『一』100 words of family motto stories from famous people
1. Sima Guang taught his children well
Sima Guang, whose courtesy name is Junshi and whose nickname is Yuansou, Called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty politician, historian, official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang was a powerful official, he was strict in educating his children and paid great attention to cultivating their children's sense of self-discipline and self-reliance. He wrote "Xun Jian Shi Kang" which has been passed down to this day. He summarized the lessons of many sons of high-ranking officials and dignitaries in history who became decadent and declined because they were unable to become self-reliant under the protection of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Everyone with virtue comes from frugality." ''Frugality builds a reputation, luxury leads to self-destruction.
Due to his good parenting skills, Sima Guang’s sons were all courteous and courteous, did not rely on their father’s power or family wealth, and were successful in life. So that people in the world who have a way out can see Rong Zhi, and even if they don't know him, they all know the Sima family.
2. Ji Hongchang never forgets his father's instructions
Ji Hongchang, courtesy name Shiwu, was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Forces. In his early years, he served as a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army, and was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery and proficiency in combat. Later, he served as commander of the Kuomintang army and chairman of the Ningxia Provincial Communist Party.
In 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was the battalion commander. His father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang who came to visit: "When you are an official, you must be honest and upright, and think more about the poor in the world. You are not allowed to get rich when you are an official." Otherwise, I will not be able to sleep peacefully under the Nine Springs. Ji Hongchang agreed with tears in his eyes.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "You are not allowed to get rich as an official" on porcelain bowls, and asked the ceramics factory to imitate the porcelain bowls in batches and distribute them to all officers and soldiers. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said: "Although I, Ji Hongchang, am an officer, I will never bully the people or plunder people's wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teachings. I am not an official for the purpose of getting rich. I do good things for the poor in the world. Please supervise me, brothers." '
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent. He was honest and upright throughout his life and served the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were plunged into dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up to resist Japan. He was killed by the Kuomintang reactionaries and was only 39 years old when he died.
『二』A short story about family tradition, 300 words
Good family tradition is the first step for us to create a better world, and it affects the direction of a person's life.
From the three migrations of Meng’s mother to the tattooing of mother-in-law, good family mottos, family rules, and family traditions not only carry the hopes and encouragement of generations for their descendants, but also embody the excellent national character of the Chinese nation. Wind!
My parents are both out-and-out farmers. Although they do not have explicit family traditions and family mottos, they teach by words and deeds in every aspect of daily life, forming an invisible moral force that serves as my unique foundation. Navigate the world and guide the way.
When I was a child, my family was very poor. In that era when food and clothing could not be solved, the family had too much joy and happiness.
My father was a simple and hard-working man who loved reading and would tell us stories in his spare time.
My mother is loyal, kind, diligent and thrifty. She likes to sing and occasionally sings to us.
At that time, songs and laughter often floated out from the dilapidated yard of our house, making the difficult years extremely cheerful.
Whenever we encounter difficulties, my mother will say: "Persistence is victory!"; my father will always show masculinity: "Self-reliance and hard work." Under the education of our parents, we brothers and sisters There are five people, three college students. For a peasant family, one can imagine the financial difficulties they have experienced.
Looking back now, in those years, all the difficulties and embarrassments have not left a trace. Faced with the difficulties in front of us, only the positive and sunny smiles of the family and the beautiful picture of unity and forge ahead are left.
< p> 『三』 A short story about the family rules of famous people
1. Sima Guang taught his children well
Sima Guang, also known as Junshi, also known as Yuansou. Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty politician, historian, official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang was a powerful official, he was strict in educating his children and paid great attention to cultivating their children's sense of self-discipline and self-reliance. He wrote "Xun Jian Shi Kang" which has been passed down to this day. He summarized the lessons of many sons of high-ranking officials and dignitaries in history who became decadent and declined because they were unable to become self-reliant under the protection of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Everyone with virtue comes from frugality." ''Frugality builds a reputation, luxury leads to self-destruction.
Due to his good parenting skills, Sima Guang’s sons were all courteous and courteous, did not rely on their father’s power or family wealth, and achieved success in life. So that people in the world who have a way out can see Rong Zhi, and even if they don't know him, they all know the Sima family.
2. Ji Hongchang never forgets his father's instructions
Ji Hongchang, courtesy name Shiwu, was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Forces. In his early years, he served as a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery and proficiency in fighting. Later, he served as commander of the Kuomintang army and chairman of the Ningxia Provincial Communist Party.
