The sentence "Listen more and speak less" in the "Three Character Classic" is: "Listen more and see less, how dare you do more with less?". This means that if you listen more and see less, you will be afraid to do more. Sometimes you should practice and act more personally in order to gain more experience and results.
The benefits of talking less are as follows:
1. Talking less allows you to live as you please
When you talk less, people have to be honest and let go of all kinds of worries. Regarding requirements and opinions, it’s good to have everything that suits you, and it’s also good if it doesn’t suit you. It doesn’t matter whether you have it or not, whether you gain it or lose it. Gradually, you learn to live by the circumstances.
At the same time, we should continue to learn to keep a calm mind in all good and bad situations, good and bad, and over time, we will have fewer worries.
2. Talking less can also put aside all kinds of grudges.
Talking more with others will lead to feelings, and if the conversation is not, friction will inevitably arise. It is easy to form grudges with others, and these grudges will cause great obstacles to the afterlife.
Always looking for people to talk to, and sometimes offending people unintentionally. If you like talking to someone very much, the other person may wonder why they don't talk to me, and whether they look down on me, and this may lead to mistakes that cause trouble in life. At the same time, I also lost my sense of equality and could not treat everyone equally.
3. Speaking less can increase humility and respect.
Because you no longer express your opinions, people will no longer ask you questions like this. Gradually, the annoying habits of being arrogant and self-righteous will fade away, and everyone will no longer care about you. , as time goes by, you will feel that you are an insignificant person, and your humble and respectful heart will gradually grow unknowingly.
Not providing opportunities for people to talk to you also reduces the chances of having disputes with others. It also prevents people from getting upset and making excuses to hinder their normal life.
Speaking less is actually enjoying happiness. A person who has been silent for a long time will find it very troublesome and hard to speak. If you ask him to speak, he will feel very reluctant and unnatural.