The reason why Big S’s divorce suspicion continues is because Little S came out to “support” her sister again: “Actually, my sister has done a lot of good deeds, she is a good person!”

This pair of sisters have been in the entertainment industry for nearly 30 years. Although they frequently fall into mid-life crises caused by "marriage and career", it is really rare for them to be able to increase their presence because of the topic of "divorce". .

What has always been puzzling is that although the two sisters are deeply in love, their personalities are completely opposite.

Compared with the calmness and decisiveness of her older sister, Big S, Little S's marriage was a mess. It was once plagued by rumors of domestic violence, cuckoldry, and financial entanglements.

Unlike her biological mother who left her husband’s family domineeringly after giving birth to three daughters and was rejected, Xiao S still chose to tolerate it despite all the pressure from her husband’s family with her three daughters.

She lives like this in the world's discussions, and needs to come out from time to time to maintain face for her husband and work hard to refute rumors and regain respect.

Therefore, compared to Big S and Wang Xiaofei quarreling over the issue of cross-strait separation, Little S's other half is the one who touches all the bottom-line issues that cannot be touched in marriage - in regular operations Here, shouldn't she get new freedom as soon as possible?

On June 1, Xiao S talked freely about her views on marriage on the "My Mother's Mother" program. She said: "I would rather enjoy the freedom of being single, and it doesn't matter if I am lonely occasionally. Getting married indiscriminately is a terrible thing. ”

It also hit the current pain points of older women, saying bluntly, “You must not be brainwashed by your elders urging you to get married.” As soon as this statement came out, she immediately gained a favorable impression.

However, some netizens believe that this is "she has deep understanding and empathy", and some people think that she may have been divorced, but it has not been announced.

As we all know, in 2005 when her career was booming, she had a "flash marriage" with her husband Xu Yajun. Before accepting this relationship, she was deeply involved in Huang Zijiao's "transfer relationship" incident and cried bitterly. .

In order to heal their wounds, she and Xu Yajun quickly got together. In the first few years of their marriage, the two really sprinkled a lot of dog food, and they seemed to be extremely compatible and very sweet.

But in 2007, when Little S was expecting her second child at home, Xu Yajun was revealed to have appeared at a bikini party and danced with more than 30 hot girls. Little S’s explanation was outrageous: “I was particularly afraid of the smell of cigarettes in the early stages of pregnancy. That’s why I asked my husband to socialize with his friends.”

Later, he was photographed holding hands with a hot girl in a nightclub. In response, Xiao S responded quickly again. Her husband just helped the girl in a gentlemanly manner.

Half a year later, Xu Yajun appeared in the nightclub again, this time chatting intimately with a hot girl.

Little S expressed his support: "Young people, including myself, like to go to nightclubs, where the music is loud and talking close to the ear is normal."

In addition to the constant stream of gossip In addition to the news, Xu Yajun is also involved in rumors of "domestic violence".

During one of Xiao S’s live broadcasts, her husband Xu Yajun’s voice suddenly came: “Can you stop for a while, it’s disgusting!”

She had to defend herself with “He was joking” Husband and own face.

Later, her daughter Xu Qianniu once asked Little S directly and distressedly during her live broadcast: "Does the place where daddy hit you still hurt?"

< p> Little S even appeared on "The Coming of Kangxi" with an eye injury. Many years later, she "forced a smile" on the show and said that she accidentally hit the corner of her eye while riding a bicycle. She also joked: "My husband is number one." My reaction was to take a photo because I was afraid that everyone would tell me that he was domestically abusing me."

Faced with similar "evidence", Xiao S never admitted it and always defended her husband through gritted teeth. In 2012, he left a "famous quote": "There is domestic violence, and my husband hugs me every day."

In that year, Taiwanese media once again photographed Xu Yajun and a hot girl in a hotel.

Wu Qilong was a guest on Xiao S's show when he was newly married for four months. The other party asked her, "Have you ever been beaten?" Xiao S said in a show-off: "Only twice."

Later, she denied it and said it was just the effect of the show.

In addition to domestic violence, the "Fat Daren" bakery invested by Xu Yajun was reported to use artificial flavors in 2013. As the spokesperson, Xiao S had to bow to the public and apologize. In the end, her sister Big S even hesitated to She revealed that she was one month pregnant to divert media attention.

Regarding this "worrying" marital situation, Xiao S's best friend Aya once said bluntly when asked the question "Is she happy in her marriage?" "She is really not happy." . ”

What is her husband Xu Yajun’s attitude towards the comments made by netizens and friends?

He said: "Because of your relationship, why are such good people in our family reported like this by the media."

In fact, Xiao S's early personality was just right Contrary to the "coward who makes compromises", she has always been quick-tongued in "Kangxi Is Coming" and is also known for her "sharpness". Her most famous nickname is "The Master of Bitch Appraisal".

However, close friends around her know that she is just a "soft-footed shrimp". Wang Weizhong once bluntly said that Xiao S is actually just a "crybaby" who hides behind his sister Big S when something happens. .

Yes, Little S’s personality is completely opposite to Big S’s. He seems to be strong, but in fact he is very “cowardly”, which has a lot to do with his family of origin.

Big S and little S were born in a family that favors sons over daughters. Little S has two older sisters. She was "disliked" before she was born. Even her mother, who regarded her as a treasure, once She once shed tears because she was still a girl.

