Ⅰ Idioms in which modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind

Humble benefits, full of tricks

Ⅱ What are the idioms and stories of modesty?

Listen attentively, be neither arrogant nor impetuous, be modest and prudent, succeed in one's career,

Be courteous and virtuous, guard against arrogance and rashness, be self-aware, be neither proud nor cut down,

Don't boast, complacency will overturn. Looking at how many things in ancient and modern times, from humility to luxury. -

dissatisfaction is an upward wheel. -

if you humble yourself, you will be attached to many people; Arrogant and slow

, more people go. -

those who rely on the size of the country, cherish the masses of the people and want to see the enemy are called arrogant soldiers. -

if debauchery fails, it will be disastrous if you are full of money. -

the foundation of virtue is for those who are vain. -

what does it matter if you are full of profits? Be careful! Be careful! -

A serious illness in life is just a word "pride". -

only if you are not arrogant can you learn from others and learn from yourself. -

The stupidest thing in life is that bad news has passed, and the worst thing in life is that you are good at talking about others. -Shen ju yun

full is easy to be a disaster, and modest is always a blessing. -

complacency is a terrible trap for us; Besides, this trap was dug by ourselves. -

It is normal for a mediocre and belligerent person to go out with his head held high and go home with his tail between his legs. -

Let's not put our eyes on the top of our heads, so that we may damage what we want from the sky with our own feet. -

Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. We should always remember this truth. -

we can't just make achievements, just like a ball, which others can't shoot. We just jump with a tap. The greater the achievement, the more modest and prudent you should be. -

I have some doubts about the word "pride". Anyone who is a little motivated and capable always believes in himself and is a man of his own mind. The more assertive people are, the more confident they are. This is not bad. It's a little proud. If he is put in a proper position, he will be modest, otherwise he will not get along. -

A proud person always destroys himself in pride. -

People who attribute their luck to their cleverness and ingenuity are likely to have an unfortunate ending. -

Modesty is an indispensable virtue. -

the bud of a virtue,

, which is the most precious virtue and the mother of all morals, and this is humility; With this virtue, we will have endless fun. -

Caution is much more powerful than boldness. -Hugo

Don't

be extravagant. It is better to say it incompletely than to say it too much. -

The first condition of success is to be truly open-minded, and you are willing to give up everything about yourself

as long as you see that it conflicts with the truth. -

Humility can make a soldier more beautiful. -

Lovsky

Pride is the most difficult thing to overcome in the feelings of the people. You can

it, fight it, defeat it, pounce on it, be ashamed and humiliated, and it will stick its head out and show itself. -

When we are greatly humbled, it is when we are recently

older. -

conceit is a kind of destruction to any art. Pride is a terrible misfortune. -

True modesty can only be the product of deep thinking about vanity. -

If you refuse to remonstrate, the hero will be scattered, and if you don't follow the advice, you will

rebel. -

Only those who are not proud are proud of themselves, and don't bully others by being spoiled. -

avoid exuberance of qi, and avoid dew only when the novelty is full. -

If you think of high risks, you will be modest and rush to graze yourself; If you are full of fear, you will think of rivers and seas. -

to say that one's own strength is short, and that one's self-confidence is short is long. -Shen Juying

Modesty is not the so-called modesty in general, but only accepting people's opinions on the surface, nor blurring the line between right and wrong and truth without arguing and criticizing with people. Instead, we must maintain our own political stance and not blindly follow others' opinions when we have not yet understood them. -

every minute is a kind of complacency, and in this minute, it stops the life it absorbs and the life it excretes. Only by accepting criticism can we excrete everything in the spirit < P >. Only by absorbing the opinions of others can we add new spiritual nourishment. -

The true modesty is that you have no

thoughts, are not bound by anything, take a realistic attitude towards everything, analyze the situation in detail, and consider the opinions reflected by any side, and don't be deaf. -