In 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was the battalion commander. His father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang who came to visit: "When you are an official, you must be honest and upright, and think more about the poor in the world. You are not allowed to get rich when you are an official." Otherwise, I will not be able to sleep peacefully under the Nine Springs. Ji Hongchang agreed with tears in his eyes.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "You are not allowed to get rich as an official" on porcelain bowls, and asked the ceramics factory to imitate the porcelain bowls in batches and distribute them to all officers and soldiers.
At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said: "Although I, Ji Hongchang, am an officer, I will never bully the people or plunder people's wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teachings. I am not an official for the purpose of getting rich. I do good things for the poor in the world. Please supervise me, brothers." '
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent. He was honest and upright throughout his life and served the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were plunged into dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up to resist Japan. He was killed by the Kuomintang reactionaries and was only 39 years old when he died.
3. The president teaches his son to be independent
Reagan, who once served as the president of the United States, is not only famous but also wealthy. But he strictly requires his children to be independent and never let them depend on their parents. After his son lost his job, he looked for work and lived on welfare benefits.
4. Lu Xun taught his children to let nature take its course
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun for advice on whether to keep the baby as an adult or as a baby, he decisively answered: "Keep the baby as an adult." As a result, mother and child were safe.
When his son was growing up, Lu Xun basically followed the ideas of "How We Be Fathers Now", allowing him to be "completely liberated". He also said: "What I believe in now is just "Love." According to "Lu Xun and Me Seventy Years" written by Zhou Haiying, Lu Xun's education method is to "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even be unwilling to go against his love, unless it is extremely intolerable and unacceptable. Within a certain reasonable level”. One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school, so Lu Xun beat him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote a letter to his mother explaining: "When you hit me, although the sound is loud, it doesn't hurt."
『四』 A short story about famous family rules and mottos
Zeng Guofan is coming Of the three sons and five daughters, the youngest daughter Zeng Jifen lived the longest, living to the age of 91. In 1875, Zeng Jifen married into the Nie family in Hunan. Zeng Guofan stipulated that when each daughter gets married, the dowry should not exceed 200 taels of silver. At the same time, the dowry should also include a homework sheet written by her father. Zeng Guofan wanted to train his daughter to be a diligent and thrifty housewife. In fact, her daughter did better than her father expected.
Qian Jibo was extremely strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen years old, he even beat him severely. From the autumn of 1926 to the summer of the following year, Qian Jibo went north to teach at Tsinghua University and did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation. At this time, Qian Zhongshu was in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. When his father came back to ask him about his homework, Qian Zhongshu couldn't pass the test, so he was beaten.
In life, Feng Zikai calls going out to do things "boring", but he is full of joy when he is with the children. He holds the children, feeds them, sings little songs to make them laugh, and draws pictures to make them laugh. Especially close to children. Once, the eldest son Zhanzhan asked Feng Zikai to take him to the station to buy bananas, and "came back with a full hand." When he got home, he was asleep on his father's shoulder, and the bananas in his hands had long since disappeared. Feng Zikai lamented in his article "To My Children": "What an admirable sincerity, spontaneity and enthusiasm! The so-called 'silence', 'implicit' and 'profound' virtues in the adult world are nothing compared to yours." Come on, it’s all unnatural, sick, and fake!”
“Wu” The family motto stories of famous people in the past
Zeng Guofan has Zeng Guofan’s family letters
『 Lu』 Stories about family rules and mottos of famous people
1. Hu Shi advocated "independence, gregariousness, and emphasis on learning"
In family education, although Hu Shi advocated "independence, gregariousness, and emphasis on learning", But I also suspect that I don’t know how to love my children. In 1929, Hu Shi wrote a letter to Hu Zuwang, hoping to train him to live an independent, gregarious, and hard-working life. He said: "What does it mean if you pass the homework? In class, you have to catch up with the top row in the class, and in school you have to catch up. Go to the highest ranking in the school, get the best grades in homework, be the best in character, and be the best person in life. This is a child with ambition.