After she was born, she was named Xu Xidi by her grandfather, and her nickname was Tingting: the word "brother" has an obvious meaning, and the word "nuting" shows Pan'er's eagerness.

In the end, the mother decided not to have children, and what she got in return was her father's alcoholism and domestic violence. In this environment, little S was born weak, but big S grew up to be a "female King Kong". look.

"Every time his father made trouble, Little S would hide in the room." Years later, Big S recalled his father's domestic violence and commented on Little S this way.

Being able to debut as an artist was actually fueled by S. At that time, she was studying at Huagang Art School with her sister. She was ignorant all day long, so S attracted her into the entertainment industry.

Together they formed "ASOS" and made their official debut, and then entered the variety show "Guess I Guess I Guess Guess" to serve as Wu Zongxian's foil.

During this period, Xiao S met Huang Zijiao, who was at the peak of his career at that time, and fell in love instantly because the other person put a coat on her when they were co-hosting. Under the "guidance" of Big S, Xiao S S put a "thank you" note in the pocket of the returned suit.

After going back and forth, the two began to fall in love, and when they were photographed, Xiao S happily admitted it, and he also generously admitted that he took the initiative to pursue her.

Starting in 1998, Xiao S and her sister used their nonsensical hosting style to create a unique style in "Entertainment 100%", and became the first dual host of an entertainment news program.

Unlike Big S, who became famous after filming "Meteor Garden" and then started to pursue an acting career, Little S has been deeply involved in the hosting industry.

But at the same time, her love affair with Huang Zijiao lasted for 5 years, and finally ended without any problem due to Zeng Baoyi's intervention.

At the moment of breaking up, little S, who had been short of love since childhood, did not even dare to ask. Years later, she recalled this in a book:

Regarding this relationship, she initially thought that "things were fine. It's so difficult, but as long as I bow my head first, we should still be able to reconcile.";

Later, he cried bitterly on the show and said: "Although we are separated, I still wish you well and hope that we can still be good friends."

But as a sister, Da S has repeatedly denounced Huang Zijiao and Zeng Baoyi's betrayal in front of the media, and said that she will never forgive them.

In 2004, Xiao S partnered with Cai Kangyong to host the celebrity interview program "Kangxi Is Coming", which became a hit with his sharp and hot style.

During the same period, she met Xu Yajun.

In 2005, Xiao S won the Golden Bell Award for Best Host for "Kangxi Is Coming". Her net worth and popularity soared for a while. It is said that the number of endorsements was once close to that of "Taiwan's most beautiful woman" "Lin Chiling.

When the spring breeze was triumphant, she suddenly announced her marriage.

On September 9, 2005, she wore a white wedding dress, hugged Xu Yajun and shouted excitedly: "Oh my God! I, Xu Xidi, also have this day." Then she entered the marriage excitedly.

It is reported that the two met under the introduction of a friend. Xiao S, who had just lost his love, was quickly attracted to the handsome Xu Yajun. Soon after they got together, they became pregnant, and then they got married hastily.

After entering the marriage, Xiao S began to have children non-stop, giving birth to three daughters in 2006, 2007 and 2012. It was also said that she once tried her best to have four children, but was later rejected. Proved to be false.

Little S’s Xu Yajun is engaged in financial stock operations. His father is a doctor and his mother is a lawyer.

Logically speaking, he is not a rich man, but it is said that Xu’s father is very good at stock trading. It is said that he is the Taiwanese version of "Warren Buffett".

However, after marrying Xiao S, Xu Yajun, as the husband of a celebrity, has become quite controversial. In addition to being suspected of fraud when investing in a bakery, he was also suspected of forging his father’s medical records, insider trading in the stock market, etc. However, it is rumored that The most common cases are marital infidelity and domestic violence against wives.

Even in 2016, Xiao S was still fighting the media for Xu Yajun's "innocence", and was called "the first person to professionally wipe her husband's butt".

In addition, there is another reason why Xiao S's marriage is unhappy: she wants a son - this seems inconsistent with her mother's experience and education views, but she has indeed been on various occasions, They all expressed their desire for a son strongly.

When interviewing Michelle Chen who had just been promoted to a mother, when talking about her identity as a mother, the other party said that it would be even more difficult for S to have three children. She responded directly and sensitively: "You must have other purposes. , do you want to compete with me? You gave birth to a son for the first time."

Although she can now "confidently" tell the media that she no longer wants to have four children, but from her perspective. From the daughters’ reactions, we can see that “not having a son” seems to have become the original sin of the family or the mother.

Once, when my daughter made a birthday wish, she directly stated her birthday wish: "I think the three of us will never, never, never get married..."

39th birthday That night, Xiao S started a live broadcast. She burst into tears, spoke garbled words, and even used swear words. Faced with her like this, some fans commented: "I know you are suffering in your heart, but you are pretending to be strong."

Finally, after 16 long years of "happy" marriage, Xiao S publicly revealed " "Preaching": "Incestuous marriage is a terrible thing", which seems to be an imperfect explanation for his "persistence" over the years.

I don’t know whether Xiao S is what netizens call “the world’s sober”, or whether it is a sign that her marriage with Xu Yajun no longer needs to be persisted - for everything, let’s wait and see.