Many, many years ago, a young cellist went to casals, the greatest cellist of this century, for advice: How can I become an excellent cellist?
Facing the ambitious young people, casals replied meaningfully: First, become an excellent and atmospheric person, then an excellent and atmospheric musician, and then an excellent cellist.
Casals's answer is very meaningful. How can I become an excellent talent? Personality charm is always the first.
Please write a composition on the topic of "shaping personality"
Requirements:
(1) self-determination; (2) Style selection; (3) the topic is self-drawn; (4) Not less than 800 words; (5) Do not copy.
"Personality" refers to the sum of a person's personality, temperament, ability and other characteristics, refers to the personal moral quality, and refers to a person's qualification as the subject of rights and obligations. In today's society, many people have lost their individuality in pursuit of fame and fortune. In the relationship between "virtue" and "talent", they have both, which highlights the status of "virtue". The strength of a great man is first and foremost the strength of personality.
We can express our feelings by holding things, such as chrysanthemum praising personality, which is indifferent by nature and does not compete with flowers in late autumn; Chrysanthemums bloom in cold weather, and the colder the weather, the colder the frost, and the bigger the bloom. When chrysanthemums are in full bloom, they are not like falling flowers in the wind, but holding fragrant branches and refusing to accept their fate.
We can also write about people directly and illustrate the greatness and charm of personality through a person's story.
You can also contact great people and compare what some people are doing now to discuss.
No. 1
In life, there will always be many inequalities or unfairness. But whether in good times or bad times, whether in the face of generals or soldiers, everyone is equal in personality. This is precisely the fairness of life.
In this sense, the world is not humble, but despicable; Not noble, but noble.
However, some people always try their best to create a sense of superiority and inferiority, while others are used to resignation.
As a result, there have been many tragedies of arrogance or inferiority in this world.
No one is hurt more than the soul; Nothing is more devastating than spiritual destruction; There is no greater insult than an insult to personality.
But personality can't be insulted if others want to.
Character is actually the evaluation and shaping of oneself.
In Hawthorne's famous novel The Scarlet Letter, although Hester Prynne was put on the red "A" as a symbol of shame for adultery, she was also put on the red "A" for doing good for others everywhere, but it became a symbol of virtue and personality in people's minds a few years later.
In Hester Prynne, the strength of personality is so tenacious. I wonder how those who always like to insult others' personality will feel when reading this?
Yes, not all hostility must be responded with hostility. Personality is golden. No evil or snobbery can make it disappear.
Of course, inferiority is not the degradation of personality, but self-esteem must be the improvement of personality.
Self-esteem does not exclude inferiority. A person with deep inferiority often contains or once contained deep self-esteem in his blood, but some people are good at turning this inferiority into the motivation of self-esteem.
Inferiority is always compared with others in your heart. The more you compare yourself, the less you feel. The more you lose yourself. Self-esteem is not. Self-esteem does not require you to be superior to others. Self-esteem only wants you to do better than you think you can. Self-esteem is a great lever in a person's soul.
"Poor, poor as tea, with a faint fragrance in bitterness." This is self-esteem. "Be proud, as proud as an orchid, with autumn frost on your face." This is self-esteem.
Self-esteem is different from vanity. Self-esteem means being responsible for yourself and pursuing practicality. Vanity is to make up for oneself and pursue glitz.
Self-esteem and loftiness are key. If a person has no sense of nobility, it may be difficult for him to maintain his self-esteem all the time. But if a person is too lofty to look down on life, then he will either go to nothingness or become as hypocritical as a "false saint".
Therefore, people should not be arrogant, but not arrogant.
Self-esteem is in the bones, but it is not in the bones. You can't pretend it.
It is charm to gain others' respect with self-esteem; It is understandable to gain others' respect by respecting others, but it is foolish to beg others' respect.
Respect others and respect yourself, learn to respect others, what is needed is understanding and tolerance; Learn to respect yourself, and sometimes endure loneliness and poverty.
So "people are as pure as chrysanthemums."