2. Ji Hongchang never forgets his father. Ji Hongchang, courtesy name Shiwu, was one of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Forces in 1920. Ji Hongchang was the battalion commander at the time and his father was Ji Junting. He was seriously ill. He told Ji Hongchang who came to visit him: "When you are an official, you must be honest and upright, and think more about the poor in the world. You are not allowed to get rich when you are an official." Otherwise, I will not be able to sleep peacefully under the Nine Springs. "Ji Hongchang agreed with tears.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the six words "You are not allowed to get rich as an official" on the porcelain bowls, and asked the ceramics factory to imitate them and bake them in batches. Distributed to all officers and soldiers. At the porcelain bowl distribution meeting, he said: "Although I am an officer, I will never bully the people or plunder people's wealth. I must remember my father's teachings. I am not an official for getting rich, but for doing good things for the poor in the world. Brothers, please supervise. "
3. Confucius' family motto: Poetry and etiquette passed down to the family
Confucius' education for his sons starts with being a human being. It does not require his children to recite how many words or how many words to do correctly. Instead, we start from "Poetry" and "Li". Why should we study "Poetry"? Poetry comes from the heart and can express people's most true and sincere feelings. Beautiful words can speak better. Why should we study "Poetry"? Learning etiquette is to educate children to be moral, polite, not to fight, not to grab, and to live in harmony with others, so that they can behave better.
4. Lao She’s family motto: Diligence is the foundation of life
Lao She’s way of educating children is still an example for people to follow.
Mr. Lao She once said in a letter to his wife: "I think it is enough for them to be able to roughly read a few words, know addition and subtraction, and know a little history. As long as they are strong, they can learn a trade in the future. , you can make a living without having to go to college. If I see my daughter can dance and speak, and has the hope of becoming a star, and my boy is as strong as an ox, eats hard, and suffers from fatigue, I will be very happy! I hope my children can earn a living with their own blood and sweat."
This is what Mr. Lao She said and what he did. Once, Mr. Lao She's daughter was unhappy because she only scored 60 points in the math test. Lao She comforted her daughter and said, "60 points is still very high! You are better than dad. When I was a child, I failed in math!" Asked Mr. Lao She what he would do if he couldn't get into college, Mr. Lao She replied: "If you can't get into college, you just stay at home and I teach you English."
5. Li Shimin's family motto: One meal for each meal When eating, remember the farmer
Li Shimin, the second emperor of the Tang Dynasty, set a family motto, that is, "for every meal, remember the farmer". In other words, every time you eat a meal, remember the farmer. The hard work of farmers cannot be forgotten. As a generation of emperors, Li Shimin never was extravagant or wasteful, he was humble to others, and he listened to advice and recruited talents. He became a generation of wise kings and achieved the famous "Government of Zhenguan" in history.
< p> 『撒』 The story of famous people who pay attention to family training and manage their families wellThe sages or historical celebrities manage their families - Zengzi
One day, Zengzi’s wife was going to the market, and the child He was crying and wanted to go with his mother, so his mother lied to him and said, "Good boy, stay at home and wait for your mother. She will kill pigs for you when she comes back from the market." The child believed it and ran home happily, shouting: "There is meat to eat, there is meat to eat." "The child stayed at home all day waiting for his mother to come back. When friends from the village came to play with him, he refused. He leaned against the wall and basked in the sun while imagining the taste of pork, and he couldn't be happier. In the evening, the child saw his mother coming back from a distance. He ran forward to greet her in three steps and two steps, while shouting: "Mom, mom, kill the pig quickly, kill the lard quickly, I am almost starving to death." Zengzi's wife said: "One pig can support our family for two or three months. How can we kill pigs casually?" "The child burst into tears. Zengzi heard the sound and came. After knowing the truth of the matter, he didn't say anything. He turned around and went back to the house. After a while, he came out with a kitchen knife. Zengzi's wife was frightened. Because Zengzi was always very strict with his children, he thought he was going to teach him a lesson, so he quickly held the child in his arms. Unexpectedly, Zengzi ran straight to the pigsty. His wife asked in confusion: "What are you doing in the pigsty with a kitchen knife?" ? Zeng Zi replied without hesitation: "Kill the pig." The wife burst into laughter after hearing this: "Why should we kill the pig if it is not the New Year or the festival?" Zengzi said seriously: "Didn't you promise the boy that you would kill a pig for him to eat? Since you promised, you should do it." The wife said: "I am just lying to the children. Why should I take it seriously when talking to children?" Zengzi said: "It is even more important to keep what you say to your children. Otherwise, wouldn't it be obvious that the children would learn to lie from their parents?" If adults don’t keep their word, what qualifications do they have to educate children in the future? ”
The sage or historical celebrity governed the family - Cao Cao
In 196 AD, Cao Cao moved Emperor Xian of the Han Dynasty from the capital Luoyang to Xu (now Xuchang, Henan), and appointed Man Chong as Xu Ling . Cao Cao's cousin Cao Hong's subordinates broke the law many times in Man Chong's jurisdiction. Man Chong arrested him according to the law. Cao Hong wrote to Man Chong to intercede, but Man Chong ignored him and asked Cao Cao for help. Man Chong was forced to release him. Man Chong thought that the prisoner might be exonerated and killed him immediately. Instead of pursuing the case, Cao Cao praised Man Chong for not protecting his relatives.