In order to completely prevent and overcome different degrees of

elements in our thinking, we only have to ask ourselves to be truly open-minded when we encounter anything. -

The enemy of learning is your own satisfaction. To learn something seriously, you must never be complacent. We should adopt this attitude towards ourselves, "

" and others, "

". -

my motto is: people should not be arrogant, but they must be indispensable

. -

study hard, but you don't know enough, and modesty comes from lack of knowledge. False modesty can only win vulgar applause, but can't make real progress. -

all I have to do is to reach out and reap the crops that others have sown for me. -

Modest students cherish the truth and don't care about praising themselves personally: the first thing that unpretentious students think of is to show off the praise they get personally and to the truth

. It is stated in the history of thought that modesty is almost always related to students' talents, while immodesty is inversely proportional. -

Never think you know everything at any time. ——

； Every inch has its strengths. Things are insufficient; Wisdom is not clear. -

always worry about the lack, and hold on to every worry. -Jian Wendi

those who have died are lacking, and those who have died are prone to pollution. The song "Yangchun", those who are in harmony will be widowed, < P >. -

pride should not be long, desire should not be longitudinal, joy should be extremely high, and ambition should not be full. -

only when the merits are incomplete and the strengths are not responsible can there be shortcomings. -

short cannot be protected,

short at last; If it is long, it is not long. -

ah! Praise, from your own mouth, how boring it is! -

none of our habits is as difficult as overcoming pride. Although trying to hide it, overcome it and destroy it, in any case, it is still revealed unconsciously. -

people are not modest;

people who are capable must be modest. ——

，

。 -su Shi

when I recounted many wonderful creations invented by human beings in art and literature, and then reviewed my knowledge, I felt that I was simply

extremely. -

Only when everyone here has stopped talking can we humbly ask questions and learn from others when we have the opportunity. -

if you are not modest, you can only have this excuse, that is, lack of modesty means lack of knowledge. -

Everything that is true and great is simple and humble. -

It's totally out of my character not to make progress with some small achievements. Climbing up a ladder is certainly good, as long as there is strength, it means that we must continue to take a step forward. -

Most

are

for the superlative adjectives and exaggerations, and

are generally modest and prudent. -

What constitutes the biggest obstacle to our study is what is known, not what is unknown. -

laziness in thinking, unwillingness to delve into and deeply understand, complacency or contentment with insignificant knowledge are all reasons for poor intelligence. This kind of poverty is usually called by one word, which is "stupidity". -

the more incompetent, the more

. -

great people will never abuse their advantages. They see that they are superior to others and realize it, but they will never be modest because of it. The more they excel, the more they realize their shortcomings. -

Most of our pride is based on our ignorance! -

despicable and arrogant motives will only satisfy the greed of fools,

, human invaders and

. People should give up this motive and stop intoxicating those

with these tempting drinks! -

If a person counts what he has learned from others as his own discovery, it is also very close to vanity. -

Fool

, his

is just the shortcoming of being laughed at

, and he often exaggerates what should be

. -

Never think you know everything at any time. No matter how highly people think of you, you should always have the courage to say to yourself: I am a person who knows nothing. -

never get stuck in pride. Because once you are proud, you will be stubborn when you should agree; Because once you are proud, you will refuse other people's advice and friendship. Because once you are proud, you will lose your objective standards. -

No matter how great our achievements are, we should still be aware of the enemy's strength and be vigilant, and never allow ourselves to be conceited, complacent and negligent in our own ranks. -

The greatest pride and the greatest inferiority all indicate the weakest of the mind. -

the spirit of ambitious people should not be

. -

arrogant and flattering, is a person. He who wins us is flattering, and he who doesn't know us is arrogant. -Shen Juyi

modest and solid

, those who are too modest should guard against fraud. -Zhu Xi

Proud people like to see people who are attached to him or

him, but hate to see noble people. ..... and as a result, these people fooled him, catered to his weak heart, and turned him from a fool into a madman. -

