed tears and cry bitterly.
Facing one's own heart and admitting mistakes and failures are also required courses in life.
7. Just be optimistic
Never complain, never complain about anyone or anything.
You have to bear the hardships of work, you have to face the troubles of life, and it is your own choice to decide who betrays you.
Life often goes wrong, who doesn’t?
The most important thing is that complaining not only does not help, but also makes you unable to see the bright future.
Everyone accepts psychological suggestions. How you suggest will determine the result. Don't be so pessimistic and desperate. If you think about it from another angle, it may not be like that.
8. Just put it down
Don’t carry too many things on your back. It will be very hard for pedestrians to carry heavy loads.
If you don’t bring life with you and don’t take death with you, everyone will be empty-handed in the end. No matter how strong the love is, you have to let it go if you no longer love it;
No matter how deep the hatred is, it will melt away in time; no matter how close the person is, it is difficult to accompany them until they grow old; no matter how painful the children are, they have their own world after all.
Enjoy it when you should enjoy it. Don’t wait until you can’t walk to think of the distant scenery.
9. Just let go
Don’t be hard on yourself. It has been very difficult for you after so many years.
Admission to school, work, family, classmates, colleagues, old and new friends, and many, many people you know or don’t know.
Growing up, you have had high expectations, and many times, you have to live according to the expectations of others. No matter how hard you try, you will always fall short of their expectations.
You are tired and you are worthy of them. From now on, you should think about how to be worthy of yourself.
It’s hard to make everyone happy, so make yourself happy.
In fact, when you rejoice, everyone rejoices too.
10. Simple is good
Because life is too complicated, so we must live simple in complexity; because life is suffering, so we must live happily in suffering;
Because life is too impermanent, we must live optimistically in the midst of impermanence; because life is too restrictive, we must live freely and freely within the confinement.
In addition to life and death, what else is important? If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will be simple.