A sage or historical figure who governed a family - Sima Guang
Sima Guang, a famous minister and well-known historian in the Northern Song Dynasty, believed that "frugality is the beauty" and "does not like extravagance" throughout his life. He also used his " Being careful in words and actions affects his children, and he always warns his children to understand the principle of "frugality will last a long time, a long time will lead to peace, and peace will lead to stability". In the article "Training Thrift and Integrity", Sima Guang quoted from other sources and followed the guidance well. Telling his sons about the principles of honesty and frugality, he proposed in the article that "it is easy to move from frugality to luxury, but difficult to move from luxury to frugality", which can be called a warning for governing a country and a family.
The sages or historical celebrities govern the family. ——Zhang Tingyu
The Qing Dynasty Prime Minister Zhang Tingyu and a minister named Ye were both from Tongcheng, Anhui Province. They both wanted to build houses, and they had a dispute over the land. He sent a letter to Beijing and asked Prime Minister Zhang to intervene. Unexpectedly, after reading the letter, the Prime Minister immediately wrote a poem to persuade the old lady: "It's just for the wall to carry the letter for thousands of miles, so why not give up three feet? The Great Wall is still there today, but it's not what it was back then." Qin Shihuang. Mrs. Zhang saw the book and immediately took the initiative to move the wall back three feet. Seeing this, the Ye family felt deeply ashamed and immediately moved the wall back three feet. In this way, there was a gap between the courtyard walls of the Zhang and Ye families. A six-foot-wide lane was formed and became the famous Six-foot Alley. This story shows that there is no problem that cannot be solved if neighbors are humble and understanding.
"8" About family tradition and family motto. What are the stories about
1. Sima Guang taught his children well
Sima Guang, also known as Junshi, also known as Mr. Sushui, was a politician and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty. From official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang was a powerful official, he was strict in educating his children and paid great attention to cultivating their children's sense of self-discipline and self-reliance. He wrote "Xun Jian Shi Kang" which has been passed down to this day.
He summarized the lessons of many sons of high-ranking officials and dignitaries in history who became decadent and declined because they were unable to be self-reliant under the protection of their ancestors. He warned his sons: "Those who are virtuous all come from frugality." "Frugality leads to success." Fame will lead to self-destruction."
Due to his good parenting skills, Sima Guang’s sons were all courteous and courteous, did not rely on their father’s power or family wealth, and were successful in life. As a result, people in the world have the feeling that "people on the road can see Rong Zhi, and even if they don't know him, they all know Sima's son."
2. Ji Hongchang never forgets his father's instructions
Ji Hongchang, courtesy name Shiwu, was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Allied Forces. In his early years, he served as a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army, and was promoted to battalion commander and division commander for his bravery and proficiency in combat. Later, he served as commander of the Kuomintang army and chairman of the Ningxia Provincial Communist Party.
In 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was the battalion commander. His father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang who came to visit: "When you are an official, you must be honest and upright, and think more about the poor in the world. As an official, you are not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I will not be able to sleep peacefully under the Nine Springs." Ji Hongchang agreed with tears.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "You are not allowed to get rich as an official" on porcelain bowls, and asked the ceramics factory to make batches of the porcelain bowls and distribute the porcelain bowls to all officers and soldiers. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said: "Although I, Ji Hongchang, am an officer, I will never bully the people or plunder people's wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teachings. I am not an official for the purpose of getting rich. I do good things for the poor in the world. Please supervise me, brothers." "
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent. He was honest and upright throughout his life and served the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were plunged into dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up to resist Japan. He was killed by the Kuomintang reactionaries and was only 39 years old when he died.
3. Lu Xun taught his children to let things take their own course
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun for advice on whether to keep the baby as an adult or as a baby, he decisively answered: "Keep the baby as an adult." As a result, mother and child were safe.
When his son was growing up, Lu Xun basically followed the ideas of "How We Be Fathers Now", allowing him to be "completely liberated". He also said: "What I believe in now is just "Love."