A proud person is bound to be jealous, and he is most jealous of the person who is most praised. -

it is inferiority to think too low of yourself because of pain. -Spinoza

Although inferiority is opposed to pride, it is actually the closest to pride. -Spinoza

Obviously, pride and humility are just the opposite, but they have the same object. This object is the self. -

I first ask you to trust science, reason, yourself and yourself. -

it's not good to be humble to others, and it's not good to be humble to others. -

Everyone should have self-esteem, self-confidence and independence, otherwise it is

. But self-esteem is not belittling people, self-confidence is not complacency, and independence is not an arc. -Xu Teli

No matter when others are around or when you are alone, don't do anything despicable: the most important thing is self-esteem. -

There are two kinds of bad manners: the first is

shyness; The second is behavior

and

; To avoid these two situations, we must abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself or others. -

the most blind obedience is the only virtue left by slaves. -

Ⅳ The story that modesty makes people progress and pride makes people lag behind

The famous Chinese politician * * once said, "Modesty makes people progress and pride makes people lag behind." Modesty is self-knowledge, which is a manifestation of self-cultivation. Only by being modest can a person be respected by others. According to legend, Bai Juyi, a famous Chinese poet, always reads a poem to a shepherd boy or an old woman first, and then revises it repeatedly until they clap their hands and say it is good. A famous poet like Bai Juyi doesn't despise shepherd boys and village women because of their ignorance. Because he knows that real literary works must be recognized by the people, he humbly asks for advice from the people, which makes his poems easy to understand, widely circulated among the people and praised by future generations. Relatively speaking, pride not only makes people lag behind, but also leads to bad consequences. For example, the story of national subjugation: In the Five Dynasties, Li Keyong, the king of Jin, died with a grudge against Liang, Yan and Qidan. On his deathbed, Li Keyong left his son Li Cunxu three arrows and told him to take revenge. Li Cunxu did not forget his father's legacy. When he went to war, he put three arrows in his kit, and after his triumph, he sacrificed them in the ancestral temple, so as to motivate himself to work hard. Under this powerful impetus, Li Cunxu attacked the city, destroyed the Yan and broken the beam, and defeated the Khitan, invincible. "The exuberance of the spirit can be described as strong!" However, when the world was decided and it was done, Li Cunxu became complacent, indulged in debauchery and spent all day with beautiful women. As a result, the country's fortunes declined day by day, and after three to five years, the disaster suddenly broke out, and he was shot dead by random arrows. This story fully shows that people should not be proud. Once they are proud, if they are not cleaned up, disasters will suddenly occur, which is not good for themselves. To sum up, "modest benefits, full of losses." Modesty makes people achieve success and win praise from others, while pride makes people not enterprising and leads to bad consequences. This fully shows that modesty is the first step to success. But modesty does not mean humility, nor does it mean hypocrisy. Modesty is a virtue in the face of honor. "Modesty" in order to win the reputation of modesty is hypocrisy; Being humble in order to please others is humility. We don't need humble modesty, we don't need hypocritical modesty, we just need real modesty. "Full of losses, modest benefits." Let's cultivate the virtue of modesty and be a noble person!

Fang Zhongyong, a commoner in Jinxi, has been farming for generations. When Zhong Yong was five years old, he never saw writing tools, and suddenly cried for these things. His father was surprised at this and borrowed them from his neighbors. He immediately wrote four poems and wrote his own name. This poem was sent to the scholars in the whole town as the content of supporting his parents and uniting with people of the same clan. From then on, someone appointed him to write poems, and he could finish them immediately. The literary talent and truth of poetry are worthy of appreciation. People in the same county were surprised by him, and gradually invited his father to visit him. Some people asked Zhong Yong to write poems with money and gifts. His father thought it was profitable, and he took Fang Zhongyong around to visit people in the same county every day and refused to let him study.

I have heard about this for a long time. During the Ming Dow years, I followed my father back to my hometown and met Fang at my uncle's house.