Therefore, "people must love themselves first, and others will love themselves. People must help themselves first, and others will help themselves."
If self-esteem is the root, then self-esteem and self-love are its heavy fruits; If self-esteem, self-blame and self-love are the cornerstones of personality, then self-reliance and self-reliance are the steps for the upward development of personality.
The society is constantly improving, but no matter how warm and friendly people are, how considerate and considerate they are, the support point of the soul always lies in themselves.
A person who is always tired of things, fame and loss of self-esteem either distorts his personality or betrays the whole personality.
Sadly, some people clearly understand this, but they can't help the colorful temptation.
From this, I can't help but think of a famous saying by Mr. Tao Xingzhi: "Learn to be a man."
Personality is always displayed at critical moments, but it is formed in ordinary daily life.
A person can be ordinary, but not mediocre; You can be a mortal, but you should learn from great men in your thinking.
There is a simple reason. Just like "the higher the pole, the higher the jump", a person only needs to have the courage and confidence to raise the horizontal bar in front of him by one section every morning, then your personality promotion is inevitable.
Comments: In poetic language, this paper discusses the universality of personality, the significance of personality, and the relationship between personality and self-esteem, self-love, autonomy, inferiority, self-blame, self-improvement and self-reliance. It advocates upgrading personality and "learning to be a man", which is concise, profound and intriguing.
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/kloc-Feifei, 0/2 years old, asked her mother: Why do you walk around the house as if you are always afraid of stepping on mines? Her mother said with a smile, there is a family living downstairs, too?
Although Feifei understands the meaning of * * *, she still feels that she should live a relaxed life in her own home.
Mom is very serious. She went on to say that the floor of our house is grandpa's ceiling, and his grandparents can't stand the sound of walking. Feifei pursed her mouth, but why don't we think so upstairs? They always make "hoo" and "hoo" sounds. Mom said there is a two-year-old brother upstairs who needs exercise when he grows up. Feifei's mouth pursed. My mother is more serious. "Thinking of others is the first skill in life." Then mother told Feifei a story.
That year, my mother returned to the city from my grandmother's house in the countryside, and three people got on the bus at the parking spot at the head of the village-Feifei's mother, who was pregnant for five months, and a middle-aged woman was holding an old man. Her mother took the initiative to let the old man held by the middle-aged woman sit in that seat, but just sat down, the old man stood up and pointed to her and said, it's not convenient for you. Come and sit down, but her mother refused. At this moment, one just got on the bus.
The young man looked up at the old man and didn't care.
The old man turned around and muttered, "Thinking of others is the first effort in life." After a while, he said, "It's worse than an animal to fight for food and a nest."
This time, the young man replied, "You old thing, how can you curse!"
"I'm not swearing, I care about you and love you!"
The young man was ungrateful: "Who are you? Are you tired of living-cancer! " "
The woman holding the old man was so angry that tears rolled out of her eyes. "You're right, my dad is a cancer patient, and it's already late-if you want to be a cancer, just sit there and scold the old man!"
The passengers in the same car were stunned by this scene. Many people stood up and offered their seats to the old man and his mother. The young man got into the car in shame. As soon as he stepped on the brakes, he got out of the car quickly and left without looking back.
My mother sits behind the old man. After the car drove steadily, my mother stood up and asked who the old man was. Why did she say what her father always said?
After the old man asked his mother's and father's names, an excited smile appeared on his face. It turns out that this old man was my grandfather's teacher in middle school. The old man said that "life is first-class kung fu" is a famous saying of Yang Jueshan, a scholar in Ming Dynasty, and all my students can remember it ... "
After listening to this story, Feifei's eyes glistened with tears. She quickly opened her schoolbag, took out a small diary, and neatly wrote down the sentence that Grandpa's teacher, grandparents and mother firmly remembered: "Thinking for others is a first-class merit in life."
Comments: This paper takes the small as the big, and expresses opinions through the small things in life, which makes the theme image of the article stand out and the genre is novel. "Thinking for others is the first effort in life", which is philosophical and thought-provoking.