According to "Lu Xun and Me Seventy Years" written by Zhou Haiying, Lu Xun's education method was to "let nature take its course, trying not to give him too many blows, or even unwilling to go against his love unless To a certain extent that is extremely intolerable and extremely unreasonable.”
One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school, so Lu Xun beat him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained: "The sound of the beating is loud, but it is not painful."
4. Qian Jibo is extremely strict with his son
Qian Jibo is A master of Chinese studies, he was the father of scholar and writer Qian Zhongshu. Qian Jibo was extremely strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen years old, he even beat him severely. From the autumn of 1926 to the summer of the following year, Qian Jibo went north to teach at Tsinghua University and did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation.
At this time, Qian Zhongshu was in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. When his father came back to ask him about his homework, Qian Zhongshu couldn't pass the test, so he was beaten.
In 1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to the Foreign Languages ??Department of Tsinghua University, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. One letter said: "It is more important to be a benevolent gentleman than to be a scholar."
A subsequent letter said: "Nowadays, external theory of things says that your writing is worse than mine and your knowledge is better than mine. I am really happy, but I am particularly happy that you are said to be more honest and more diligent than me." I hope that Qian Zhongshu can be "indifferent and clear-minded, peaceful and far-reaching." I hope you can be Zhuge Gong and Tao Yuanming; I don't like you to be Hu Shizhi. , Xu Zhimo".
Qian Jibo kept a distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and devoted himself to Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way, but it was out of the cultural standpoint of a Confucian.
5. Liang Qichao loved his children in all aspects
Liang Qichao had nine children. Under his education and guidance, each of them became experts in a certain field, and even produced "a The story of "Men San Academician". The "three academicians" are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong, and rocket control system expert Liang Sili. In addition, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, and the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.
Liang Qichao's love for his children was all-round, not only in studying, but also in dealing with people, even financial management, current affairs and many other aspects, all with a peaceful and equal attitude. After reading "Liang Qichao's Family Letter", you will understand that Liang Qichao's performance in educating his children in the letter written to his children is exemplary.
When writing the letter, Liang Qichao made no secret of his love. In a letter in June 1927, he wrote: "You must know that your father is the most affectionate person and is very enthusiastic about your love. No matter how busy you are with your homework, you must always talk at least every few months. If you want to send a letter, just say a few words to say you are safe."
In terms of studying, Liang Qichao did not value diplomas at all, but emphasized laying a good foundation and mastering the "heat". He said to Liang Sizhuang: "What does it matter if you fail to enter university? 'Studying is not seeking a diploma.' The foundation of the wall must be built as thick as possible.
"And teach children how to learn and do knowledge - "Always use the two working cycles of 'stew over high heat' and 'stew over slow fire' alternately."
At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. In 1923, he wrote a letter to his eldest daughter, Liang Sishun, saying: "There is no big or small undertaking in the world. As long as you do it within your own responsibilities and do your best, you will be a first-class person." "Of course, while writing letters to teach his children, Liang Rengong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law.
"玖" A 300-word composition about excellent family mottos, rules and family traditions
There is a saying that goes like this: "Nothing can be accomplished without rules," which means that you must have rules, rules, and practices in everything you do, otherwise you will not be able to succeed or you will often make mistakes. The rules here are family tradition and family motto.
In our motherland, every family has a unique family tradition and family motto. Of course, our family is no exception. Our family also has family traditions and family mottos. After all, what is family tradition and motto? oh! Family tradition refers to the customs passed down from generation to generation in a family or family, and family motto refers to the words parents teach their children to run the family, study, and conduct themselves in the world. It is my family tradition to respect the old, love the young, and be friendly to neighbors. Respecting the old means respecting the elderly, and loving the young means caring for children younger than yourself. To be friendly to neighbors means to be friendly to your neighbors, to help each other and to get along well with each other. A good family tradition can help us avoid detours by cultivating the pillars of the country. Family tradition should start from every step in life and cultivate it slowly. It will become a habit. By then, the family tradition will be completely dissolved. in your life. Such bad family traditions will only make us stumble in life.
Honesty and trustworthiness, hard work and frugality are the family mottos of my family. Honesty and trustworthiness mean that you must do what you say, and hard work and thrift mean loving labor, saving money and not wasting. From Confucius’s family motto for his sons to Zhuge Liang’s family motto, almost every ancient family has a family motto. To be precise, without good family traditions and mottos, there would be no historical celebrities, and people would do things without rules.