The student sponsored by Sun Li is named Xiang Haiqing, who is from Chongqing, Sichuan. Xiang Haiqing is a child from a mountainous area. His family is extremely poor, and it is even more difficult for him to study. Studying every day, just walking a dozen miles of mountain roads is torture enough, not to mention having to climb mountains and cross rivers. It is precisely for this reason that Chongqing Satellite TV regarded him as a typical example of poor students having difficulty studying and filmed a documentary "Hope in the Mountains" on him. Sun Li, who was filming a TV series in Kunming, happened to see this program. She was moved by Xiang Haiqing's tenacity to study and sympathized with Xiang Haiqing's difficult fate, so she decided to donate to Xiang Haiqing. Sun Li sponsored Xiang Haiqing

In 2002, Sun Li accidentally learned about the program "Hope in the Mountains". The experience of a poor student named Xiang Haiqing in the program who struggled to study aroused her attention. . In such a difficult environment, she still has an unremitting pursuit of learning. Her calm heart is like a pebble falling into water, causing ripples. Her heart was deeply touched, and she decided to help Xiang Haiqing complete his studies and fulfill his dream. Although she had just debuted at the time, she did not have sufficient funds.

After the program, Sun Li’s mother got in touch with Xiang Haiqing through the program hotline, and at this point, she officially started to support his studies. In May 2002, Xiang Haiqing received the first grant from Sun Li and her daughter. After that, Sun Li's mother often called to care about his life and study. Sun Li wrote letters to communicate with him about the details of his life and study, and sent him encouragement to help him build confidence.

Later, as a repeat student, Xiang Haiqing was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University with the support and care of Sun Li and his daughter. When he started school, Sun Li and her daughter went to the train station to take him to school. As a recipient, Xiang Haiqing met his sponsor for the first time. Only then did he realize that the person sponsoring him was a big star in front of the screen.

According to Sun Li's previous promise to Xiang Haiqing, Sun Li will bear all of his college tuition fees. In addition, Sun Li will also pay an additional 500 yuan for living expenses every month. Sun Li is also responsible for other miscellaneous living expenses. Living conditions in the past are not the same as today. Living expenses of 500 yuan in 2005 were considered average for a college student. I thought Sun Li had donated too little and wrote a long article to slander her

But some people worry not about scarcity but about inequality, and this is the case with Xiang Haiqing. When he found out that his sponsor was Sun Li, he felt like he was hugging her. People are greedy at heart. In college, he lost the fighting spirit he once had, had no intention of studying, spent all his time in bars and games, and even had a girlfriend. The living expenses of 500 yuan were fleeting, and within just a few dozen days, thousands of yuan were demanded from Sun Li.

In addition, he also called Sun Li’s mother to ask for money to buy a mobile phone, but the money he got was only enough to pay for an ordinary mobile phone, which was far from the high-end mobile phone in his mind. It cost 175 yuan to get the better hepatitis B vaccine shortly after I entered school. Not much was left for living expenses soon after I got it. During the phone call with Sun Li's assistant, he hinted that he needed more support.

Xiang Haiqing took Sun Li's support for granted and applied for a 6,000 yuan bursary from the school without her knowledge. He also worked part-time at the school, earning 300 yuan a month. When Sun Li and her daughter learned about this and his series of situations in school, they thought Xiang Haiqing was unsophisticated and stopped supporting him. I also hope that he can become independent. If his requirements are met without restraint, it will be very harmful to his independent development in the future.

But what I didn’t expect was that Xiang Haiqing was an out-and-out white-eyed wolf. Instead of being grateful to Sun Li and her daughter for their previous support, they turned the tables and wrote a eloquent letter that discredited Sun Li and her daughter. According to Xiang Haiqing, during the funding process, Sun Li and her daughter were kind at first, but later became very impatient and even said that he was not as obedient as a dog at home. His own self-esteem was hurt, and he bit back, accusing Sun Li of only deliberately gaining favor and reputation in the name of sponsoring him, and did not fulfill the original agreement.

This matter was sorted out by Qiu Chaoju and posted online, causing an uproar. Both Sun Li and her daughter were accused of unfounded crimes and had no choice but to come forward to explain. However, some netizens discovered through investigation that after receiving funding from Sun Li, Xiang Haiqing used it as a means of showing off and spent money lavishly. He was not as poor as he said. Insufficient greed led to the snake swallowing the elephant, and excessive greed made him lose himself. He hopes to be able to successfully overcome the difficulties of college study through Sun Li, and even directly have a high-paying job. This is tantamount to wishful thinking. How is he doing now?

After this incident happened, everyone knew who was right and who was wrong, and Xiang Haiqing could no longer stay at Haiyan University. He took a year off from studying at Haiyan University, probably to avoid the turmoil. Because he didn't work hard in college and squandered his youth wantonly, he didn't even pass the civil service examination after graduation. Now he is working in an unknown place in Shanghai. Anyway, he has completely disappeared. Such self-destructive future really makes people laugh or cry.

In the many years of assistance from Sun Li and her daughter, what made Xiang Haiqing change from that little boy who was eager to learn to the greedy and ugly person he is today? It has to be said that the outside world is very exciting, but the prerequisite for contacting it is to keep one's original intention, just like the popular saying "Only by never forgetting your original intention can you always succeed." Don't lose yourself in the bustle.

If Xiang Haiqing could stick to his original intention and study hard with this aid, he would definitely be able to make a difference. However, he chose a path of no return and persisted in his own opinion even though he knew he was wrong. . Conclusion:

I wonder if Sun Li will regret donating this child who bites her back? Maybe. But being bitten by a snake does not mean that you refuse to help others. Sun Li has been active in the public eye over the years. She continues to donate money and love to poor children everywhere, hoping that they can have a better future through their own efforts.

But Xiang Haiqing has been forgotten in the public eye, and what he did is just regarded as a joke by people today, a negative teaching material used to educate children.

Xiang Haiqing’s deeds tell readers that as a human being, you must know how to be grateful, be grateful to your parents, be grateful to everyone around you who helps you, and don’t use pity to earn tears and sympathy, but rely on yourself It is a good life to work hard and repay those who have helped you.

Isn't this the best result of not forgetting the original intention?