this phenomenon inadvertently coincides with the psychological "Valenda mentality" (or "Valenda effect")-focusing on the matter itself, but not worrying about the outcome of the matter. It is based on a famous high-altitude tightrope walker Valenda. Valenda is famous for his successful performances, because he always concentrates on the matter of "walking the tightrope" in every performance, and doesn't care about what else it may bring. And finally, Valenda failed once. In a major performance, he unfortunately fell and died. After the incident, Valenda's wife said, "I know something will happen this time. Because he kept muttering before playing,' This time is too important to fail' ... "

A research conclusion from Stanford University in the United States further proves this" Valenda mentality ":an image in a person's brain will stimulate the nervous system as it actually is

. For example, when a golfer repeatedly tells himself "don't hit the ball into the water" before hitting the ball, his mind will naturally see the scene of "the ball falling into the water"; However, the result often backfires < P >, and most of the balls hit in this state of mind will really fall into the water.

After thinking and behavior are determined and started, the result of "getting less and losing more" is often exchanged.

In real life, many people always think too much after deciding to do something they think they should do. Too much care about the possible consequences of things, too much care about other people's attitudes and even gossiping

, too much care about the "future" with many variables. Can just ignore the "heart and soul to do this thing itself." Including the attitude towards others, it often exposes a similar mentality. Generally, people who are more utilitarian and don't take others seriously at all usually have a very overbearing attitude: "I don't care what method you use or how you do it!" All I want is the result ... "And people who are generally calm and realistic and always like to think of others are usually very considerate:" Don't think too much about the result, just concentrate on doing good things. As long as you do your best, it doesn't matter what the result is ... "It just comes to whatever you want. "Valenda mentality" just verified Faraday's famous saying about "the mystery of success": "Try your best to exchange for success, but you will succeed if you don't concentrate; The result is often successful. " This is actually the well-known old saying of objective life: "Work hard in the best direction and think in the worst direction."